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If you are happy with your laws where you are about 30,000 times more likely to get shot than I am, then I am happy for you. :p



Hahaha, so true!

Actually, murder statistics in the UK are equal to the US when it comes to the population ratio, just happens to more often be axes and knives than firearms because of the restrictions. Humans will kill eachother regardless of what you do, I'd rather have my rifle.
 
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Actually, murder statistics in the UK are equal to the US when it comes to the population ratio, just happens to more often be axes and knives than firearms because of the restrictions. Humans will kill eachother regardless of what you do, I'd rather have my rifle.

Wrong. :p Take a look at this link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_homicide_rate

Per 100,000 people, there are 5.7 people killed in the US while only 2.03 are killed in the UK. England & Wales actually only have 1.62 murders per 100k. That includes guns, knives, ice picks, whatever. :p

When you compare violence & development of one's country, we're at the top of the list. The absolute top of the list. Why? Lack of gun control.
 
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LOL. That was the strangest member ever, though. She was talking about her life-sized, inanimate doll as if it were a real person. I mean, who does that?

There is a sub-culture where people have sex/imaginary relationships with stuffed animals and dolls.
 
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There is a sub-culture where people have sex/imaginary relationships with stuffed animals and dolls.
Gosh, really? How strange. Those sorts of people must have something wrong with them mentally to still think that their dolls are alive. I mean, that's the sort of thing that you'd expect a 7- or 8-year-old to think, not an adult.
 
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Gosh, really? How strange. Those sorts of people must have something wrong with them mentally to still think that their dolls are alive. I mean, that's the sort of thing that you'd expect a 7- or 8-year-old to think, not an adult.

I shouldn't think they believe they're alive.

But besides, do people involved with animistic folk religions have something wrong with them mentally?
 
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Well, this person was talking about her doll being raped (as in, actually, physically, being forced to have sex), so I definitely think that she thought that her doll was alive. And that really creeps me out.

And at least people who believe in animistic folk religions don't think that inanimate piles of plastic are alive. Rather, they think that things are alive that fit the scientific definition of "life." And if they want to say that those living things have souls, then that's their prerogative, and it actually would make logical sense to think that.
 
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Why do people complain about their own creation?

Saying that rape is MORE about power than it is about sex does NOT say it does not have a sexual component.

You are the one creating the diacotomy, not me or the words I wrote.

I agree, this rape being "only power" is utterly untrue. There are many other ways to attain power. Alot of rape has to do with uncontrollable sexual urges and acting out of lustful perversion, many of which are chemically induced(alcohol, cocaine). It also has to do with the media shoving sex down everyones throats, young peole being bombaded sexual with images from the media. Women who wear barely any clothing dangling their assests in front of everyone in public. The average male becomes so overloaded with sex from society and the media that some people do impulsive things like rape. . Addiction to pornography, etc. Same sex rape in prison is also the same thing, the people become so twisted and sick they crave sick things.
 
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I agree, this rape being "only power" is utterly untrue. There are many other ways to attain power. Alot of rape has to do with uncontrollable sexual urges and acting out of lustful perversion, many of which are chemically induced(alcohol, cocaine). It also has to do with the media shoving sex down everyones throats, young peole being bombaded sexual with images from the media. Women who wear barely any clothing dangling their assests in front of everyone in public. The average male becomes so overloaded with sex from society and the media that some people do impulsive things like rape. . Addiction to pornography, etc. Same sex rape in prison is also the same thing, the people become so twisted and sick they crave sick things.
So you're saying that rape is justifiable? Really?
 
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Well, this person was talking about her doll being raped (as in, actually, physically, being forced to have sex), so I definitely think that she thought that her doll was alive. And that really creeps me out.

Well, I disagree. I think that the claim that the doll was raped was metaphorical, and that the person was quite aware that the doll was not alive.

And at least people who believe in animistic folk religions don't think that inanimate piles of plastic are alive. Rather, they think that things are alive that fit the scientific definition of "life." And if they want to say that those living things have souls, then that's their prerogative, and it actually would make logical sense to think that.

Animism: The attribution of souls to plants, inanimate objects, and natural phenomena.

Animism is all about believing objects are "alive".

I agree, this rape being "only power" is utterly untrue. There are many other ways to attain power.

That's right; but sex, being emotionally charged, is a very direct and demeaning way of having power over someone. That is the sense in which rape is sexual. The rapist is conscious of the degrading nature of the abuse for the victim, because of emotional and social meanings attached to sex and sexual behaviour.

Alot of rape has to do with uncontrollable sexual urges and acting out of lustful perversion, many of which are chemically induced(alcohol, cocaine).

I think you are wrong.

A man who wants easy sex can pay for it. He doesn't have to risk a serious criminal charge when he can, if he feels so inclined, pay for sex. The desire for sex is not enough, on its own, to make someone rape. If it were, rape would happen an awful lot more.

It also has to do with the media shoving sex down everyones throats, young peole being bombaded sexual with images from the media. Women who wear barely any clothing dangling their assests in front of everyone in public.

Ah yes, rape is women's fault. Of course. Silly me.

Actually, it's the stigmatization and taboo nature of sex that makes rape happen. If sex were less taboo, rape would be less of a wielding of power over the victim.

The average male becomes so overloaded with sex from society and the media that some people do impulsive things like rape.

No, this is false. A man can touch or pay for sex. It takes a further drive - a drive to hurt, punish, or control - to push a man to rape. Would you rape someone if you were incredibly sexually aroused and your desires were frustrated?

Addiction to pornography, etc.

What has that to do with anything?

Same sex rape in prison is also the same thing, the people become so twisted and sick they crave sick things.

No it isn't. Same-sex rape in prison is about the establishment of a hierarchy in a dangerous and brutal environment.
 
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I agree, this rape being "only power" is utterly untrue. There are many other ways to attain power. Alot of rape has to do with uncontrollable sexual urges and acting out of lustful perversion, many of which are chemically induced(alcohol, cocaine). It also has to do with the media shoving sex down everyones throats, young peole being bombaded sexual with images from the media. Women who wear barely any clothing dangling their assests in front of everyone in public. The average male becomes so overloaded with sex from society and the media that some people do impulsive things like rape. . Addiction to pornography, etc. Same sex rape in prison is also the same thing, the people become so twisted and sick they crave sick things.

OH MY GOODNESS. AGAIN. OH MY GOODNESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's women's fault, it's the media's fault, it's because of drugs....do you have ANY IDEA how many rapists have said what you have said here to justify their crimes? If this was a psych exam the score would have been on the criminal side. Sex predators use those excuses all the time. Not saying you are one of those, only pointing out the rhetoric is exactly what rapists/pedophiles say.
 
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I agree, this rape being "only power" is utterly untrue. There are many other ways to attain power. Alot of rape has to do with uncontrollable sexual urges and acting out of lustful perversion, many of which are chemically induced(alcohol, cocaine). It also has to do with the media shoving sex down everyones throats, young peole being bombaded sexual with images from the media. Women who wear barely any clothing dangling their assests in front of everyone in public. The average male becomes so overloaded with sex from society and the media that some people do impulsive things like rape. . Addiction to pornography, etc. Same sex rape in prison is also the same thing, the people become so twisted and sick they crave sick things.

:doh: :doh:
 
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I agree, this rape being "only power" is utterly untrue. There are many other ways to attain power. Alot of rape has to do with uncontrollable sexual urges and acting out of lustful perversion, many of which are chemically induced(alcohol, cocaine). It also has to do with the media shoving sex down everyones throats, young peole being bombaded sexual with images from the media. Women who wear barely any clothing dangling their assests in front of everyone in public. The average male becomes so overloaded with sex from society and the media that some people do impulsive things like rape. . Addiction to pornography, etc. Same sex rape in prison is also the same thing, the people become so twisted and sick they crave sick things.

I doubt CreedIsChrist was trying to blame just women and the media, but rather listing some possibilities and it probably came out wrong. To me rape is typically a power struggle but it's true there are variances on the reason. Let's face it, it's never been completely shown in all cases what causes some rapists to rape. Typically it's the control thing psychologically, yet not always. I definitely don't agree with it being a hyperactive sex drive though - those men can just go out and get some without rape.

As for the doll issue - since this thread is all over the place in clever ways - I can thank God that is one kink I actually DONT have! :clap::clap::clap:
 
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I doubt CreedIsChrist was trying to blame just women and the media, but rather listing some possibilities and it probably came out wrong. To me rape is typically a power struggle but it's true there are variances on the reason. Let's face it, it's never been. completely shown in all cases what causes some rapists to rape. Typically it's the control thing psychologically, yet not always. I definitely don't agree with it being a hyperactive sex drive though - those men can just go out and get some without rape.

As for the doll issue - since this thread is all over the place in clever ways - I can thank God that is one kink I actually DONT have! :clap::clap::clap:

Well, the post blamed everything but the rapists. Those listed things are merely scapegoats...the fact they are traditional is irrelevent. No different than when it was traditional to believe the earth was flat. Did people balking at the assertion of a round earth change the fact it wasn't round?
 
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