Okay, I generally know the answer to the post title, but I wanted to find a good link - like a comparison chart or something for the two? Does anyone know of a good source?
Do all Baptists hold to Calvinist thinking, like in official doctrine or does it vary ? Again, links would help.
I am asking because I was talking with a friend today who has always gone to Baptist or non-denominational, & when I told them I was looking into UMC & wanted to stay within the same theology ( Wesleyan) they didn't understand the difference.
Thanks!
I was raised Missionary Baptist, in summer I visited my grandparents and attended their Primitive Baptist church.
I was raised in a small community in the USA, the Missionary Baptist church I attended had about 250 members.
An man at church (friend of my parents and about their age) stated in church during a discussion that ONLY the people that were members of that particular church would be allowed in Heaven, no other Missionary Baptist or any other branch or region would be allowed in Heaven. Just those 250+ members would be the only ones who got into Heaven, no one before the church was founded would get in either.
This caused a big discussion and the preacher actually agreed with this idiot. My parents and most others, strongly stated that he was wrong and shouldn't be filling peoples head with lies.
This man (and those that agreed with him) and this one incident divided the church with about 70% (guessing) leaving the church.
We changed to another Missionary Baptist church. We didn't like it because it was near a rich neighborhood and most of the members wouldn't speak to or have much to do with new people coming in. We stopped going.
I went to a First Baptist church for a few years but was divided by money as well, those that had more money and tythed more money thought their vote should count more than those that didn't tythe as much.
I am a Spiritual person now and I do not attend church because of the experiences I had with all the churches (Methodist, Episcopalian, Assembly of God, Pentecostal, and others) I went to to try to find the one I liked. Most condemned certain things while accepting divorce, adultery, liers, gamblers, drunks, tax cheats, gossips and other sins. The last three churches I went to within the last ten years were bad as well.
In one a mixed race couple (black male, white female) were absolutely shunned by everyone. Also a gay couple were shunned.
Yet the preacher was divorced three times, his wife divorced twice, most decons and major players in church were divorced, having affairs, gossips, a few were known shoplifters, drunks, drug users and other sinful acts completely accepted by all members of the church.
I was disgusted by their hypocrisy.
Shunning someone because they married outside their race or their sexuality while the majority of members were the biggest sinners I have ever seen was disgusting.
I communicate with God, pray and worship but I won't attend church.
This doesn't really answer your question. Sorry just stating my experience in more that 40 years.