Hi Annie. I'm sorry for what you went through. Yes, I know what you are referring to.
I do not lose one ounce of sleep over this person outside of this forum and that is the honest to God truth. Please! He does not even cross my mind until I come here to dialogue and I find he has once again made his presence known here and I have about 3 fresh, new post reports blinking and waiting for me. So, of course, this is going to annoy and infuriate me much like a mosquito buzzing incessantly around one's ear.
True, I should just ignore him and not respond, but we all know that ain't never gonna happen. It just is not in my nature to let things go like so many others are able to do. It just ain't me Annie, and I have never pretended to be this easy-going, water-down-a-ducks- back type of personality!

I also don't think anyone should expect me to force myself to be this laid-back, phlegmatic personality when that is not who I am naturally or in real life.
Perhaps one day he will get the clue that if he leaves me alone and does not speak to me things will be fine. But until that day comes and he continues to harass me, ITS ON!