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Are you spiritually sensitive?

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Are you spiritually sensitive? Do you pick up things from God or sense evil? Or are you given dreams and like prophetic or discerning spirits?
I have loads. I am mulling over something that happened today. A non believer friend that I have known from I was young and through his x has arrived to my country not my origin from my original country where he normally resides. He lives like the most of the non believers. Although he has calmed with age. I tried to help him with grief about his past. He wanted to meet up go somewhere. (I am not the type that want to or can drink or that kinda crap so do not go there or anything else either for that matter God is what goes here) He wanted to go out to try hook up with a girl here and asked me for help basically. as a kinda join along help me im shy kinda. I was like I do not partake but I cannot force you either kinda. still nice to just meet. nothing else. he never ever hinted anything towards me and it is no attraction for that matter. for many reasons God one of them. so its been out of the picture.
So this evening I get a message. He had landed. Now what happened was weird. well maybe not when you consider God and all I experience with him of dreams, prophetic gifts and sense evil. yes I do. In different ways.
So I got hit suddenly when he sent that message with pressure on top of the head and got tipsy tingly like drunk but I definitely never am. I almost thought i would have to go to bed as I was almost nausea. And it happened as soon as he wrote. I made the connection. When I did, it eased, just a bit. I asked God to help. And I felt very strongly, do NOT text back. He had mentioned the town he was at. It can only be two places. Either he is like 3 hours away south or VERY close to me like 20 minutes!! Now, I have NOT told him my town!! And just briefly like big city. not my actual town. And no, nothing to suspect of tracing. He`s not like that. Used to be at least very small town slow innocent. nothing like someone to be suspicious about. at all. But this was a bit creepy. Chance is fair it is close by. But.. he does not even know... I start to wonder.. could evil be involved? And that i got this sensation when he wrote. NO way I have not invited him and would never to my place. I would not tell my town either. He knows I wanted to meet in big nearby city. without telling my town. I made clear there is no space at my place. I don`t know. The experience was weird. Is God warning me?
 

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i asked God to help. so far, same sensations although less
Okay, let's do some more testing.

1. What would be the point not to meet up? Essentially, why would God say not to message him back?
2. Is there anything in scripture that talk about feelings? What does it say?
3. What is the point of the feelings you say you feel? If it is from God, why would he give you those feelings? Do they link to anything in particular? Any point?
4. Does any of this go against God's Nature? Does any of this contradict what God has done in scripture with others? Does this go against any teachings scripturally that we can point to? Does it back any scripture up that we can point to?
5. Does the idea of this go against any fruits of the spirit or does it back up negative fruit?

We need to look at the nature/root or the point of this in the first place and answer those questions to get a better idea/understanding of where we're at. If there's anything that contradict God's nature, teachings, scripture, personality or time tested methods, then we can rule this out as being from God. If it points to a biblical teaching that we are supposed to follow, keeps us humble, or brings someone closer to God, then we can say it was from God.
 
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In my experience when the Lord wishes me to stay away from someone He tells me why. The same holds true when He wants me to act. He’ll nudge me to reach out and tell me why. There’s moments when I see something and contemplate sharing it and He stops me and warns me where it will lead. In all these instances His clarity is foremost. I’m not guessing or relying on sensations or emotions. They can lead you astray.

Spiritually sensitive is an ambiguous term and its best to stick to the word. Are you referencing the gift of discernment in that statement? The other reminds me of empaths to some degree. What I shared above is a reflection of the gift. Some hear, see, smell and so on. I experience spiritual matters through several senses but the primary is hearing. He gives physical signs now and then to get my attention but its rarely the message. I would ask for clarification.

~bella
 
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Okay, let's do some more testing.

1. What would be the point not to meet up? Essentially, why would God say not to message him back?
2. Is there anything in scripture that talk about feelings? What does it say?
3. What is the point of the feelings you say you feel? If it is from God, why would he give you those feelings? Do they link to anything in particular? Any point?
4. Does any of this go against God's Nature? Does any of this contradict what God has done in scripture with others? Does this go against any teachings scripturally that we can point to? Does it back any scripture up that we can point to?
5. Does the idea of this go against any fruits of the spirit or does it back up negative fruit?

We need to look at the nature/root or the point of this in the first place and answer those questions to get a better idea/understanding of where we're at. If there's anything that contradict God's nature, teachings, scripture, personality or time tested methods, then we can rule this out as being from God. If it points to a biblical teaching that we are supposed to follow, keeps us humble, or brings someone closer to God, then we can say it was from God.
The only I can think of is following: He wanted to go out, specifically on a pub,night club,out for a meal then the rest later. He used to drink a lot but can`t nowadays due to injury.(I never do)
So the environment.
Plus what is going on in those environments.
He made clear he wanted to find a girl to hook up with when at such a place. And asking me to be emotional support. It has sound like he was thinking of hooking up with me, well knowing that won`t work.
When i have been speaking to him over messenger he has been ok, although discussed those ideas of hooking up with someone. When he posted pictures of himself(not seen him for like 30 years) I get following: rough, hook up or used to, not a "bad person", but usual hook up drink thinking environment kinda thing. (although he can`t these days) I get a don`t meet him as he would try feel. A little bit pushy too.
I wasn`t prepared at all for my reaction last night I have never had that before.
I actually woke up like drunk,although I don`t. I had to take it slowly to get back to normal and inside I go, what WAS that?
Is it a warning?
Yes I`m empath.
Scripture and feelings well it does come in on it but not my experience as such. Even though God warns through strange things.
I don`t have the answers. All I know is what I wrote. That is why I ask partly.
I have in the past picked up on people before. Like, a former work place where the manager was very evil and she even confirmed it. Directly. I saw her face her eyes were definitely evil. I was right. That was a warning. Especially, when I found out she had bullied and driven away tons of people and abused them literally to hell. God took me out of that place immediately and I got physically sick from it being in her presence, and ill for days. Literally. But then I knew why and where it came from. I pick up on evil. I sense them. Even people out side, but it has never been like this before that time there is the first time in my life. And now this.
Oh, and I did ask God to protect me and show me. Is that that?
I don`t know if it is he is carrying evil or evil intent? Thinking of my previous experience.

The things he wanted to do, hook up with someone and the environment goes against yes. However I thought not to partake.
As he is not a christian hard to judge the fruit. But it is not godly those two things there above.
While little me was thinking innocently meal and sit in a sofa kinda like.
 
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In my experience when the Lord wishes me to stay away from someone He tells me why. The same holds true when He wants me to act. He’ll nudge me to reach out and tell me why. There’s moments when I see something and contemplate sharing it and He stops me and warns me where it will lead. In all these instances His clarity is foremost. I’m not guessing or relying on sensations or emotions. They can lead you astray.

Spiritually sensitive is an ambiguous term and its best to stick to the word. Are you referencing the gift of discernment in that statement? The other reminds me of empaths to some degree. What I shared above is a reflection of the gift. Some hear, see, smell and so on. I experience spiritual matters through several senses but the primary is hearing. He gives physical signs now and then to get my attention but its rarely the message. I would ask for clarification.

~bella
wow you have a gift there. Me I am fumbling in darkness regarding why most times. I first discover much after the event. He has protected me many times. I don`t know if it has to do with my instincts are damaged from abuse. That goes especially for clarity. So, clarity for me no.
It can work as discernment yes. I have asked for it and recently I got some discernment where it was not usually happening and saved me from some stuff.
I am an empath yes.
Have loads of dreams from God and sense evil. Me it is very much like air going through me and I pick up. Everything literally. All my dreams are happening and I meet Jesus too and things that happened in the world all true what he has told me and that happened. So, I see, dreams, and I feel. Hear in dreams.
But I never had it like this before. Only the previous work experience.
 
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It can work as discernment yes. I have asked for it and recently I got some discernment where it was not usually happening and saved me from some stuff.
I am an empath yes.

I think it’s important that our identity is grounded in the word. When we put labels upon ourselves He didn’t assign problems usually follow. God never called us empaths.

Have loads of dreams from God and sense evil. Me it is very much like air going through me and I pick up. Everything literally. All my dreams are happening and I meet Jesus too and things that happened in the world all true what he has told me and that happened. So, I see, dreams, and I feel. Hear in dreams.
But I never had it like this before. Only the previous work experience.

It’s important to balance what one receives in the dreamtime and the waking state. The former is the source of greatest vulnerability. Everything we see and hear isn’t the Lord and knowing the difference is a must.

The larger question you should be asking yourself is why you were willing to meet him at all. Given what you said it seems you’re on a different plane and the outing isn’t related to you but what he desires from you on his behalf. Why would you aid someone in finding a woman to hook up with? You don’t need a spiritual sensation to know that’s wrong.

Which begs the question and probably the lesson in all of this. What’s missing in your life that allowed this to occur? I don’t want an answer but it’s something you should consider.

~bella
 
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Yes I`m empath.
This is not having anything to do with God, actually it's the opposite. The idea of "empath" is pagan in root. It seems like you have a familiar spirit around you that is messing with you also based on the rest of what you said.

The bible says to not trust emotions Jeremiah 17:9.
You can be intuitive and guess peoples emotions and insight based on their behavior and mannerisms, but there is no spiritual gift that tells you what a person is thinking/feeling.

I suggest you start delving into the idea of being an "empath" and seeing where it comes from. To give you an example, does this websites talking about an empath point you to God? Link Because all teachings on the idea comes from a spiritual ability that you in particular have. I was once told by a psychic I was an empath... This is stuff that is linked to Satan, and not God.

If God doesn't want you around someone, He will tell you why and it will be rooted in scripture. God is not the author of confusion. He will not tell you half of something.

There is no example in scripture where God gives you negative feelings like nausea or even the idea of feeling drunk. There is scripture however that talks about that feeling if it is given by God because of judgement but it's an effect of Judgement, not God giving the exact feeling. Example: "Take this wine cup of fury from My hand, and cause all the nations... to drink it. And they will drink and stagger and go mad because of the sword that I will send among them... Drink, be drunk, and vomit; fall and rise no more, because of the sword." - Jeremiah 25:15–16, 27

So my answer is no, this isn't from God.
 
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This is not having anything to do with God, actually it's the opposite. The idea of "empath" is pagan in root. It seems like you have a familiar spirit around you that is messing with you also based on the rest of what you said.

The bible says to not trust emotions Jeremiah 17:9.
You can be intuitive and guess peoples emotions and insight based on their behavior and mannerisms, but there is no spiritual gift that tells you what a person is thinking/feeling.

I suggest you start delving into the idea of being an "empath" and seeing where it comes from. To give you an example, does this websites talking about an empath point you to God? Link Because all teachings on the idea comes from a spiritual ability that you in particular have. I was once told by a psychic I was an empath... This is stuff that is linked to Satan, and not God.

If God doesn't want you around someone, He will tell you why and it will be rooted in scripture. God is not the author of confusion. He will not tell you half of something.

There is no example in scripture where God gives you negative feelings like nausea or even the idea of feeling drunk. There is scripture however that talks about that feeling if it is given by God because of judgement but it's an effect of Judgement, not God giving the exact feeling. Example: "Take this wine cup of fury from My hand, and cause all the nations... to drink it. And they will drink and stagger and go mad because of the sword that I will send among them... Drink, be drunk, and vomit; fall and rise no more, because of the sword." - Jeremiah 25:15–16, 27

So my answer is no, this isn't from God.
I was refering to being empath from psychology.
How it works as highly sensitive. That is all. that is not demonic. It is how you are wired, from birth. not going around being psychic.
 
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I think it’s important that our identity is grounded in the word. When we put labels upon ourselves He didn’t assign problems usually follow. God never called us empaths.



It’s important to balance what one receives in the dreamtime and the waking state. The former is the source of greatest vulnerability. Everything we see and hear isn’t the Lord and knowing the difference is a must.

The larger question you should be asking yourself is why you were willing to meet him at all. Given what you said it seems you’re on a different plane and the outing isn’t related to you but what he desires from you on his behalf. Why would you aid someone in finding a woman to hook up with? You don’t need a spiritual sensation to know that’s wrong.

Which begs the question and probably the lesson in all of this. What’s missing in your life that allowed this to occur? I don’t want an answer but it’s something you should consider.

~bella
I do not force unbelievers to adhere to something they do not want to do. I can have a coffee or meal without anything related to it. Then we can have a conversation. It`ll be I think or believe this, kinda and a non force conversation. I know unbelievers from very old time back as well as believers. it does not mean I do what the unbelievers do. Or not standing up for mine. It just mean I respect their choice. If it comes up that will say. It is not someone I speak to every day. He is in another country after all. So he chose to chase someone to hook up with. I cannot stop him, but I can say what I think. I am not like I can`t talk to you because you do this. How do we reach people otherwise. Like I said, I know both believers and unbelievers. But no I do not spend much time with the last. If any. This is a one off thing. What he does, I have nothing to do with as I do not participate. If he asked me, I would say no. I don`t do that. I can`t chain him to the chair can I. It is his choice. when talking about things he would know. so the you know that is wrong for an unbeliever it is not. he wants to do it, I can`t stop him. If he does not listen.
 
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I was refering to being empath from psychology.
How it works as highly sensitive. That is all. that is not demonic. It is how you are wired, from birth. not going around being psychic.
Okay, but still from the rest of your responses, my answer is still the same.
 
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I do not force unbelievers to adhere to something they do not want to do. I can have a coffee or meal without anything related to it.

If the situation was a simple as you suggest there would be no reason for the thread. I have my own thoughts about those sensations that I won’t address. And I agree with @Delvianna but I know you won’t receive it. You believe what you believe.

~bella
 
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If the situation was a simple as you suggest there would be no reason for the thread. I have my own thoughts about those sensations that I won’t address. And I agree with @Delvianna but I know you won’t receive it. You believe what you believe.

~bella
I do not compromise my faith ever. That should be clear. In terms of his hooking up or my involvement
 
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