Breakthrough over weekend

[gary2468]

My wife had a light go off during our conversation about our marriage and my need for affection. SHe concluded that I need sex and that I derive happiness from it - not because I am a self-centered SOB but because it is purely physiological. We agreed I need a release that I cannot deny. We agreed that I am not to m*sterb*te alone but to ask her and if she is not in the mood then I can m*sterb*te in her presense.

I thank you for your prayers. This is just at start. Getting the legs to run with this is going to be much much more difficult. I am continuing to pray.

 

[selune]

I hope things continue to move in a positive direction. You both are still in my prayers.

 

[AndOne]

Well - that is just a little bit too much information - at least for me.

But - sounds like your wife is on the right track. God bless.

 

[DeLandGator]

Am I missing something is it a sin to type the word touch...didnt understand why anyone would leave out letters for that word

 

[AndOne]

He is probably doing it to not offend anyone.

One thing I don't understand however, is why anyone would call themselves a Gator -

Go NOLES!!

 

[hisbloodformysins]

Cool, glad to here of your progress, I hope that you two will continue to grow and progress in this area.

 

[Svt4Him]

Well - that is just a little bit too much information - at least for me.

Me too...

 

[49erfan]

It sounds like you have the Love Language of "Physical Touch."

You and your wife should both read "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman.

 

[gary2468]

It sounds like you have the Love Language of "Physical Touch."

You and your wife should both read "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman.

Yes. Read the book. Hers is acts of service.

 

[Manna]

I'm glad that you two had a breakthrough...hope everything goes well!

Anna

 

[selune]

I've been praying for you and your wife. I hope things continually get better.

 

[LuxPerpetua]

I hope things keep going well for your marriage.

 

[gary2468]

My wife had a light go off during our conversation about our marriage and my need for affection. SHe concluded that I need sex and that I derive happiness from it - not because I am a self-centered SOB but because it is purely physiological. We agreed I need a release that I cannot deny. We agreed that I am not to m*sterb*te alone but to ask her and if she is not in the mood then I can m*sterb*te in her presense.

I thank you for your prayers. This is just at start. Getting the legs to run with this is going to be much much more difficult. I am continuing to pray.

Well, getting the legs to run with this one has been impossible. Shortly after I started this post I asked her if I could have release in her presense and it was met with a no as if we never had the conversation. I have not approached her since. I have m*sterb*ted alone and not with her and february was a sex free month (we are at once a month).

 

[hisbloodformysins]

Gary, change doesn't happen over night. It may take time for your wife to adjust to this, even though she admitted that she would be more willing in this area. So my advice is, don't give up. You guys keep trucking along, continue to work at it, make progress, it'll become more ideal over time. Maybe you should approach her again....