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Bedtime.
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LynnMcG
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We decided from the start of our marriage that we would always go to bed at the same time. That sounds weird, but it's always been important to us. Of course sometimes one of us just can't sleep or one of us comes home much later than the other. But 99.9% of the time, we go to bed at the same time. Now that we have kids this time together is even more important. It's the time we sort of decompress, catch up, and snuggle in for the night.
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Yup, we always go to bed together. Even if for some reason I'm not tired. I will still go to bed with him and snuggle. Once he's asleep, I will sometimes get up and do whatever until I'm really tired and need to sleep
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Sometimes together, sometimes not. I'm a night owl so sometimes I stay up later and he likes to get up really early so he goes to bed earlier.
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phoebe_20
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Most of the time we go to bed together. But if he has some more work to do, I mean when we have to work on some program, Id go to bed earlier, but that is if Im very tired already. I find it hard to sleep if we dont go to bed together so sometimes Id jsut wait for him.
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Depends on his work schedule, but normally when he's working nights we don't go to bed at the same time.
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Most of the time, ok almost all of the time we go to bed together. He snuggles with me. I fall asleep. Then he watches tv or reads for another hour or two but I can't sleep if he's not in bed.
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giddybiscuit
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Most of the time we go to bed at the same time. I don't like going to bed without my husband! Sometimes he stays up later and it makes me sad... 
But it's okay. I forgive him.
But it's okay. I forgive him.
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She's usually in bed before me because she's just addicted to sleep.
I know she gets grumpy sometimes if I don't come to bed with her despite me not being tired (women!), so sometimes I'll go and lay down beside her and talk.
Once she's asleep, I go back out into the living room and have some nice quiet time to myself.
I know she gets grumpy sometimes if I don't come to bed with her despite me not being tired (women!), so sometimes I'll go and lay down beside her and talk.
Once she's asleep, I go back out into the living room and have some nice quiet time to myself.
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most of the time we go at the same time. Once in a while one of us is up later than the other. If I expect him to be up hours past me I'll ask him to lay w/ me for 15 mins to talk and unwind and get sleepy, then he's off to whatever he needs to do.
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tryinghard said:
On weeknights, we go to bed at the same time. On the weekends (Fri and Sat) nights, I'm a night owl so I tend to stay up late while he goes to bed on time. That's my time to just relax without hubby or kids around and he understands that and grants me my time of peace.
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