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[Hopefully I spelt bling correctly, as in wearing flashy jewellery around one's neck]

Has the cross that Jesus bore become bling to Christian's? For people who do wear them, are they saying they're Christian? Or something else.
 

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[Hopefully I spelt bling correctly, as in wearing flashy jewellery around one's neck]

Has the cross that Jesus bore become bling to Christian's? For people who do wear them, are they saying they're Christian? Or something else.

It depends entirely upon the attitude of the individual involved. The only jewelry I wear is a wedding ring and the only reason I wear it is to declare to the world that I am married and to reassure my wife that I am committed to that marriage. I can think of no other reason that would cause me to wear jewelry. My behavior around others should be such that it would make others aware that I am a Christian without carrying around some sign to advertise the fact. Additionally if I am remiss in behaving well people might mistakenly think that Christians are normally badly behaved if I am advertising my Christianity by wearing bling. Being a Christian ought not be something we wear but something we are.
 
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I don’t wear crosses but I like diamonds. :p

I’m a more than words kind of girl. Symbols and talk is nice. But people are swayed by what they see and experience far more than the things we say or wear.

~Bella
 
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1 Samuel 16:7
7 But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."

I believe our words and the tone we use are very important.

Leviticus 19:11
11 Ye shall not steal, neither deal falsely, neither lie one to another. 12 And ye shall not swear by my name falsely, neither shalt thou profane the name of thy God: I am the LORD.

Ephesians 4:25
Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.

Ephesians 4:29
Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.

Ephesians 5:4
Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks.

Colossians 3:8
But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.

And it may take us a lifetime to learn to always think before we speak.
 
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