Christian platitudes?

[bèlla]

So tell me. What kind of behavior falls under the category of this "fractured masculinity"?

Passive and effeminate. Do you require further explanation?

 

[bèlla]

that's fine. there will be many males who will appreciate a woman flat out telling them "I don't find you attractive in the least and I would never go out with you".

for others playing the meta game, it's helpful to be able to read the ques. saves you a lot of frustration.

I require this:

They prefer, by a huge percentage, a man who is emotionally reserved (never heard a woman tell me I should be more emotional) more aggressive, both interpersonally and physically, more dominant and in control.

I am incapable of responding to anything else. It isn't plentiful in this sandbox.

 

[Gnarwhal]

Passive and effeminate. Do you require further explanation?

Nah I stopped caring about 15 minutes ago.

 

[bèlla]

Nah I stopped caring about 15 minutes ago.

Good. I was hoping that was the case.

 

[S.O.J.I.A.]

I require this:

They prefer, by a huge percentage, a man who is emotionally reserved (never heard a woman tell me I should be more emotional) more aggressive, both interpersonally and physically, more dominant and in control.

I am incapable of responding to anything else. It isn't plentiful in this sandbox.

in the word's of the phone company Oneplus:

"NEVER SETTLE"

go get what you want.

 

[zxcv]

People aren’t as God-centered as they profess.

Agreed, I'm getting the point where I don't try to hide it. Though I do think a little bit of is still there. But I'm tired of people acting like they are perfect godly people.

 

[bèlla]

Agreed, I'm getting the point where I don't try to hide it. Though I do think a little bit of is still there. But I'm tired of people acting like they are perfect godly people.

I respect an honest acknowledgment. The rest I ignore. Dressing the truth up in religious speak doesn’t alter the result.

 

[Noxot]

I find male weakness equally annoying. There’s nothing worse than the neutered male who stands erect hoping you don't notice. I’ve seen them supplicated and wholly at home.

I understand about a woman trying to be kind in a situation such as the op, I don't see it as such a bad thing.

I get bothered when a woman will be agreeable and lie to keep the peace over things that are important. They might sacrifice Truth for the sake of peace.

But on the other side men can be too domineering and make the discussion of Truth uncomfortable. Ones worldview is considered part of a persons identity and so when it's attacked it's easier to have anger or other emotions.

So both extremes of disagreeable and agreeable Behavior have their pros and cons. No one is fully male or fully female.

 

[VMaeLove]

It isn't plentiful in this sandbox.

Why do you think ?

 

[bèlla]

But on the other side men can be too domineering and make the discussion of Truth uncomfortable.

I don’t encounter domineering Christian men. Are you pulling my leg?

No one is fully male or fully female.

I an wholly female. I’m not bipartisan or some obscure mix that defies categorization. 100 percent genetically female. Holy made and blessed.

 

[Kaon]

Not sure if it's a platitude, but I think it's something close.

One Christian single lady I was getting to know. I had noticed her height requirement in a man was min. of 5'10". I am 5'8" and I had asked her if a guy a bit shorter than that, would she be okay with that.

She answered, "If God has guided me to do so, then yes".

I thought this was an unusual way to answer a question. I mean, why not say, "Yeah, sure, if he's a sweet guy, great personality, I can be flexible" and leave it at that?

Platitudes and dogma. We delude ourselves through generations of lost information, ignorance,, horrible leadership and dogma. Of course the base of modern Christianity is based on flattery and platitudes of man. This is why the Word of God said that many would come to Him claiming that they have prophesied and done wonders in His name, and He will say, "...I never knew you."

So, we know the majority of people claiming to be Christian actually aren't according to the Most High God. The problem we have is actually believing people based on the word, not their fruits. Just because you do rituals, or go to church doesn't make you Christian.

 

[bèlla]

Why do you think ?

I think we’re dealing with the offspring of feminist rhetoric. They’ve raised their sons to behave in a manner women don ‘t respect.

When a man is lacking confidence he doesn’t inspire you to follow him. He operates from a place of weakness not strength.

 

[VMaeLove]

I think we’re dealing with the offspring of feminist rhetoric. They’ve raised their sons to behave in a manner women don ‘t respect.

When a man is lacking confidence he doesn’t inspire you to follow him. He operates from a place of weakness not strength.

Humanity have such dificulty finding happy medium.

 

[Noxot]

I don’t encounter domineering Christian men. Are you pulling my leg?

I an wholly female. I’m not bipartisan or some obscure mix that defies categorization. 100 percent genetically female. Holy made and blessed.

Jesus would have to be the perfect male example for us I guess. So what is missing for Christian men if indeed the best Male example would be Jesus Christ? by default Christians think they must submit to him and therefore they are already feminized. God himself feminizes men. Of course other Godly men are thought by you to be good examples of males. So what the heck has happened to us?

About the male-female thing...
I was referencing one of my dead friends, an existentialist Christian philosopher from Russia named berdyaev. As far as I can tell I think he tells the truth. Most Christians are not that open about things but the example of the yin-yang shows that there is a little of the opposite inside each side. Personally I like the idea, I think it's romantic.

Other people such as jung speaks of something similar. Psychologically the image of a male that you have is your masculinity. Jung warns of the dangers of being possessed by the anima or animus. I'm no expert on jung though, and evolutionary psychologist like gad saad thinks jung spoke a bunch of Jibber Jabber.

 

[bèlla]

Jesus would have to be the perfect male example for us I guess.

I have often referenced human biblical examples. I think their fallibility makes them more relatable. I don’t expect my companion to behave like Him. He’ll always fall short.

God himself feminizes men.

How is that done? Can you provide biblical support for that theory?

Most Christians are not that open about things but the example of the yin-yang shows that there is a little of the opposite inside each side. Personally I like the idea, I think it's romantic

Do you believe Buddhism is a false religion or true?

Psychologically the image of a male that you have is your masculinity.

Don’t believe everything you read. The lone way to test that theory is to corroborate it with someone whose engaged with both sexes. Feminine women don’t morph into a masculine form. Some seek the opposite and others seek the same as themselves.

I'm no expert on jung though, and evolutionary psychologist like gad saad thinks jung spoke a bunch of Jibber Jabber.

I’ve seen his stuff online. My friend reads him. I’m not that complex.

 

[Noxot]

I said God feminizes men because men have to be humble and submit to him. I've just seen it in my experience. Have you not? I'm no expert on humans, but I do know my own experience.

It depends how you interpret Buddhism. I can synthesize it to some degree. But just like interpreting the Christian religion, it depends on the human.

I like the Romantic idea of two being a whole human rather than each soul being complete in and of itself. Some Mystics have said when you love something you become it.

If I can't find truth in something then I don't believe it. I'm a kissless virgin, so I'm kind of like a child. so obviously my perception of males and females will be different and i will seem obviously disqualified to many. As pathetic as I may seem I don't mind. I would not trade my experience, desires, and understanding for anything.

I wish I could spend more time on CF, I valued the people here. But I let my spirit control me and now I will suffer the consequences.

 

[bèlla]

I said God feminizes men because men have to be humble and submit to him.

Humility and submission are a reflection of obedience not femininity.

I've just seen it in my experience. Have you not? I'm no expert on humans, but I do know my own experience.

No. My strength isn’t masculine nor is my ability to lead. I exhibit them in a feminine guise.

It depends how you interpret Buddhism. I can synthesize it to some degree. But just like interpreting the Christian religion, it depends on the human.

I see. I know Buddhism and Hinduism well. I wouldn’t consider them true and I’ve practiced both.

If I can't find truth in something then I don't believe it. I'm a kissless virgin, so I'm kind of like a child.

What does kissing have to do with virginity?

 

[Noxot]

Humility and submission are a reflection of obedience not femininity.



No. My strength isn’t masculine nor is my ability to lead. I exhibit them in a feminine guise.



I see. I know Buddhism and Hinduism well. I wouldn’t consider them true and I’ve practiced both.



What does kissing have to do with virginity?

The church is considered to be feminine. One time I was a deer and I was weak and wounded. God was taking care of me. I would consider that to be feminine. But chiefly when I think of what femininity is I think of beauty.

I dont consider anything true cept God, his kingdom, and me. The outside profits nothing. God uses this or that according to what his beloved needs. Christianity is profoundly true, but more so than any have realized. I can find truth in other religions, its easy. God is my helper, or whatever good being he sends is.

"Kissless virgin" is some phrase I acquired from another website. I guess it's an insult that says "I'm worse than an incel, I haven't even been kissed".

What makes you trust Christianity more than the other religions? I believe Christianity won't endure forever, only the religion of the spirit will.

 

[bèlla]

The church is considered to be feminine. One time I was a deer and I was weak and wounded. God was taking care of me. I would consider that to be feminine. But chiefly when I think of what femininity is I think of beauty.

Would you apply the same verbiage to a father caring for his child? Is that feminine? God is our Father. Caring for a wounded child is what loving parents do.

"Kissless virgin" is some phrase I acquired from another website. I guess it's an insult that says "I'm worse than an incel, I haven't even been kissed".

Why would you adopt something like that?

What makes you trust Christianity more than the other religions? I believe Christianity won't endure forever, only the religion of the spirit will.

A year long spiritual battle settled the matter. Good and evil are abundantly clear. Not because I read it or someone told me. I’ve experienced it firsthand.

I like the Romantic idea of two being a whole human rather than each soul being complete in and of itself.

Why do you like it?

 

[bèlla]

go get what you want.

We’ll see what happens.