Totally agree. I live in the suburbs but love the country and have been there alot. Getting anything from police to fire trucks to an ambulance is a long wait. They all have guns, medical kits, fire extinguishers and so on. Even in the suburbs when I have called the police it takes about 1-2 minutes. Though our city is smaller then the other ones around us. Still 1-2 minutes could be the matter between being shot or not.
I am VERY glad it's rubbing off on you. The time WILL come that your preparations serve you well - even if it is nothing more than being prepared by having a fully stocked pantry or a go-bag in your truck. It is a mentality toward independent individual response, and having the options to meet a critical condition - Guns are just a part of that.
I am buying a gun because I am married and very protective. At least in america, well depending on where you live you can shoot a robber and not get in trouble.
Great. Train for it. Go hunting (provision for the family, and fun), become acclimatized. The only thing suburban folks do wrong in that regard is not having that gun be a natural extension of yourself - normally because they don't use it much.
Best thing to prevent criminals is a big ol redneck man in the house. They leave sign around the place that cause a criminal type to pass it by (like a lifted pickup with a NRA sticker in the window sitting in the driveway).
Second best is a big ol redneck dog (where there's one, there's usually the other).
Those two things mean fight, and criminals will go where their options are better.
Also while aiming for a arm or leg to stop them (somewhat) is hard with a pistol, its why you get a shotgun with a good spread pattern. They won't be going anywhere with a legshot.
Sorry, not true. You shoot someone with a sawed off (figuring buckshot), they are likely dead. A full shotgun, even more so, as the shot is more concentrated... That'll blow half a leg off.
But as I said before, if you have that gun out and pointed, Kill it. Twice.
Otherwise, you shouldn't have it out at all. You do not have time to decide.
Center mass, double-tap.