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Hey Joe, do you trust this girl? If you do, take her word and forget and forgive. It's the best policy.

If you don't trust her as much, forgive her, but you may not want to forget, as quickly.

I would say, give her a second chance, either way, especially if she is wanting you to stay.
 
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Hello,

I do trust her, because she is so strong with the Lord, so it makes it hard for me to believe that she could be capable of doing such things, but after hearing most of you say that she may be hiding something makes me doubt her.

This is so hard, especially since i can't see her everyday and tell her how much i love her and how much God loves her.
 
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If you trust her so much, give her a chance. She was probably taken aback, at your doubts, and it threw her off.

Ask her when a good time would be, to call her daily, then stick to it. Don't be pushy, but reinforce how much you love her. Little things make a big difference.
 
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