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I cannot support this poll, it is fatally flawed. I know from my church planning experience that you can't ever offer people a choice between real change and familiar static - they will almost always choose the familiar comfort of what was - even if it leads to death. This poll's option #2 is not the way of Christ - it is the way of man.
I can't work at a CF just like the old one but with less opportunity to spread the Gospel. I had to find time last night to compose some PMs between IMing a suicidal teen - CF should be static enough that I can focus on that - but everyone wants to know what I think about X political thing - and if we can't fix our eyes on Jesus and move forward, we will never ever get to the challenge of ministry.
So, when #2 is chosen as the new CF, and the domesday book is written...I will ensure my name is recorded on the side of those who are found unworthy...because that is where the ministry is.
I, too, have been on this board for over 5 years. I never had any trouble with over-stringent rules, though I have experienced that problems they caused in debate and question threads.
I know quite well that many people here don´t like me, for what faith I profess - that they see me as someone to preach at, not to talk to.
Still, I have stayed on and contributed to this forum.
If you want me out, I´ll leave. If you want to "outreach" to me, you´ll have to find me.
Exactly thats what I came here for to and after receiveing a nasty racist PM (thankfully the mod took care of it for me) was when it hit rock bottom for me like I didn't sign up for that.I selected 2. I came here in hopes that this would be a Christian safe harbor.
WHAT the heck is so hard to figure out?? LEAVE the forums open then...if that is what people want...make a 'safe' place for Christian fellowship...and TAKE ALL unbelievers off staff...This IS a Christian site and should be run by them. HOW difficult does this have to be?? Sheesh..
If you say, "Hey, come on in, you're one of us!" ... but don't give any further offer to change on an individual level, what have you accomplished?Soooo if you go some place and hang out for a while and then find out you are good enough to be there to get preached at but are to evil to be anything more then a second class citizen there, would you go "wow, that makes me want to become one of them!"?
tulc(sort of doubts it)![]()
Will someone define Christian?
(And the Nicene creed does NOT define Christian by the way)