- May 31, 2017
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I'm thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend. He was the most amazing boy in the whole world and treated me like a princess for a long time. He was everything I ever wanted and asked for, so I thought he was the one. I had asked God my whole life for only one boyfriend, as I don't think my heart can take it, because once I give my love to someone, I don't want to give it to anyone else. I didn't even want to love him at first because I was so used to getting hurt, but sometimes who you love isn't really a choice. He promised me that we would get married, and he even wanted to go get promise rings. He talked about our wedding every day and loved being part of my family. I finally gave myself to him and slept with him because he promised we would always be together. I knew it was wrong but I just wanted so badly to feel loved and beautiful and happy. After awhile he started changing, accusing me of cheating on him, making me text him all the time, and he wouldn't even let me talk to other boys. I think I eventually slipped into depression, but whenever I tried to reach out to him for help, he wasn't there for me. Everything became about him. I tried so hard for so long to be everything he wanted me to be, but I was never good enough. My family all saw him as a brother and son, but now they don't even want me to be with him. I have done everything in my power to make him happy, but he hasn't tried to make me happy. My heart aches so much, I don't think I've ever hurt this much before. I love him more than anyone in the world, I would die for him, but I don't think I can do this anymore. Today he cut himself all over his arm and told his mother it was because he was sad because I was sad, but he treated me like garbage all day. I know this is how domestic abuse starts, and I love him so much, but I don't think I can live like this anymore.
Edit: We broke up last night. He says he wants to remain friends and maybe get back together in a few months. I'm not sure what to do.
Edit: We broke up last night. He says he wants to remain friends and maybe get back together in a few months. I'm not sure what to do.
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