I was just curious what people's views are toward how a Christian marriage should be, particularly in relation to Paul's epistles in the NT. How do you interpet "the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church..." Does it imply to you, to be instructing for some kind of male authority, and female subordination? Is the desire for equality and mutual decision making in your view, somehow anti biblical? For anyone, who believes and interprets it to be that the husband "makes the final decisions", do you see this practiced in any other marriages in the bible, where the husband is deferred to as the final decision maker? How about before the times of Paul? Are there examples in the bible of husbands making "final decisions" and exercising ultimate authority over the wife?
What do you think about the fact that more passive and dominant personality types can exist amongst both genders?
What factors would you say influenced your views on the subject? Purely the verses in the bible? Are your views similar to the ones your parents had or practiced? What your church taught? Other friends? The environment and culture in general that you live in? Or the fact that female subordination has traditionally gone on for so long in the world?
Not wanting to debate with anyone, just interested in hearing people's views on what they believe to be a biblical marriage in their own lives and why
What do you think about the fact that more passive and dominant personality types can exist amongst both genders?
What factors would you say influenced your views on the subject? Purely the verses in the bible? Are your views similar to the ones your parents had or practiced? What your church taught? Other friends? The environment and culture in general that you live in? Or the fact that female subordination has traditionally gone on for so long in the world?
Not wanting to debate with anyone, just interested in hearing people's views on what they believe to be a biblical marriage in their own lives and why