Qoheleth said:
God is love, I deny that all will be universally saved. ...[snip]... I dont see how that would "turn around to bite you also" as you say.
Then let me show you.
If you "define God as pure Love," then why wouldn't he "choose (as pure love would) to save everybody not just a few or even a large number, but all"? This question must be answered by you every bit as much as by the Calvinist; or as I put it, the question haunts both equally it presents a problem to both of you or neither of you.
But maybe your answer would suggest that God does indeed choose to save all. As Arthur W. Pink once put it, to insist that God is "trying his best" to save all mankind but that the majority of mankind "will not let him save them" is to insist that the will of the Lord God Almighty is frustrated by the will of the sinner, the tacit rejection of God's sovereignty. You may insist that God, as pure love, wants to save all men, and you may insist that not all men will let God save them, but think carefully about the consequences of what you would be thereby insisting (i.e. if the will of God can be frustrated by the will of another, then the will of God is subject to the will of that other and he is neither sovereign nor omnipotent). But as A. W. Pink so aptly stated the case elsewhere: in the final analysis, if it is to be at all meaningful, "the exercise of God's love must be traced back to his sovereignty."
http://www.btinternet.com/~gracegospel/godssovereignty.htm
Qoheleth said:
[FROM YOUR PREVIOUS POST] "Likewise, if my three children were lost, would I, out of our limited human love only try to find (save) one and not the others. Of course not, my children are equals in my heart and I would save them all. Isnt Gods love far more pure and complete than mine??"
[IN YOUR RECENT POST] Do my references to love make me seem to be above the Lord and greater? I believe you know that I am saying Gods love is always far greater than any love I can express or do.
Yes, your references to
your love suggest it is greater than the love of the
Lord because you insist that God in his love does not choose to save all mankind whereas you in your love however more limited than God's love you believe it to be would endeavor to save all [of your children]. If God in his love does not choose to save all mankind (since we both agree that at least some men are damned) but you in your love so choose, then you are implicitly suggesting that your love is greater.
But again, as above, perhaps you are suggesting that God
does choose to save all mankind and is "trying his best" to do so, but in the end will meet with
failure because the will of God is not sovereign over the will of the sinner and, consequently, God fails to accomplish what he willed to do.
As an aside, your analogy fails both the test of relevancy and sound reasoning at any rate since it is inapplicable to the issue at hand. Firstly, the analogy attempts to pit the love of God regarding all
mankind against your love regarding your
children, which is a categorical fallacy. Secondly, God does in fact choose to save all his children, but not all mankind are his children; only the elect are (see scriptures regarding 'adoption' and 'heirs').
If you want your analogy to be more fitting, describe your love for someone who consistently abuses and hurts you and those you hold dear. You offer someone a warm meal, and he beats you to within an inch of your life. You offer him a shower and clean clothes, and he rapes your wife. You give him his own room and a warm bed with clean sheets, and he tortures your three children to death while forcing you to watch... et cetera. Tell me all about your overwhelming love for this man, and explain that love to your emotionally destroyed wife. Does this seem a little harsh? It shouldn't, because even
this doesn't come close to illustrating the nature of mankind as contrasted against the holiness of God.