annafullofgrace
His blood sets me free.
Yes, we are! Just celebrated 16 years yesterday...we are happy and stronger than ever.
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Yes, we are! Just celebrated 16 years yesterday...we are happy and stronger than ever.
People looking for "happiness" will never find it. Life is messy, chaotic, frustrating and rarely "happy". If you're looking for what's more important (and biblical) try contentment. Being content in all situations is what you want to have. I've been married for 20 years. Have I been "happy" for the 20 years we've been married? No. I've been angry, frustrated, anxious, occasionally terrified...but not "happy" for 20 years. But through it all, I've been CONTENT...knowing that this is where I am supposed to be and with whom I'm supposed to be.
My wife and I were friends first, ... and that friendship eventually developed into romance.
I think that young people today need good examples of successful marriage. Marriage partners need to be willing to live sacrificially for one another (in other words, it's not about ME, it's about US). It takes a while for people to get to that point today. I wouldn't be in a rush, if it was me.
People looking for "happiness" will never find it. Life is messy, chaotic, frustrating and rarely "happy". If you're looking for what's more important (and biblical) try contentment. Being content in all situations is what you want to have. I've been married for 20 years. Have I been "happy" for the 20 years we've been married? No. I've been angry, frustrated, anxious, occasionally terrified...but not "happy" for 20 years. But through it all, I've been CONTENT...knowing that this is where I am supposed to be and with whom I'm supposed to be.
From a posting to "Singles only" ...
Sounds like you are truly blessed!A very happy marriage here! Started dating in 2006, got married in 2011, and we are celebrating 7 years in July. I married my best friend and love spending (almost) every single day with him He's kind and caring... affectionate and takes care of me. No regrets about marrying him.