Just a request for prayer. I was expecting to retire this year, since I think I'm getting my second pass-over for promotion. However, I just got tagged for a deployment. I'm not expecting to go unless I'm actually promoted, which would be a huge surprise (0-5% chance.)
Ordinarily, this would be just fine for me - I have only deployed once and I regret that. However, my fiancee is freaking out because it's possibly a combat deployment, and I'm just a computer geek. She's also offended that they would tell me I'm not good enough to promote, but are happy to send me to a war zone for six months. I understand the difference, but she doesn't, and the idea of me leaving for six month while we're newlyweds really torques her off.
Just pray that what God wants will happen and that we both can handle it.
Ordinarily, this would be just fine for me - I have only deployed once and I regret that. However, my fiancee is freaking out because it's possibly a combat deployment, and I'm just a computer geek. She's also offended that they would tell me I'm not good enough to promote, but are happy to send me to a war zone for six months. I understand the difference, but she doesn't, and the idea of me leaving for six month while we're newlyweds really torques her off.
Just pray that what God wants will happen and that we both can handle it.