You aren't disagreeing with gotquestions.org's interpretation? You are asserting that God predetermines those individuals who will be enabled to have faith (unconditionally) and those who will not?
Over the last 45 years, I've been studying and praying and watching this 500-year-old debate between "Armenianism" and "Calvinism" (put in quotes because they both have numerous permutations), and realized that every time I see it debated, the dispute not going to be resolved that day.
They both have arguments equally well-supported by scripture--which is why the debate has gone on so long without resolution.
But over the years, I've learned that debates are less meaningful than proceeding with the Mission--which is not under dispute. When all is said and done, there won't be any benefit to have argued a strong debate over the years...but there is benefit to have proceeded with the Mission.
But in proceeding with the Mission, I've observed something:
No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him -- John 6;44
I told you that no one can come to me unless the Father has enabled them -- John 6:65
This is combined with something else Jesus said:
If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, leave that home or town and shake the dust off your feet -- Matthew 10
I've seen 'way too often over the years that some people seem to be prepared to accept the gospel. They can pick up something as crude as a page from a Chick's tract in the gutter and
Ka-Pow! the Holy Spirit has them. They hear it the first time and go, "Whoa! That's what I've been looking for!"
Then there are other people who can have had dozens of people preaching the gospel to them in the most eloquent manner, and they continually resist it. I have very rarely seen anyone "rationalized" into faith.
Something is going on there, something we're not directly privy to, and that that our "audience" for the gospel is not actually everyone, but those individuals who have been enable to accept it...although we don't know who those individuals are merely by looking at them.
But I do think there is something else crucial that must happen:
My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me. -- John 10
That verse says two things: One is that Jesus knows who are His. They are already identified to Him and by Him. The second is that those individuals
will respond to His voice.
But they have to hear His voice, not just someone spouting Christianese Christo-babble at them. It is necessary for the would-be evangelist to be in the right place at the right time speaking the right words to the right people as directed to him by Jesus.
Paul and his companions traveled throughout the region of Phrygia and Galatia, having been kept by the Holy Spirit from preaching the word in the province of Asia. -- Acts 16:6
I always kind of wonder how the Holy Spirit "prevented" them from going into Asia. I suspect it was merely by directing them explicitly Macedonia:
During the night Paul had a vision of a man of Macedonia standing and begging him, "Come over to Macedonia and help us." Acts 16:9
That didn't mean nobody in Asia was enabled to receive the gospel, only that Paul wasn't the right person at the right time who'd say the right thing.
I knew a woman, a former prostitute, who I've spoken of before in these forums. She testified that she'd had preachers shouting Christianese Christo-babble at her many times, telling her she was damned to hell for her sins...and she had fully accepted that.
Then one day, a preacher from our church was speaking on the corner, and she said something held her there while he spoke. Then he said this: "
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! " That was her "wait...what?" moment.
The pastor who had said those words told me that at the end of the sermon, as they were packing to leave that night, a prostitute had walked up to him and put her finger right on his chest demanding, "What you said about a new creation and the old going away...
is that the truth?"
Nobody had ever said to her before that it was possible to actually leave the baggage of sin behind.
It wasn't that she was not enabled--she had been enabled, which is why she felt herself unable to leave. But nobody had spoken to her before
in the voice of Jesus speaking to His lost sheep. "You're going to hell!" is
not "Come to me and be saved."
In fact, hell had
never been that woman's destiny. She was known to Jesus, her name was written in His book, and she had been enabled by the Father. Whoever had told her she was going to hell had been lying to her, and she had not responded to that lie. But she did respond to the voice of Jesus speaking the truth.
That leaves me flirting with concepts that Calvinists have married. For sure, scripture speaks of election, predestination, individual enablement and such. Calvinists tend to preach that in emphasis of God culling out people to be condemned.
Rather, I tend to think of it in terms of creating confidence of success. If I go where Jesus tells me to go, when Jesus tells me to go, and speak to the people Jesus tells me to speak to with the words He has for
them--if I've done those things correctly, I can be confident that He will have someone there who is enabled to accept it.
I think that's the intention of Romans 9.