Dealing with perfectionism in an imperfect world?

[Muhan]

To wrap it up how do i live with this issue of not being able to escape future stumbling blocks and battling perfectionism while at the same time not abusing grace? Thanks.

You can't, unless God is your Father.
And if God is your Father
you would be doing it.

Not asking,
how to do it.

If God was your Father
Not only would you be able to escape all stumbling blocks
and overcome all imperfections of this world and your own,
but you would even cease from ever polluting and defiling
the mercy and grace of God.

That is just the nature of God being your Father.