Im trying to keep up in 4 or 5 threads at once, with 6+ posters at times all saying something.
Its confounding enough trying to keep track of each detail, then having those like cygnus come in and pull what he did to disrupt didnt help either.
Can you understand that we are all in the same boat having to keep up with threads and posts etc? Sometimes it can get quite confusing and even frustrating for the best of us. I post on several boards at once - and have about 4 windows open LOL Maybe I should focus?
but try to make sure Im really attacking you personally and not just the doctrine.
We ARE here discussing doctrine, arent we?![]()
Yes we are but the underlying tone is what makes it an attack. When one makes fun of someone, which what you seemed to do, one can only assume that it's them you're making fun of and not their doctrine.
You also need to understand that someone's doctrine can feel like it is a part of them, and so every precaution needs to be taken so that the person doesn't feel like you're attacking them. Most people have come to their doctrines based on their life - I'm one such person.
However, I actually am not a calvinist, at the moment I'm trying to find out exactly which theology my beliefs fit into...I didn't even know what a calvinist was until recently, and if you look on the 'ask a calvinist' board you will see a post made by me asking about their doctrine. You will see there that I havent' actually come to a conclusion yet. Debate is the way I learn - that is why I'm here. But debate without attacking is better
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