I understand following Jesus to involve doing as he. So I say him as prototype and exemplar of what a Christian might do, as well as everyhting else he was.
So: Jesus loved others as himself, and in God; and this love redeemed, or proffered redemption to those he so embraced.
I understand that we are called to do the same: where, in being in God through faith; we can call on Christ to carry us through this work.
We continue to do what Jesus did: we are called to be agents of the redemption of others; where this will involve us in the trials of Jesus.
Each of us can accept this work, where we will be spiritually crucified in the doing: as we become agents of Christ work, as others are redeemed in return to God; where, if we refuse such crucifixion, as we freely can, then God cannot manifest in redemptive Christ work.
Each of us can thus serve God in very different ways: our persons and our biographies, load us with God breathed stuff; allowing for singular deployment in God's manifestation, and singular redemption for others, in the redemptive Christ work that manifestation sustains.
I'm here talking about what I can only sense: the evidence and data is not mine; and is only a little available as I surrender to God.
Take it as poetry between friends.
-Existential1