brat2631, here is my prayer for you, from the model prayer of Jabez.
Oh, Father and giver of every good and perfect gift, expand this young woman's territories, enlarge her coasts: Expand her network of professionals and her band of loving family and friends. Lead into her life those whose influence will lead her to the best help. May your hand be on her and with her, God. Soothe her as you lead her on a journey of emotional healing. Point the right way, and convince her that she's on the path you've chosen. Keep evil from her, and keep her from evil, holy God, so she's not hurt and so she doesn't hurt others. Allow her to see that harming herself calls you a liar and disparages the incredible sacrifice of the son of God. Convince her, God, that mourning lasts the night, but the dawn brings joy and laughter. As a cheerful heart does good like a medicine, so a downcast spirit destroys her very bones. If it's right for her to be treated with medications and/or to seek psychological therapy, lead her to those who will nurture and help, and not harm. Now send your warrior angels to gird her and fight against this ugly enemy, an enemy that clings: we know that only your power can and will peel the enemy's minions from her soul & fling them straight into the pit. Send your ministering angels, compassionate Father, to wash and gently dry her feet; to cool her forehead; to hold her hand; to lift her heart before you for cleansing and healing. Then hold her tight, and rock her gently against the very bosom of God. In Christ's name, for the glory of God, Amen.