Hi Anastasia, this is certainly an interesting thread isn't it

It touches at the heart of much of that which separates East from West, and to a lessor degree in this case, Protestant from Roman Catholic. The best part is it has truly been a discussion, instead of a debate, for the most part anyway
There are a number of additional things to discuss, but I did want to mention a couple of things here first.
1) All of the West believes in "total depravity", we just see it differently. This is seen as the reason and need for baptism by the RCC, and for Protestants, we believe that God does the same kind of quickening work in the hearts of elect alone (Calvinism) or in the hearts of all (Arminianism). In any case, the results of the Fall are remedied, God turning our fallen/dead heart of stone into a heart of flesh which is capable of responding to Him in faith (i.e.
Ezekiel 36:26; John 3:3). This is not true of the Orthodox however, because from what I understand, you do not believe there is a need for God to quicken the heart of man like the West does.
2) As for Protestants and the death of children (incl all pre-born babies), I believe that what has been historically held by the Reformed (specifically by John Calvin, in fact) is pretty much true for us all now. Here's a copy of something that I wrote in one of the "abortion" threads that addresses this (granted, it is written from the "Western" POV, IOW, from the POV of Original .. not Ancestral .. Sin).
Babies are conceived with a fallen nature (
Psalms 51:5) thanks to the disobedience of our progenitors, but
God doesn't judge our "nature", He judges our thoughts and our actions based upon our personal knowledge and understanding of the Law .. which can be, if nothing else, simply the "Law" that God writes upon the heart of every man and woman (see
Romans 2:12-16).
Babies have no personal knowledge or understanding of the Law,
so they cannot be judged. Those who die at such an early age are always Heaven-bound as a result

Yours in Christ,
David