Really? As many times as this has been explained and you still insist? I'm thinking you don't even read the responses anymore, at least not until you find something to contradict.
Of course they weren't interested. The unregenerate never are. Irresistible Grace doesn't say Grace is never resisted. Irresistible Grace concerns only the fact that God's regeneration is not something resistible. O
You know, you really ought to do something about that attitude. It does not become you. And it will hurt that much more to change your tune when you find out you are wrong.
Calvinists don't believe that God calls only the Elect, but only the Elect are chosen, called according to that particular special purpose. Where did the guests get their clothes? It doesn't say. If he had the right clothes he woulda shown up in them. It doesn't say who puts them on the guests. If they can do something to merit salvation then it is by works, and NOT GRACE. How much more obvious can that be?
But I'm running short of patience. Later.