Could you live without...

[Zach91]

Absolutely not. Sexual intimacy is an essential part of a marriage. If she *couldn't* that would be one thing, but if she would deliberately deprive the marriage of physical intimacy... Aw hecks naw homie.

 

[Calvinator]

Hmm. I know of some herbs that could help with that problem.

"Honey, you have an itch?"

"NO! I do not" (shuffles). "Well, maybe". "Why did you insist on cooking dinner tonight?"



Hee hee.

Seriously though, no. Even if she had some psychological reason that was perfectly understandable, I'd still feel rejected on a pretty basic level. Sex is part of the intimacy between two that have bonded. It's importance weighs in with spending time together, communicating, cuddles and everything else.

 

[redblue22]

Lots of weird thoughts about sex that make it uncomfortable. Is it wrong to not want to get completely nasty anymore?

I never really cared about sex. But that might be because I couldn't get away from it. I couldn't so much as give a girl a ride home without her expecting sex. Sex lost a lot of specialness. Life has been like the Brewster's Millions of sex.

The sad part is that I had these weird ideas as a young teen that if I had sex that someone would love me. I was stupid. Or at least it would keep them the night. My folks didn't care who I let spend the night, so I always had a girl there as a kid. Besides everyone left me alone if I had anyone spend the night, guy or girl. Funny part is I was accused when I was a virgin.

I think one of my best memories though is when a friend and I went to an all girl slumber party and no one even made the move. Well, there was the whole swimsuit, makeup, and horror movie thing. Ah, the joy of no pressure sex free night. But that was 7th grade.

I remember some girlfriends wanting to give me a Christmas present of nonguy group after singing to them. While complimented, I decided agsinst it. Morals? No. Disease? Maybe. Love? Honestly, I've given up hope, but I still like the idea. I might have gone for it maybe if it would have been a group love harem kind of thing. I decided not to bring that up though.

Is it so wrong that I want love and commitment? I think then I'd be just fine with all of it. Then I say, baby, buy a reference book.

 

[trentlogain2]

I remember some girlfriends wanting to give me a Christmas present of nonguy group after singing to them.

what is this?

 

[Sweet Melody]

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[jess9450]

Absolutely. I would actually prefer someone who does not want to have sex. They would have to be affectionate in terms of kissing and cuddling though. The chances of meeting someone like that is pretty impossible, though.

I think a couple of people have mentioned that preference on this thread as well...