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After reading chapter 14 it occurred to me how unnecessarily often I see fellow believers asking others on CF if doing this or that (listening to heavy metal, playing video games of mature rating, etc.) makes them not a good Christian, or a "back-slidden" one, or will result in loss of salvation. I have always thought: here's the thing; if you even feel compelled to ask others if it's okay with God, you probably should not be doing it, because it obviously has a toll on your conscience right now. And the only thing St. Paul warns against here is doing things that affect your own conscience or those of a weaker faith. When I was younger, and therefore less mature as a believer, I once felt compelled to stay clear of certain forms of entertainment because I just did not feel comfortable with them, but a homeboy of mine from high school was living with me as my roommate during college at this time and was cool with it. I asked him simply to not partake of these things when I am around, precisely so that I would not be offended. If he himself was fine with it, great, but he would not have a right to cause me to stumble, having no regard for my own conscience. And I think Paul sums up really anything you do in your daily life by his particular examples in chapter 14. Things are permissible with God when you do not let them be an offense to you or to others, other than, of course, the obvious breaking of His commandments to love thy neighbor and thy God (by doing no wrong to either). So, if listening to a bunch of morbidly-dressed weirdos screeching emo vocals about pain and suffering and rocking out on electric guitars over flaming bass speakers in heavy metal music makes you feel like they are a hindrance to those close to you who have to hear it bleating loudly and obnoxiously from your room, or is a hindrance to your relationship with the Lord, then don't do that. Because if you do so against your conscience, that is when it is sinful. If you deliberately violate lent in front of a loved one who prefers to practice it by eating meat on Friday right in front of their faces just to assert yourself and your own standards of living as a believer, then it is sinful, because you are causing a person who practices their faith a slightly different way than you do to stumble, and, let's face it, that's just kind of jerk thing to do, you know? It is not fitting for one who follows the Lamb.
Genesis 29: 17-18
Hmmm.... Lust at first sight?In the whole chapter, I saw no loving these women for who they are, but what they look like. The father of these women even tricked Jacob, son of Rebekah, into marriage of the first born.
Then shortly after, God saw Leah was hated and so He blessed her and cursed Rachel. Makes me wonder if more went on than what the Bible says.
Yeah, it's kind of hard to take seriously that Jacob was really in love with Rachel at first sight when he ends up with four wives at once eventually, anyway. I also wonder if Leah was even actually all that plain in appearance (all it says is that her eyes were weak) if Jacob doesn't even recognize her to be Leah instead of Rachael until the next morning; he seriously never lifted the veil from her face the entire time? Was that the custom of Laban's family or something?![]()