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Dinner Tomorrow Night

Cavalier83

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Good afternoon!

I've been good friends with a girl for three years, (not the same girl I posted about last month) Long story-short, we have been wanting to spend time and hang out for a while. Tomorrow night, we finally get to!

Any advice? Of course when it was set, the intention is hanging out. In my mind, it has already evolved into a full-fledged date. We have the same drive in our careers, albeit far different ones. We have the same principles as well- not drinking, carousing, etc...

In a nutshell...although we're meeting up as friends, it could very well turn into something more.

Any help on how to: A) Get over the pressure I've already put on myself.... And, B) Not crash-and-burn?

I posted here last night about a completely different matter. For those who have been keeping up, that has gotten better!

C83
 

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I guess since it was to hang out, to not spend all your time adding layers of romance on top of the hangout.

Might be good to think of time topics to talk about while you are hanging out. Also good to have some open ended questions and listen to her answers.
 
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