Continued depression about being single.

[artqween]

That's not necessarily true. It says that God will give us the desires of our heart when we make Him the priority in life. The urge for godly companionship and lust are two separate things. When I was a teen, it was mostly lust, whereas now it's an urge for a thoughtful, intelligent and hopefully attractive Christian lady.

God will u guys with a true love..
Just be careful to respect her and not
Lust after her

 

[artqween]

It's your call man.. Just don't get unequally yoked, cause you had a itch. Lust never goes away....It will always be there... read what even Abraham had to tell his wife.

Abra.. Was not cool in my opinion..
His wife deserved better i think
Hey guys

 

[Alienated]

Abra.. Was not cool in my opinion..
His wife deserved better i think
Hey guys

You do know that Abraham honored Sarah's wishes sleeping with Hagar right ? God made woman for man, not man for woman. It's Abraham that's our father because of his faith, Sarah laughed at God in disbelief. It all started with her disbelief. So you don't think Gods decisions are cool ?

 

[artqween]

You do know that Abraham honored Sarah's wishes sleeping with Hagar right ? God made woman for man, not man for woman. It's Abraham that's our father because of his faith, Sarah laughed at God in disbelief. It all started with her disbelief. So you don't think Gods decisions are cool ?

No.. I dont agree. Im sure she didn't
Approve ..
Abraham lincoln?? He wasnt in Gods Era?? A.. Btw. interesting user name
Any meaning to it??

 

[Alienated]

No.. I dont agree. Im sure she didn't
Approve ..
Abraham lincoln?? He wasnt in Gods Era?? A.. Btw. interesting user name
Any meaning to it??

I was talking about Abraham in Genesis.

Lincoln ? Where did you get Lincoln ?


And yes Alienated has allot of meaning. Not fitting the mold of others.
Hated for being different, disregarded for having passion, thrown away for not conforming, abused for not cowering down, left for dead for standing for what is right, ignored for being independent, and abandoned for not giving in.

 

[artqween]

I was talking about Abraham in Genesis.

Lincoln ? Where did you get Lincoln ?

And yes Alienated has allot of meaning. Not fitting the mold of others.
Hated for being different, disregarded for having passion, thrown away for not conforming, abused for not cowering down, left for dead for standing for what is right, ignored for being independent, and abandoned for not giving in.

Thats the only abraham i rememberd
At the time.. Ill check out genesis..
What verse?? Alienated means alone
Being ignored?? Where did u hear about that?? Alienated was a persons name?? Hey btw

 

[Alienated]

Thats the only abraham i rememberd
At the time.. Ill check out genesis..
What verse?? Alienated means alone
Being ignored?? Where did u hear about that?? Alienated was a persons name?? Hey btw

I would suggest you start with " In the beginning" and keep reading.... writing down all your questions. And then get a topical Bible and find the answers.

And stop relying on others to tell you what to believe, it's in the Bible, but you got to read it !!

 

[artqween]

I would suggest you start with " In the beginning" and keep reading.... writing down all your questions. And then get a topical Bible and find the answers.

And stop relying on others to tell you what to believe, it's in the Bible, but you got to read it !!

Meaning?? On the sentence starting with "And"?? i keep an open mind/ Calld listening :-/?? hey btw

 

[Purge187]

After praying rather steadily for a childfree Christian mate for three years now, I'm starting to feel like throwing in the towel. TBH, only reason I'd want to get married is for the sex, and after doing some research on the Men Going Their Own Way movement, I'm starting to realize that most women aren't worthy of me or many other guys like me. I've told God on several occassions about how frustrating and enraging the search was, and now it looks like He might finally be "taking the cup" from me.

 

[artqween]

After praying rather steadily for a childfree Christian mate for three years now, I'm starting to feel like throwing in the towel. TBH, only reason I'd want to get married is to get laid, and after doing some research on the Men Going Their Own Way movement, I'm starting to realize that women aren't worthy of me or many other guys like me. I've told God on several occassions about how frustrating and enraging the search was, and now it looks like He might finally be"taking tne cup" from me.

U r trying to hard.. u've got to have some female friends u hang out with over there? In ur neighborhood?.. U go to church right? Play a little hard to get sort of my friend... u may be sending weird vibes, thats why u r having a hard time possibly??
Hey btw..

 

[aflower4God]

After praying rather steadily for a childfree Christian mate for three years now, I'm starting to feel like throwing in the towel. TBH, only reason I'd want to get married is for the sex, and after doing some research on the Men Going Their Own Way movement, I'm starting to realize that most women aren't worthy of me or many other guys like me. I've told God on several occassions about how frustrating and enraging the search was, and now it looks like He might finally be "taking the cup" from me.

Dear brother I will pray for God's will for you. I am like you, I have thrown in the towel especially after that man who used me as the rebound girl did what he did, used me. But so many people say that it is HIS lost not mine, in fact I am blessed being free of that man and the way he used me.
BUT it is a great thing that you are still a virgin many women (GODLY WOMEN) want a man who has waited for their mate. That shows that you value your beliefs and yourself as a person, I think it is a great quality dear brother.
What may help you that helps me as of late to deal with my hurt, I have started blogging on here (CF) my feelings. It feels good to vent and not be judged for it, you could also journal that may help you as well my friend.
I am praying for you brother.
God bless you

 

[artqween]

Dear brother I will pray for God's will for you. I am like you, I have thrown in the towel especially after that man who used me as the rebound girl did what he did, used me. But so many people say that it is HIS lost not mine, in fact I am blessed being free of that man and the way he used me.
BUT it is a great thing that you are still a virgin many women (GODLY WOMEN) want a man who has waited for their mate. That shows that you value your beliefs and yourself as a person, I think it is a great quality dear brother.
What may help you that helps me as of late to deal with my hurt, I have started blogging on here (CF) my feelings. It feels good to vent and not be judged for it, you could also journal that may help you as well my friend.
I am praying for you brother.
God bless you

Awww never give up sis. the right man will come along. He prob.ly has as a friend form? A healthy, nuturing relationships is like beautiful flower from the seed / up. U love, feed,...
God plez help them in their goal for a healthy mate to love them/..

 

[Bristecom]

After praying rather steadily for a childfree Christian mate for three years now, I'm starting to feel like throwing in the towel. TBH, only reason I'd want to get married is for the sex, and after doing some research on the Men Going Their Own Way movement, I'm starting to realize that most women aren't worthy of me or many other guys like me. I've told God on several occassions about how frustrating and enraging the search was, and now it looks like He might finally be "taking the cup" from me.

Hey Purge, with all due respect, from that statement and your original post, it sounds like you may not be going about this with the right intent or perspective - which could be why God's waiting on you (although I'm not exactly convinced He determines who gets married).

Although there is no denying that sex is part of marriage, the main purpose is to have someone help you progress in your relationship and servitude of Christ. Also, if you were to have sex with a hooker and kill yourself, then it's game over. You let the devil win and will likely be under God's wrath. And as others said, that is obviously not what you really want and not true satisfaction. True satisfaction can only be found in living in and for Christ (which I am also struggling to achieve). But part of the Christian life is accepting all sufferings for Christ, including being single and alone if necessary. Don't forget that we have died in our sins and have taken up the cross.

Also, I'm not sure about that men's movement but you're probably better off not getting mixed up with that. You're letting your confusion and desperation get the best of you. Although a lot of women are immature and selfish, we all have our faults and unique roles so no man is too good for all women (except for Jesus ). So that mindset will clearly get you nowhere. But I could understand if you were looking at this from Paul's perspective of being so focused on Christ and His eternal kingdom that you feel like you don't have time or a need for a woman.

Obviously since you read my recent thread, you know that I too am dealing with singleness issues so I understand how it can drive you crazy at times. But it sounds like God is attempting to answer your prayers by allowing you to lead that church group now which is great. But just try to get things back into perspective so that you are realigned with God's will thru Christ and so you can help others along like you. Keep us informed.

 

[artqween]

Hey Purge, with all due respect, from that statement and your original post, it sounds like you may not be going about this with the right intent or perspective - which could be why God's waiting on you (although I'm not exactly convinced He determines who gets married).

Although there is no denying that sex is part of marriage, the main purpose is to have someone help you progress in your relationship and servitude of Christ. Also, if you were to have sex with a hooker and kill yourself, then it's game over. You let the devil win and will likely be under God's wrath. And as others said, that is obviously not what you really want and not true satisfaction. True satisfaction can only be found in living in and for Christ (which I am also struggling to achieve). But part of the Christian life is accepting all sufferings for Christ, including being single and alone if necessary. Don't forget that we have died in our sins and have taken up the cross.

Also, I'm not sure about that men's movement but you're probably better off not getting mixed up with that. You're letting your confusion and desperation get the best of you. Although a lot of women are immature and selfish, we all have our faults and unique roles so no man is too good for all women (except for Jesus ). So that mindset will clearly get you nowhere. But I could understand if you were looking at this from Paul's perspective of being so focused on Christ and His eternal kingdom that you feel like you don't have time or a need for a woman.

Obviously since you read my recent thread, you know that I too am dealing with singleness issues so I understand how it can drive you crazy at times. But it sounds like God is attempting to answer your prayers by allowing you to lead that church group now which is great. But just try to get things back into perspective so that you are realigned with God's will thru Christ and so you can help others along like you. Keep us informed.

Welcome and aww.. Consider not looking and be friends first with ur lady friends and go from there.. and let Gods graces help u.. Hey btw.. Good luck..

 

[aflower4God]

Awww never give up sis. the right man will come along. He prob.ly has as a friend form? A healthy, nuturing relationships is like beautiful flower from the seed / up. U love, feed,...
God plez help them in their goal for a healthy mate to love them/..

Awww thank you so much my dear sweet loving sis (((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))) You are a huge blessing!!!

 

[artqween]

Awww thank you so much my dear sweet loving sis (((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))) You are a huge blessing!!!

U r welcome. Hugs right back at ya sis
cheer up. Make lots of male friends. consider being friends first
and let it grow from there? know what u r looking for in a partner? Alwsys know what to looj for in an abusive relationship so u can avoid it? if dome day u may get preg.d u dont want ur future child exper.ing it either ??
Hey btw may u always feel strong bold courageous, hopeful harmony filld and etc ;-).... Sis

 

[artqween]

Awww thank you so much my dear sweet loving sis (((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))) You are a huge blessing!!!

I dedicate these to u allLllllllllll.....
Check'm out

 

[Purge187]

Thanks for the kind words, guys.

I was driving home from church Sunday morning when I confessed to God about why I'd fallen away from Him all those years ago. Since then, I'm not nearly as focused on getting married as I once was, and there's a clarity and peace in my heart and mind that I haven't felt since I was saved. I think I've reached a "38th Chapter of Job" moment in my life where God said to the enemy: "You tried to cause my servant to fall away from Me again and it didn't work. Let him be." Pray that this is the case, friends; I want this newfound closeness to God to last.

 

[artqween]

Thanks for the kind words, guys.

I was driving home from church Sunday morning when I confessed to God about why I'd fallen away from Him all those years ago. Since then, I'm not nearly as focused on getting married as I once was, and there's a clarity and peace in my heart and mind that I haven't felt since I was saved. I think I've reached a "38th Chapter of Job" moment in my life where God said to the enemy: "You tried to cause my servant to fall away from Me again and it didn't work. Let him be." Pray that this is the case, friends; I want this newfound closeness to God to last.

U r welcome ask ur friends (close) near u for help.. ask ur folks for help.. God plez help P. ..

 

[Krissy Cakes]

I'm praying for you.