Because we have equality....women can pursue the same opportunities as men, and they do.
If we begin to grant them opportunities, wealth, jobs that we aren't granting to men....then yes, it is a loss for men.
That's the zero-sum thinking I was challenging. Women will also
create opportunities which men will be able to take up. It's not one person's gain at another's expense, but a net gain to the overall system.
Then you would be taking opportunities away from employers and denying them the right to choose who they see fit. What's the word for that? Oppression?
Denying them the right to choose in a way which unfairly disadvantages some? Yes, I would do that. It's not oppression to insist that someone not be oppressed. It's creating a just society.
Let's go back to my statement about not being able to do squat about things like genital mutilation in Sudan. I mean, we could, by taking over the place and forcing it to stop. My guess is you'd call that oppression.
There's a middle way between ignoring the problem, and taking over the place. That middle way looks an awful lot like a feminist movement.
We have the law. We need no feminist movement to enforce the law.
A) the law as it stands doesn't do enough, and b) yes, we certainly do need to make sure laws are actually enforced. Even the laws that exist now aren't adequately enforced.
Then I would suggest women be required to take combat roles.
I'd suggest nobody should be required to take a combat role. (That's my pacifism again).
I'd suggest that men be given the same preference for parenthood as mothers.
Do you mean, things like leave provisions from employers? I completely agree.
I'd suggest the full abolishing of all women's only institutions.
I'm open to considering that on a case-by-case basis. If the institution can't be shown to be contributing to the common good by doing what it does exclusively for women, I agree there's no reason for it to be able to exclude men.
I'd suggest that in a divorce, each party leaves with what they earned.
This system exists in some places (the French have a "
séparation de biens" form of marriage which is like this) and it can have benefits and drawbacks. The French have a system where at the outset you choose the "regime" of marriage that you prefer to operate under, and that seems to me that that might allow options for people who want to do marriage differently.
I'd also want to see some financial protections for those who've been abused.
I'd suggest that if women can abort a baby, men can at least abandon it....my money my choice.
With some caveats, I'd be open to at least a window of time within which this could be the case. Although I note that abandoning babies doesn't seem to be all that difficult for men now.