choosing abstinence??

zerbetron said:

yeah thats very true. I think the difference is our society gives us an out in marriages...I mean its something ridiculous....like 50% of couples that get married, also get divorced. Ouch.

I think you have a super realistic view on your sexuality, its an instinct. I'm glad you understand lust is not enough reason to marry, and that if you cannot maintain abstiance 100%, that you have forgiveness if you ask for it.

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rppearso said:

Marriage is just like life, there are ups and downs as long as both are willing to work at it things will be fine, my wife and I have been through alot of trying times and have only been married 3 years but it all works out in the end. I think divorce is valid in certian circumstances but alot of people get divorced just because.

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Luther073082 said:

I consider divorce valid in cases of abuse, infidelity, mental illness (Not known prior to marriage), criminal activity, and extreme violations of trust.

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