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It is strange that Lindon Tinuviel doesnt know where the rule is mentioned and yet doesnt demand proof that it is indeed a rule.
How can we know whether the proper procedures have been followed ?
Chrisbot pmed me to let me know that I was reported and given a link to the report thread. But all I got when I hit the link was..
Stormy, you do not have permission to access this page.
A day later a mod closed my thread and said if I had any question to respond to the pm.. I did .. its been two days and still no response. I just pmed her again.
I can PM you the information that you are requesting.
Calm down, something went wrong in the coding, just chile, and let the techs get on it, if you seriously understand all the coding being put in this, you'd know it takes time and tweaking, please don't point fingers at Ron, he is only 1 person.This is troubling. We've been repeatedly told by mnphysicist that breaking this or that rule will reult in an infraction, except perhaps in the case of a first offense. Yet if someone can gain no information as to what decision was made, the reasoning behind it, or how one stands in the process, then there is no chance to learn from the first offense. That person remains no less vulnerable to an infraction than previously.
I have to ask, is the policy disseminating pocess on this board meant to keep the membership well informed or not? I can imagine reasons why it might not be.
Calm down, something went wrong in the coding, just chile, and let the techs get on it, if you seriously understand all the coding being put in this, you'd know it takes time and tweaking, please don't point fingers at Ron, he is only 1 person.
I don't think Ron is the tech guy, but Ron has alot on his plate, and if the members could understand that there is thousands of members, and only 3 head admins, that have access to all this, then maybe you can see what they are putting up with.This has little or nothing to do with coding. This is a policy and implementation issue.
And Ron, brother... if you're really the only coder, then I heartily apologize for everything I've mumbled about you under my breath....
I have to say..... I completely and totally understand that people have jobs, families, real life.I don't think Ron is the tech guy, but Ron has alot on his plate, and if the members could understand that there is thousands of members, and only 3 head admins, that have access to all this, then maybe you can see what they are putting up with.
Yes it has alot to do with the coding, the codes have to be right fo rthe reports to work right. Ron, Lee, and Constance are doing the best they can, they also have a real life other then cf as well, they have jobs, and they come here and do this as well. Give them a break.
I agree, and we need a way in which to do this. The first step is getting the reported member access to the report thread, so they can interact with staff. That helps one member, but doesn't help the membership as a whole. We do need a way to deseminate the finer points of rule application so all can benefit. How to do so with the constraints we are under is tricky, but it is something we are looking at.This is troubling. We've been repeatedly told by mnphysicist that breaking this or that rule will reult in an infraction, except perhaps in the case of a first offense. Yet if someone can gain no information as to what decision was made, the reasoning behind it, or how one stands in the process, then there is no chance to learn from the first offense. That person remains no less vulnerable to an infraction than previously.
We need a way to do so, if we don't members are operating in the dark, and thats going to cause no small amount of problems, if not now, in 6 months it certainly will. Things build over time... no one needs those problems.I have to ask, is the policy disseminating pocess on this board meant to keep the membership well informed or not? I can imagine reasons why it might not be.
Our policy folks are on other projects at the moment, this information will be published in such a way that its easy to reference. Same with the removal of dated or change information. Hopefully this will be cleaned up by the end of the year.It seems to me that keeping the membership less informed than ever before is being accomplished, whether or not that is intentional. Rules and sub-rules and interpretations of rules, and even infractionable non-rules (see 'words that', re cursing) are scattered here and there. Stickied Announced rules have been changed, yet the changed rule remains unstickied, as this particular thread evidences.
Guilty as charged as far as PM's go. I do not get to all of them, as there is not enough time in a day. It is something we are looking into as well.People complain staff do not answer PMs. People complain of posts removed without notification. People complain reports are not being acted on at all.
Send the admin of the area a PM, and if you don't get a response in 3 days, send one to me, with the word Urgent in the title.I made a (rare: my second in a year) report myself yesterday, regarding a link that could be very damaging to CF's reputation. Except for a Chrisbot response, nothing's been done.
I think its a matter of rapid change at all levels. Staff are having difficulty keeping up. We should be out here more.All we hear in response is how busy staff are - but if so, what exactly are they busy doing, as they don't appear to be spending much time responding to members, privately or publicly. The few staff who do respond do so in limited fashion:
This is a good point, and one I very much agree with. How to handle it will take some thought.Can staff not understand that appearances are everything where secrecy is the norm?
This has little or nothing to do with coding. This is a policy and implementation issue.
I'm an assembly language guy, and my php knowledge is limited, so I don't code on CF (although it may be possible that the electronics in the server are benefiting from some of my code, although its been a while since I did my last fab tool design work)And Ron, brother... if you're really the only coder, then I heartily apologize for everything I've mumbled about you under my breath....
Ron said:I'm an assembly language guy
If I was offended enough to report a post, I am going to want to know the disposition of it. Many, many times a reported post will have no action taken on it. If I am not allowed to even know the outcome, then I am going to see a post I was offended by and reported sit untouched with no idea why. That affects me personally.ok lets make this easy - how does the outcome of a reported post affect you personally here when it isnt your post?
If I was offended enough to report a post, I am going to want to know the disposition of it. Many, many times a reported post will have no action taken on it. If I am not allowed to even know the outcome, then I am going to see a post I was offended by and reported sit untouched with no idea why. That affects me personally.
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