John Wesley believed salvation is available to all in the generic sense as do I. He also believed that people are unable to respond to the offer without God`s help which he termed "awakenings" as do I.
“The grace or love of God, whence cometh our salvation, is FREE IN ALL, and FREE FOR ALL… Whatsoever good is in man, or is done by man, God is the author and doer of it.”
No one has claimed that it isn't God who enables us with the ability to respond to his grace, and naturally God preveniently does just that. Did you just decide you needed to come up with some new argument that wasn't at all being argued or discussed?
"Yet this is no excuse for those who continue in sin, and lay the blame upon their Maker, by saying, 'It is God only that must quicken us; for we cannot quicken our own souls.' For allowing that all the souls of men are dead in sin by nature, this excuses none, seeing
there is no man that is in a state of mere nature; there is no man, unless he has quenched the Spirit, that is wholly void of the grace of God. No man living is entirely destitute of what is vulgarly called natural conscience. But this is not natural: It is more properly termed preventing grace. Every man has a greater or less measure of this, which waiteth not for the call of man. Every one has, sooner or later, good desires; although the generality of men stifle them before they can strike deep root, or produce any considerable fruit. Everyone has some measure of that light, some faint glimmering ray, which, sooner or later, more or less, enlightens every man that cometh into the world. And every one, unless he be one of the small number whose conscience is seared as with a hot iron, feels more or less uneasy when he acts contrary to the light of his own conscience. So that
no man sins because he has not grace, but because he does not use the grace which he hath." - On Working Out Our Own Salvation (John Wesley)
However, if you truly believe that Wesleyan theology has stated anywhere that God has pre-ordained only a small, select few for his saving grace while also creating billions and billions of people for the sole purpose of eternal suffering and torture, then I yet again challenge you to point it out.