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I can't imagine! I'll be praying for you.

And I feel all sad/mad because I haven't heard anything from my guy :/ nothing compared to what you're going through.

it's natural to be sad/mad with your situation. i hope it will get better soon.
 
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Thank you everyone for your advice and prayers!

Update: he called me yesterday. He said he got caught up with work then since he didn't hear from me (from my initial text he didn't reply to) he just decided not to. Felt like he was blaming me.

Either way. After small talk. He said it's not fair for me, that I deserve better, that he thinks it's best for it to end. Since work takes up so much of his time.

I am so broken-hearted. Feel like I lost not only my S.O but best friend. All he could say was sorry, that he loves me, but he can't seem to find time for me. Now I'm left here hurt, mad, maybe even hating him for what he did.
 
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Confusion is obviously not from God.

Agreed, but I think GOD speaks the clearest, or rather we see HIM (clearest) when we are in the storm.

In fact, HE comes to us in the storm.
-eric
 
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Thank you everyone for your advice and prayers!

Update: he called me yesterday. He said he got caught up with work then since he didn't hear from me (from my initial text he didn't reply to) he just decided not to. Felt like he was blaming me.

Either way. After small talk. He said it's not fair for me, that I deserve better, that he thinks it's best for it to end. Since work takes up so much of his time.

I am so broken-hearted. Feel like I lost not only my S.O but best friend. All he could say was sorry, that he loves me, but he can't seem to find time for me. Now I'm left here hurt, mad, maybe even hating him for what he did.

awww man. prayers and hugs for you! be strong girl! continue to cling unto the Lord. talk to your friends and/or family. send me a message should you need someone to talk to.
 
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awww man. prayers and hugs for you! be strong girl! continue to cling unto the Lord. talk to your friends and/or family. send me a message should you need someone to talk to.
Thank you! I am, God is definitely helping me with strength. I'm just hurting.
 
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