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cristianna

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I am on the same page about worrying (or the lack thereof) as cristianna.
I really don't worry about anything.
I think after all these years seeing everything working out in the end (thanks to God), I just relax. They may not go exactly as I plan but see after things are settled or over that it worked for the better His way.
(Which bugs my hubby too)
Especially with finances, things can look bleak at times but they work out.
And just alot of other things.

My hubby is the opposite, he worries about everything. He can't sleep lots of nights because of it. God wants us to have peace and that comes with trusting Him in and with everything.

You have my sympathies because I know how much my dh's worry habit drives me bonkers; he literally wakes up and goes to bed worrying.

Once I heard a phrase something to this effect: Staying angry and holding hard feelings is like being killed by one bee repeatedly stinging you.

I always want to tell dh that he's allowing the one bee of worry to kill him, but thus far I've refrained.
 
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You have my sympathies because I know how much my dh's worry habit drives me bonkers; he literally wakes up and goes to bed worrying.

Once I heard a phrase something to this effect: Staying angry and holding hard feelings is like being killed by one bee repeatedly stinging you.

I always want to tell dh that he's allowing the one bee of worry to kill him, but thus far I've refrained.

That is a good way to put it.
I tell my hubby nicely to give it to all to God and not to worry. Not only does he not, he doesn't even try to. He says "I am the man it is my job to worry" :sigh:

Well , it is not!
 
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I don't worry much anymore, God has always worked things for my benefit. Sometimes it takes years though....

Sleeplessness comes when I'm hurt by somebody whom I care about or when working on a problem.

Worry only helps when it motivates me to actions I should take.
 
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Hmmm . . . well worry was always my biggest problem. My mum's natural reaction to things was panic as I was growing up, and I only really learnt that there were other options when I went to uiniversity and saw my new friends responsding without panic to things.

It's been a very long journey for me, and worry is still an automatic reaction for me, although I am a lot better than I was. Each time I am about to worry, I try to transform the worry into prayer, either a supplication, asking God to do something about the thing I am worried about, or a reaffirmation of my trust in Him and His control. Sometimes though I become filled with anxiety, and it's not linked to worry as such - it just feels like it comes over me. I have a sense of dread about everything, and everything becomes difficult. I have learnt over time that the best thing to do is the thing that is filling me with dread!

It was when I understood that God told us Do not worry rater than 'try not to worry' that I really started working on not worrying, and instead in trusting God. If He tells us not to worry, I reasoned, then worry is a sin and it is possible not to do it, just as it is possible not to commit other sins.

Anyway, a good topic, and very timely, thank you.

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That is a good way to put it.
I tell my hubby nicely to give it to all to God and not to worry. Not only does he not, he doesn't even try to. He says "I am the man it is my job to worry" :sigh:

Well , it is not!
Are you sure that's not my husband you're talking about!

I don't worry - I just assume that God knows what He is doing and will work things out.
This really is a gift from God - I used to be a terrible worrier! But He has taught me to trust Him - and I am so very grateful!

God bless you all.
 
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Sorry this is late. I don't know if there were CF problems, or connection problemsm on my end.

May 23, 2007

A Legend of Faith

By Susanne Scheppmann

“Even when I am old and gray, do not forsake me, O God, till I declare your power to the next generation, your might to all who are to come.” Psalm 71:18 (NIV)


Devotion:
Susanna Wesley’s life changed history. How? She gave a legacy of faith to her children. Born in 1669 to a Christian minister and his wife, she grew up in a culture of devout Christian faith. Susanna imparted her understanding of Christ to her own children, instructing them in biblical knowledge and praying diligently for them an hour each day. At least once a week she took them aside individually to discuss spiritual matters.

Her legacy to this world is John and Charles Wesley. Both of these men became leaders in the spiritual revival known as “The Great Awakening.” John Wesley founded the Methodist denomination and other Wesleyan denominations, as well as theological beliefs and traditions that are named after him. Charles Wesley not only preached but also wrote many of our traditional hymns.

Susanna’s maternal influence bore rich fruit in these men’s lives. The power of their Christian faith came about as a direct result of their godly mother. She actively lived out her faith in their home. Her accomplishments as a mother resulted in sons who continued to pass down her inheritance of faith.

Throughout Scripture, examples are given of women who influenced their children in a godly way. The mother of Moses hid him for three months and then placed Moses in a water resistant basket to save him from death. Moses led the children of Israel out of slavery. Hannah dedicated her three-year-old son, Samuel, to the Lord. He became a mighty prophet. The apostle Paul wrote about a mother and grandmother who influenced a young disciple named Timothy. “I have been reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also” (2 Timothy 1:5 NIV).

What word described their faith? Sincere faith. Timothy’s grandmother Lois, and his mother Eunice, held a positive sway in the life of Timothy because of their sincere faith. I do not want my children to see my faith as a mediocre belief system. I want to leave them a legend of living and active faith.

Proverbs 17:6 states, “Children's children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children” (NIV). Although I am certainly not Susanna Wesley, I hope my children take pride in me as their mother. (I am certainly glorying in my grandchildren!) I wait with great anticipation to see what Christian heritage will pass from me, to my children, and to my grandchildren.

So what will be our legend of faith? Shall we begin today to live out a dynamic faith that our children can watch, understand, and imitate?


Dear Lord, I desire to leave a legacy of faith to my children. Inspire me to pray for them daily. Instruct me on how I may leave an inheritance of godliness to my children, my grandchildren, and to others who look to me as an example. Lord, let my faith shine brightly even after I leave this earth. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.


Reflections:
Make a list of things to share with your children about your relationship with Jesus. Determine to discuss things of faith daily with each child.

What will my children recall after I die?

Do I make a concentrated effort to teach my children about Jesus?

Do I pray for my children on a regular basis?


Power Verses:
Proverbs 31:28-30, “Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: ‘Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.’ Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” (NIV)

Proverbs 17:6, “Children's children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children.” (NIV)

2 Timothy 1:5, “I have been reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.” (NIV)

 
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So how are you doing? Are you a scaredy bear or do you trust God in all things?

This is an excellent topic, as usual! I know that I am a big worrier - I always have been and I need a lot of work in this area - it's hard for me to hand everything over to God, even though that is what he wants me to. Sometimes I just don't take the time to sit back and realize that I am actually obsessing over something - it just happens. But this does remind of one amazing day about 3 years ago. DH and I were struggling financially. I was looking around and wondering why it was us that was having so many problems with everything. Why we couldn't get caught up. It got to me so bad, that I finally thought of someone telling me that the best way to pray is to go into a room, close the door and speak one on one with God - give him my undivided attention. So, I did. I felt like I was at the end of my rope. So I picked up my bible, and just let it fall open. It happened to turn to Matthew - the verses about not worrying - about how God takes cares of the birds in the air and the flowers in the field - and if he does this, than why wouldn't he take care of us too? One line caught my eye: "oh ye of little faith" - that was me. I had no faith that everything would be okay - that God would take care of me. I tried to do it all on my own. Once I stepped back and let him take care of me, I was fine. This has always been my dad's favorite bible verse too. I can remember whenever my mom would complain about something, he would say: remember the bible verse about the birds? We always knew which one he meant, and I think about it a lot now that I have left home. My dad has a strong faith and can put everything into God's hands, I want to be able to do the same.

And isn't that proof that God takes care of us, even when we don't ask? I am sure that it was His guidance that caused my bible to open up to that specific verse.
 
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What will my children recall after I die?
I don't have any children yet, but I can only hope that I am as good a teacher to them as my parents were to me. They are strong christians and have passed that down to all three of us kids. I would not be who I am today without that.

Do I make a concentrated effort to teach my children about Jesus? Once I have children, I plan to do just that. I want my children to have the same benefits I had as a child. To know Jesus as I do.

Do I pray for my children on a regular basis?
lol - I pray daily that I can HAVE children! I think I could add to my prayers, though, that once I do - that God gives me the wisdom and the patience to teach them of Jesus and His love.
 
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Reflections:
Make a list of things to share with your children about your relationship with Jesus. Determine to discuss things of faith daily with each child.


What will my children recall after I die?

Do I make a concentrated effort to teach my children about Jesus?

Do I pray for my children on a regular basis?

That's a great idea to make a list of things to share about Jesus; because He's done so many wonderful things that it's hard to keep em all straight!

I hope what my children will recall after I die is my steadfast relationship with Jesus Christ first. That I was a good person and stood for something and had integrity because of my relationship with Christ.

I wish I had done alot more to show them the love of Christ when they were smaller and I had more "control" over their lives. That is a regret I will always have. But I know God has another plan and way to lead them to Him and for them to serve Him.

You betchya! I pray for not only my children; but my precious granddaughter; my parents, siblings, nephew, neices, and great nephews on a consistent basis.

Great topic as always!

And by the way cristianna . . . I had trouble getting on earlier too; so it wasn't just you. Think CF might have been having some issues.
 
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Make a list of things to share with your children about your relationship with Jesus. Determine to discuss things of faith daily with each child.

What will my children recall after I die?

Do I make a concentrated effort to teach my children about Jesus?

Do I pray for my children on a regular basis?

CF wasn't working for me either - I think its been down.

Making a list is a wonderful idea - I should do that.

I do try to teach my children about Jesus, and we worship Him together in the car a lot! And they are developing their own relationship with Him, which is beautiful to watch. My 7 year old wrote a song to Jesus last week which made me cry!

I don't think I pray for them enough, though. I tend to pray about their immediate needs and issues, but not in a "long term" way, which is important. We pray for each other about illness, exams, problems with friends and so on, but I do need to spend more time praying for their spiritual needs too.

As for what they would remember if I died - I honestly haven't ever thought about that. I hope that they would remember that I loved Jesus and loved them. And forget all the times I lost my temper with them! :sigh:

Thanks, Christianna - a lot to think about there.
God bless you.
 
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What a great topic cristianna!

I know I lack in all that I should do. I am going to take this topic/devotion not just for today, the week, the month, but much further.

This was so for me, I feel the Lord speaking to me now showing me many things of the past, and many things for now and the future.

God bless you all!
 
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How's Your Love Life?, Part 12
Series: How's Your Love Life?



There are comedians on television who make a living from pointing out the mistakes of others. It's easy for us to get into the habit of doing the same. But if we are walking in love, we won't point out others' failures.

Many years ago, a shabbily dressed boy trudged several miles through the snowy streets of Chicago determined to attend the Bible class that was conducted by D. L. Moody. When he arrived, he was asked, "Why did you come to a Sunday school so far away? Why didn't you go over to one of the churches that's nearer to where you live?" The little boy answered simply, "Because you love a fellow over here."

That little boy was drawn to the place where he knew that he would be loved with the love of God. In fact, the love of God was one of the great messages of D. L. Moody's ministry. Do you know why it was such a great message for D. L. Moody?

Because there came a point in his life where he experienced a fresh sense of how great was God's love for him. When you've known what it is to be loved by God's incredible, infinite love, then you really can't help but let that love overflow from you into the lives of others around you.

I wonder how many people there are around us who would be drawn to us--drawn to our home, drawn to our church, drawn to our circle of fellowship--if they knew that "you love a fellow over there."

Let's look at this characteristic--actually, two characteristics here--that are kind of the opposite side of the same coin. "Love does not rejoice in iniquity." Paul is saying that love--God's kind of love--doesn't find pleasure in wickedness. It doesn't sympathize with wickedness done by others. Instead, true love is grieved. It's wounded when sin performs its destructive work.

I think of that passage where Samuel was told by God that he was to take a message to King Saul that the crown had been taken from Saul because of Saul's disobedience. There is that verse in Samuel that just amazes me when I read it. It says that Samuel grieved all night long when God told him that Saul no longer would be king. Samuel had a loving heart that grieved over Saul's sin.

You see, love never takes satisfaction from sin. Love doesn't justify sin. How common that is in our culture today--to justify, to glory and delight and rejoice in sin! Think about some of the sitcoms on television. All you need to do is turn it on for just a minute, and you're likely to find people laughing at evil, rejoicing in unrighteousness.

But it's not just sitcoms. Sometimes this happens in relation to the news. We hear about a moral failure on the part of some national leader or even maybe a respected Christian leader. If God were to examine our hearts, would He find that maybe we're just a little bit curious? We really want to hear the gory details. We act shocked, maybe; but are we deep down feeling self-righteous about not doing those things ourselves--rather than being truly grieved over sin? We may even be glad to see someone else fall. Maybe jealousy has made us glad to see if they stumble and fall.
Gossip comes into this category--listening to and telling things about other people, even if true, that are not edifying. I think it's one of the most common forms of rejoicing in evil.

Here is another way I think sometimes that we rejoice in iniquity. That's by just making jokes or light of sin--laughing at sin. You and I should never make light of something that is sinful, never make light of a situation where you belittled your husband, where you spoke disrespectfully of your boss; and you're telling someone else about this--but now laughing about it. "You should have heard what I told them!" We shouldn't be laughing at those things.

(We should not be) Laughing at losing our temper or leaving a mate, laughing about yelling at children, laughing about gluttony, overspending, divorce, immorality and lust. The Corinthians were arrogant rather than grieving over their sin, over the men in their midst who had been involved in incest. If you and I love God, what offends Him will offend us. What grieves Him will grieve us.

Do you love righteousness and do you hate evil? That's what was said of Jesus in Hebrews 1: that He loved righteousness and He hated iniquity. Could that be said of you? Are you grieved when you sin or when another believer sins? Do you laugh when sin or wrong attitudes or words or behavior are presented in a humorous light or are you grieved? Do you sympathize with others in their wrongdoing or their wrong thinking about God and His ways? Love does not delight in evil. It does not rejoice in iniquity.

Here is the other side of that coin: Love does rejoice in the truth. What does that mean? I think there are several ways that can be lived out in our lives. First of all, if I have a heart of love toward God, then I'm going to be willing to have God show me the truth about my own life. I will rejoice in the truth. Scripture says that God wants truth in my innermost person.

You say, "If God wants to show me my errors, that's okay." But here is where we get defensive: when God uses someone else to show us our errors. We've been taking this little love test. Could I suggest something very courageous? If you're not sure how you rate on some of these qualities, you may want to ask your husband or your children. Am I a loving woman? Am I patient? Am I kind? Do I fit these characteristics? If you love righteousness, if you rejoice in the truth, you'll be willing to receive correction.

When we rejoice in the truth, that means we cannot tolerate wrong doctrine. The world's view is that the loving thing is to be tolerant of every religion. Let me tell you this, ladies: If Christianity is true--and it is--then being tolerant of every other religion is actually a most unloving thing to do. If Jesus Christ is the only way to God, then it's an act of unkindness and hatred toward others to let them go on in their way to God apart from Jesus Christ. The loving thing is to point people to the truth.

True love is willing to speak the truth to those who have strayed, those who have wandered from the pathway of righteousness. It's not easy to go to someone--a brother or sister or someone that you love--and say with meekness in your heart and with humility--"I may be a million miles off, but it seems that this may be an issue you're struggling with. I am burdened for you. I've been praying for you. You may not even be aware that this is how you're communicating." It's hard to go to someone and show them the truth about their life--maybe about as hard as someone coming to us and telling us the truth about our life. But we need each other.

If someone wanders from the truth, it's the loving thing to do--to go and say, "Let me help restore you;" not just to talk about that person--"Can you believe what she did to her husband?" Don't go to another person. That's not the loving thing to do. That's the selfish, proud, arrogant thing to do. The loving thing to do is to go and say, "Let me help you," to risk the possible rejection or misunderstanding (that they may not receive what you say). But you know, if it's done in a spirit of meekness, there's a good chance they will.

Some of my best friends are the people who have loved me enough to say, "Here's the truth." It hurts at the moment, but I'm so thankful that people have loved me enough throughout my life to say, "I think you'd want to be aware of this." (They loved me enough) To be honest. "Faithful are the wounds of a friend."
"Love rejoices in the truth." That's why Paul says, "Whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, just, pure, lovely, of good report, if there's any virtue and if there's anything praiseworthy, meditate on these things"(Philippians 4:8). Love the things that are good and pure and wholesome. That's God's kind of love.

So how are you doing on this test? Do you welcome others sharing the truth with you about your life and your needs? It takes a humble heart to receive that kind of correction. But Proverbs says that the wise man will receive reproof and that those wounds are faithful wounds. Are you discerning about doctrinal truth and error? Or do you think it doesn't really matter what people believe? That's their way; I've got my way.

It does matter. Love cares about the truth.

Are you willing to speak the truth to those who have wandered from it, even if that means risking rejection?
 
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Reflections:
Make a list of things to share with your children about your relationship with Jesus. Determine to discuss things of faith daily with each child.

What will my children recall after I die?

Do I make a concentrated effort to teach my children about Jesus?

Do I pray for my children on a regular basis?

I'm trying to get caught up, and I'm hoping to reply to today's before everyone gets the dinner crankies. :)

This is a very difficult area for me to work on due to my marriage to a wavering mannequin for God (that's my new polite term for him). I need guidance in areas of raising my children. I'm tired of having to go to God for it and not dh.

DH has terrific morals and values, and was raised in a very strict and essentric christian home. Unfortunately he has turned away-- actually well before we married, but I certainly had no religion in the beginning of my life or marriage either.

Needless to say from a religious standpoint, our home is not the best environment when trying to raise children in faith. About a week ago I asked dh what his opinion was in regards to the children listening to non-secular music and the percentage he found acceptable. His response was anything but nice-- eye rollling with barbaric grunting/groaning. So I dropped it.

I wanted his opinion #1 because he is my dh, #2 his support in whatever decision was made and also #3 because the oldest is about to turn 12. What I do now is buy them a cd and preview it. If there are any songs I don't agree to (rarely do I have to do this) I just burn the cd without the song(s), and I explain what song is not there, why and we talk about it.

As you can see I'm very torn. I know my first priority is God. But I always feel as if I could be doing a better job if I had the support of dh. I feel there's just so much lacking without his support, his opinion and feedback and his example setting.

Given all of that I don't know how to compare if I'm doing a well job or not. And that is why I enjoyed this devo so much. If nothing else it's guidelines to help me.

I hope after my death my children recall my love and belief of God even without the support of their father.

I do and do not make a concentrated effort to teach them about God. Obviously the majority of it is done when dh is not around. He's never flat out demanded no religous talk, but it's just easier that way.

I do pray for my children on a regular basis. Unfortunately I think I'm so concerned about long term effects of my uy status, I forget to pray for anything short-term with the exception of major things that come up-- bullying, nightmares and nighttime fear, etc.
 
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So how are you doing on this test? Do you welcome others sharing the truth with you about your life and your needs? It takes a humble heart to receive that kind of correction. But Proverbs says that the wise man will receive reproof and that those wounds are faithful wounds. Are you discerning about doctrinal truth and error? Or do you think it doesn't really matter what people believe? That's their way; I've got my way.
It does matter. Love cares about the truth.

Are you willing to speak the truth to those who have wandered from it, even if that means risking rejection?

Good one! I'm going to have to think hard about this one.
 
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The Lord is my Shepherd: part 13

May 25, 2007
You Anoint My Head With Oil
'When we come to God. . . we come with high
hopes and a humble heart.'


In ancient Israel shepherds used oil for three purposes: to repel insects, to prevent conflicts, and to heal wounds.
Bugs bug people, but they can kill sheep. Flies, mosquitoes, and gnats can turn the summer into a time of torture for the livestock. Consider nose flies for example. If they succeed in depositing their eggs into the soft membrane of the sheep's nose, the eggs become worm-like larvae, which drive the sheep insane. One shepherd explains: " For relief from this agonizing annoyance sheep will deliberately beat their heads against trees, rocks, posts, or brush. . . In extreme cases of intense infestation a sheep my even kill itself in a frenzied endeavor to gain respite from the aggravation."
When a swarm of nose flies appear, sheep panic. They run. They hide. They toss their heads up and down for hours. They forget to eat. They aren't able to sleep. Ewes stop milking, and lambs stop growing. The entire flock can be disrupted, even destroyed by the presence of a few flies.
For this reason, the shepherd anoints the sheep. He covers their heads with an oil-like repellent. The fragrance keeps the insects at bay and the flock at peace.
At peace, that is, until mating season. Most of the year, sheep are calm, passive animals. But during mating season, everything changes. The rams put the" ram " in rambunctious.They strut around the pasture and flex their necks, trying to win the attention of the new gal on the block. When a ram catches her eye, he tosses his head back and says, ' I want ewe, baby. ' About that time her boyfriend shows up and tells her to go someplace safe. " Ewe better move, sweetie. This could get ugly." The two rams lower their heads and POW! An old fashioned head butt breaks out.
To prevent injury, the shepherd anoints the rams. He smears a slippery, greasy substance over the nose and head. This lubricant causes them to glance off rather than crash into each other.
They still tend to get hurt, however. And these wounds are the third reason the shepherd anoints the sheep.
Most of the wounds the shepherd treats are simply the result of living in the pasture. Thorns prick or rocks cut or a sheep rubs its head too hard against a tree. Sheep get hurt. As a result, the shepherd regularly, often daily, inspect the sheep, searching for cuts and abrasions. He doesn't want the cuts to worsen. He doesn't want today's wounds to become tomorrow's infections.
Neither does God. Just like sheep, we have wounds, bur ours are wounds of the heart that come from disappointment after disappointment. If we're not careful ,these wounds lead to bitterness. And so just like sheep, we need to be treated. " He made us, and we belong to him, we are his people, the sheep he tends" (Psalm 100:3).
Sheep aren't the only ones who need preventive care, and sheep aren't the only ones who need a healing touch. We also get irritated with each other, butt heads, and then get wounded. Many of our disappointments in life begin as irritations. The large portion of our problems are not lion sized attacks, but rather the day to day swarm of frustration and mishaps and heartaches. You don't get invited to the dinner party. You don't make the team. You don't get the scholarship. Your boss doesn't notice your hard work. Your husband doesn't notice your new dress. Your neighbor doesn't notice the mess in his yard. You find yourself more irritable, more gloomy, more. . . well, more hurt.
Like the sheep, you don't sleep well, you don't eat well. You may even hit your head against a tree a few times.
Or you may hit your head against a person. it's amazing how hardheaded we can be with each other. Some of our deepest hurts come from butting heads with people.
Like the sheep, the rest of our wounds come just from living in the pasture. The pasture of the sheep, however, is much more appealing. The sheep have to face wounds from thorns and thistles. We have to face aging, loss, and illness. Some of us face betrayal and injustice. Live long enough in this world, and most of us will face deep deep hurt of some kind or another.
So we, like the sheep, get wounded. And we, like the sheep, have a Shepherd. Remember the words we read? " We belong to him; we are his people, the sheep he tends" (Psalm 100:3). He will do for you what the shepherd does for the sheep. he will tend to you.
If you will let him. How? How do you let him? The steps are so simple.
First, go to him. David would trust his wounds to no other person but God. He said, " You anoint my head with oil." Not, " your prophets," " your teachers," or "your counselors." Others may guide us to God. Others may help us understand God. But no one does the work of God, for only God can heal. God " heals the brokenhearted."(Psalm 147:3).
Have you taken your disappointments to God? You've shared them with your neighbor, your relatives, your friends. But have you taken them to God? James says, " Anyone who is having troubles should pray" (James 5:13).
Before you go anywhere else with your disappointments, go to God.
Maybe you don't want to trouble God with your hurts. After all, He's got famines and pestilence and wars, he won't care about my little struggles, you think. Why don't you let him decide that? He cared enough about a wedding to provide wine. He cared enough about Peter's tax payment to give him a coin. He cared enough about the woman at the well to give her answers. " He cares about you."(1 Peter 5:7).
Your first step is to go to the right person. Go to God. Your second step is to assume the right posture. Bow before God.
In order to be anointed, the sheep must stand still, lower their heads, and let the shepherd do his work. Peter urges us to " be humble under God's powerful hand so he will lift you up when the right time comes"(1 Peter 5:6).
When we come to God we make requests: we don't make demands. We come with high hopes and a humble heart. We state what we ant, but we pray for what is right. And if God gives us the prison of Rome instead of the mission of Spain, we accept it because we know, " God will always give what is right to his people who cry to him night and day, and he will not be slow to answer them" (Luke 18:7).
We go to him. We bow before him, and we trust in him.
The sheep doesn't understand why the oil repels the flies. The sheep doesn't understand how the oil heals the wounds. In fact, all the sheep knows is that something happens in the presence of the shepherd. And that's all we need to know as well. " Lord, I give myself to you; my God. I trust you"(Psalm 25:1-2).
Go.
Bow.
Trust.
Worth a try don't you think?
 
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rosiecotton said:
So how are you doing on this test? Do you welcome others sharing the truth with you about your life and your needs? It takes a humble heart to receive that kind of correction. But Proverbs says that the wise man will receive reproof and that those wounds are faithful wounds. Are you discerning about doctrinal truth and error? Or do you think it doesn't really matter what people believe? That's their way; I've got my way.
It does matter. Love cares about the truth.

Are you willing to speak the truth to those who have wandered from it, even if that means risking rejection?


I've really thought about this... ALOT. I do think I'm very open to errors and improvements I could make. But I'll be brutally honest-- they need to do brought to my attention in a loving and caring way, not in a harsh manner, otherwise I'm not at all receptive.

And I will speak the truth, but only tactfully and in a compassionate manner. If I feel I cannot do it like that I won't speak up. Also, if someone is not receptive to it, then I will not continue to speak the truth about it. For instance my neighbor who repeatedly puts her husband down or brings up his faults/failures. The first time I addresses it got me no where. Each subsequent time I've just ignored it by not responding at all. I really just don't know what else to do without coming across berating or judgemental in her eyes.
 
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Reflections:
Make a list of things to share with your children about your relationship with Jesus. Determine to discuss things of faith daily with each child.

What will my children recall after I die?

I just pray they remember that I love them as deeply as the Lord does, and that there is nothing I would not do for them if they needed my help. And, I pray that they remember that Jesus is my Rock! And, that they see HIM in me, amen!


Do I make a concentrated effort to teach my children about Jesus?

As often I as can. Mine have grown up now and I have grandchildren now to work with...Hurray! Hey at least "they" listen to what their Nana has to say, amen! LOL!


Do I pray for my children on a regular basis?

All day, and every day! And...also for all those I meet along my path! God is Good...Always!


Be Blessed and everyone...Have a wonderful, relaxing weekend. And, I am going to try to stop "worrying" so much!:blush: I do trust God, but then like alot of people "I try to fix things myself, and then...it nevers works...so "I give"...I do! Well, I am at least trying to "let go and let God do the work for me", amen! And, if you think to...Please pray for our soldiers during this weekend that is put aside to honor them, amen! :prayer: In His love for us all, your sis, hannah :wave:
 
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So how are you doing on this test? Do you welcome others sharing the truth with you about your life and your needs? It takes a humble heart to receive that kind of correction. But Proverbs says that the wise man will receive reproof and that those wounds are faithful wounds. Are you discerning about doctrinal truth and error? Or do you think it doesn't really matter what people believe? That's their way; I've got my way.

It does matter. Love cares about the truth.

Are you willing to speak the truth to those who have wandered from it, even if that means risking rejection?

This is a hard one!
I am OK with the first part - I think that I am ready to listen to others and consider how I need to change.

But as to correcting those who are off track...
I pray for them, I cry for them... But speak to them about it? Very, very rarely!
And yes, it probably is due to fear of seeming unkind. But really, that's no excuse. It is an issue of love - of how much I care, really love them. And I'm afraid I'm failing on this one. :sigh:

Lord - increase my love for Your children - give me the courage and compassion to speak Your truth.

Thank you, Rosie. I needed my eyes opening there.

God bless you.
 
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