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Bro' John

Take heart... for, an answer lies in the question
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What does it mean to take the Lord’s name in vain?

? what is that poster doing here ?

That poster was attacking harshly a couple of people who simply stating what they believed. At the instigation of another member I got involved to the extent of defended those attacked and received what I had come to expect from the attacker. He had been suspended before. He has been suspended again for the moment. It was not my intention to have him removed, but sometimes it is the best thing.

I mentioned that my wife was upset and ready to go in and do what I would not, hit back at the man hard. God prevented her from doing so. He had another idea...

Yes, people do take the Lord's name in vain without ever using a curse word, although such words were not absent from this particular post against me.


His purpose was certainly not to encourage me, but I have nonetheless been encouraged by my wife's anxiousness in the matter and by the supportive replies I have received here.


Matthew 18:15-18 NIV - Dealing With Sin in the Church - “If - Bible Gateway

? Have you not done as you were supposed-to
and,
does the matter not now belong to the church ?

If only the Church were always doing what it should be doing. God is, of course; but we the people, the members, the body parts, are not yet always where we should be, are we?


:prayer: that you continue to receive His peace

Thanks for the prayerful support.
 
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Stopping by to say hello :wave:
I did errands this morning, while hubby worked on the pc room.
Been feeling tired this week (? allergies and weather changes), so I am pacing myself :angel:

John ~ sorry to hear you were treated like that :hug:
I am happy to hear that person was reported; there is no need for posts like that!
It IS a good thing to have reports/rules/moderation, so that forums can run smoothly and respectfully.
Depending on the forum importance and situation, it is up to you if you respond to this person or just ignore them.
Just because we are incognito behind pc's doesn't give anyone the right to be rude...or us be their door mat!
Praying for your discernment and peace ~ God bless you :crossrc:

Thanks you for your kind words and support. Hopefully you will soon get to feeling better.
 
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O my, did this happen at CF?

Oh no, while CF is certainly not perfect, these events happened elsewhere. It was on a much smaller forum where a single person can much more easily have either a positive or a negative impact on every member. Since I continue to deal with the resulting waves, please keep me in prayer.
 
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Thanks you for your kind words and support. Hopefully you will soon get to feeling better.
Thanks...I felt much better today :)
Oh no, while CF is certainly not perfect, these events happened elsewhere. It was on a much smaller forum where a single person can much more easily have either a positive or a negative impact on every member. Since I continue to deal with the resulting waves, please keep me in prayer.
Praying for you :crossrc:

On a weather note, northern Oklahoma is warming and the chance of more rain continues. God has been blessing us of late.

Thank God ~ We have gotten some much needed rain too (we all could still use more)!:pray:
 
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Oh no, while CF is certainly not perfect, these events happened elsewhere. It was on a much smaller forum where a single person can much more easily have either a positive or a negative impact on every member. Since I continue to deal with the resulting waves, please keep me in prayer.

It is surprising how powerful our internet connections are...we don't see each other face to face...yet we do have an impact on each other lives...for evil...or for good. Hmmm, we should all be encouraged to keep doing good, sowing the seed of His word...yeah! I am encouraging myself....!!!!!

Lord help us to find You and Your grace in time of need...hurts are hurts no matter how they come...help us to overcome the world, as you did. Learning not to return evil for evil, but entrusting ourselves to our Father, who will be the ultimate judge of all things. Amen
 
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It is surprising how powerful our internet connections are...we don't see each other face to face...yet we do have an impact on each other lives...for evil...or for good. Hmmm, we should all be encouraged to keep doing good, sowing the seed of His word...yeah! I am encouraging myself....!!!!!

Lord help us to find You and Your grace in time of need...hurts are hurts no matter how they come...help us to overcome the world, as you did. Learning not to return evil for evil, but entrusting ourselves to our Father, who will be the ultimate judge of all things. Amen
:amen: :crossrc:
 
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That poster was attacking harshly a couple of people who simply stating what they believed. At the instigation of another member I got involved to the extent of defended those attacked and received what I had come to expect from the attacker. He had been suspended before. He has been suspended again for the moment. It was not my intention to have him removed, but sometimes it is the best thing.

I mentioned that my wife was upset and ready to go in and do what I would not, hit back at the man hard. God prevented her from doing so. He had another idea...

Yes, people do take the Lord's name in vain without ever using a curse word, although such words were not absent from this particular post against me.



His purpose was certainly not to encourage me, but I have nonetheless been encouraged by my wife's anxiousness in the matter and by the supportive replies I have received here.




If only the Church were always doing what it should be doing. God is, of course; but we the people, the members, the body parts, are not yet always where we should be, are we?




Thanks for the prayerful support.

Hi Bro' John

"By it's fruit shall a tree be known"



We have no authority to judge others,
but we do not have-to 'walk' in their ways, we were given 'choice'

Let those, who must in His time, account for their behaviour, repent at their own leisure
The church, in it's wisdom, will, practice, what it preaches or, sin against the word





Can chaff become wheat ? I would say yes, ~for God, even this, would not be impossible

Let us :pray: for them, that they might see the light that drives away the darkness

:prayer:
 
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It is surprising how powerful our internet connections are...we don't see each other face to face...yet we do have an impact on each other lives...for evil...or for good. Hmmm, we should all be encouraged to keep doing good, sowing the seed of His word...yeah! I am encouraging myself....!!!!!

Let us indeed all be encouraged Sister! God has provided us this means to make contacts with a greater number of people in a very short time than we could have encountered in a couple of lifetimes even 100 years ago.
 
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We have no authority to judge others,
but we do not have-to 'walk' in their ways, we were given 'choice'

Amen!

Can chaff become wheat ? I would say yes, ~for God, even this, would not be impossible

Indeed, also we may ask whether goats can become sheep? Can have our place be moved from the left hand to the right hand of God?

For God then, are not all things possible? Ask and you shall receive, if you do not ask amiss!
 
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Let us indeed all be encouraged Sister! God has provided us this means to make contacts with a greater number of people in a very short time than we could have encountered in a couple of lifetimes even 100 years ago.
It is a miracle we can chat across the globe with the click of a button :pray:
 
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It is a miracle we can chat across the globe with the click of a button :pray:

Yes, but it is also, as we know, possible to push the buttons of another person with the express purpose of annoying or angering them. As we walk with the Lord we come to know better how to communicate without aggravating them. This is how Jesus walked and are we not to become like Him?
 
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Yes, but it is also, as we know, possible to push the buttons of another person with the express purpose of annoying or angering them. As we walk with the Lord we come to know better how to communicate without aggravating them. This is how Jesus walked and are we not to become like Him?
For sure...there will always be those pushing the limit...and not for the 'greater good' :doh:
 
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Yes, but it is also, as we know, possible to push the buttons of another person with the express purpose of annoying or angering them. As we walk with the Lord we come to know better how to communicate without aggravating them. This is how Jesus walked and are we not to become like Him?

Brother,

We can choose to ignore and avoid those who are trying to annoy or anger us. In effect, that leaves them talking to themselves and looking pretty silly.
 
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It is a miracle we can chat across the globe with the click of a button :pray:



Yes, but it is also, as we know, possible to push the buttons
of another person with the express purpose of annoying or angering them.
As we walk with the Lord we come to know better how to communicate without aggravating them.
This is how Jesus walked and are we not to become like Him?

For sure...there will always be those pushing the limit...and not for the 'greater good' :doh:




This has something to do with "turning the other cheek" and "esteeming other better than self".

Brother,

We can choose to ignore and avoid those who are trying to annoy or anger us.
In effect, that leaves them talking to themselves and looking pretty silly.



:amen:

:prayer:
 
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Let us indeed all be encouraged Sister! God has provided us this means to make contacts with a greater number of people in a very short time than we could have encountered in a couple of lifetimes even 100 years ago.


So true....:wave:
 
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We had a busy day here...went together early up into our local mountains. Hubby had some measurements to take at a job site...we drove around and home what ended up being the long way...LOL...we both got tired...o dear, this senior thing is upon us for sure.

Gracie went and she was just a spoiled little Pom...my fault of course. :)

Tomorrow is church...I am looking forward to it.

Some of us are having the tornado watches and destruction happening again...my goodness.
 
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