I've met people that follow the basic philosophy you have outlined here, and the result is, they have zero impact for Christ at all.
When you completely and totally isolate yourself in a cocoon of Christian-approved only culture... you make yourself utterly and completely irrelevant to the culture around you.
You are assuming that there is only one means to reach the lost and it is by joining in on the popular cultural things of the world to fit in with them so you can talk to them about Christ. But the Bible says,
"Wherein they think it strange that ye run not with
them to the same excess of riot, speaking evil of
you" (1 Peter 4:4).
A Christian can reach the lost by forums, books, movies, comics, tracts, and by speaking on a street corner. There is no need to... "
If you cannot beat em, then join them" kind of thinking taught in the Scriptures.
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If you really think about it, if what you said was the ideal for a Christian, then the Amish should be the example to follow. Yet the Amish have zero impact on the culture around them. None whatsoever.
But most Amish do not feel the call of the great commission to go out into the world and to preach the gospel unto all nations.
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Ironically, my parents church, the church I grew up in, followed everything you have said here, to the letter. No movies, no TV, no nothing. And the result of that was the church died.
The founding members, and their families grew the church.... but when the younger generation had a choice on where to go for church, they all left, including myself.
Because we are living in the last days. Nobody wants to follow the Lord and pick up their cross and deny themselves anymore. But as it was in the times of Noah, so shall it be at the coming of the Son of Man.
Why? Because the church wasn't relevant. The church had no impact. The church was completely disconnected from the world around them.
No. John says love not the world, and neither the things of the world. If any man love the world, the love of the father is not in them.
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Yes, you can serve some food to the hungry, but when people show up and you have no idea who won the super bowl, or what the Lion King is about..... they leave the church, and they don't follow Christ.
Friend, if they stop following Christ, it is not because you did not entice them with the things of the world enough, it is because they do not want to follow the light and they want the things of this world instead. For what on Earth does 2 Timothy 4:10 even mean to you?
It says:
"For Demas hath forsaken me, having loved this present world,..." (2 Timothy 4:10).
Yet, you are saying that we should show that we love this world by loving it's movies and sports so as to help people follow Christ. Sorry, that is not anywhere taught in the Bible.
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This is exactly what happened at my parents church. Finally the head pastor retired, and a new pastor is there, that doesn't have this mentality, and now the church is growing again, after lost 3/4 of their members.
Jesus said narrow is the way that leads unto life and FEW be there that finds it. Just because you see growth in a church does not mean anything. There are many religions that have big amount of attendees. That does not mean that they are following the way, the truth, and the life (Who is Jesus Christ). Do you think Jesus would watch Lion King, or enjoy the superbowl? Think man.