Lee,
You have received much good advise from everyone here.
I grew up in the Penticostal invironment and as I said before, I spoke in tongues from a very young age. However, for whatever reason, I thought the only time one could speak in tongues was win they felt the presense of the Holy Spirit really, really strong.
I did not realize that I could speak in tongues, in my prayer language any time I needed or desired. It was not until oh, maybe 5 or 6 years ago, that I learned differently.
And not only did I realize that I could do it frequently, but that I should do it more frequently. As a result of this increase in my prayer language I have seen tremendous changes in my walk.
While I was already fairly strong in my walk with God, I found that, for me anyway, this increase in my prayer language opened up my heart more to the dealings of the Holy Spirit. God began to open up old emotional wounds and began to clean me of things that I had buried deep inside of me.
I found that my whole life changed. It was not that I was bad or anything like that but the change was obvious.
When I first started going forward in this way, I remember that I would pass by a mirror and as I would look at my reflection, it was like I could see someone other than myself and I would think, "who is that?". This went on for several weeks. . .everytime I saw my reflection I would think "who is that?"
Then one day, when it happend again, this time the Holy Spirit answered, "Barbara, it's Me". I gasped and said, "what do You mean it's You. He said, "It's Me, looking out of your eyes". I cried, I never knew I could see Him. . .not like flesh and blood, but in the Spirit, I could see Him and His reflestion could be seen in my eyes.
I had people around me notice too. I can't remember how many people stopped me and asked me if I was in love. Another friend told me her husband had commented that everytime he saw me he felt convicted of his own walk with God. He told her it was like God being right there.
I'm not getting those kinds of reactions anymore but God is still moving strongly in my life. And I notice that the more I pray in tongues, the more I see happen in my behalf.