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Well, I don't view it all that moralistically (what people do in their bedroom, consensually, is their business), but a sadomasochistic relationship isn't exactly something I think people should go out of their way to emulate.
No, of course not. But that's not the only way people are sexually damaged.
If that is true why are you commenting on a form of relating that is wholly relegated to the bedroom?
Would you say the same holds true for homosexual and transgender relationships? Should people avoid these as well?
I'm saying it's wrong to try to pressure somebody who is "vanilla" into BDSM, or to regard them as immature.
No. I have made my feelings on both clear in the past: I regard it as an evil to condemn LGBT people for whom they love or how they view their own gender.
Do you feel that pressure is commonplace?
Do you think similar behaviors exist amongst homosexuals?
I think the idea is concerned with their relationship with women, not with God. You could call us "eunuchs", for our own sake.
Femininity is a biological fact, not a social construct.
I think that too many women abandon their true and much needed strengths for the siren song of their limited gifts.
I think the American Way of living on the financial edge and swimming in debt is somewhat emasculating. Add in the health care guillotine where even the insured can be financially broken by unforseen expenses....
Capitalism (in our society) rewards doers, risk takers, and those with gifts and talents the majority don’t possess. And we love stories about people overcoming the odds to succeed. I don’t believe most have a sink or swim mentality. But those with the greatest wealth and power do.
We love convenience and pampering too. Love it!
I agree, most women are not into sexual abuse.
They're still allured by Christian Grey's dominate/sadistic qualities.
I'm not trying to argue that women want everything represented in that character.
Aren't those legitimate reasons to get angry? The system is rigged on purpose to deny equal opportunity from a lot of ordinary men, and that is genuinely unfair.
Capitalism (in our society) rewards doers, risk takers, and those with gifts and talents the majority don’t possess.
And we love stories about people overcoming the odds to succeed. I don’t believe most have a sink or swim mentality.
The problem is misdirected anger... typically against people that are also victims of the same system.
What are some examples of those jobs?Any job that defeminizes a women should be avoided...
Femininity is gender-based behaviour.
I do hope you don't intend that to read as if women have "limited" gifts in general. But I would say each person is unique, has a unique, God-given mix of gifts, personality, character and so on; and that that is what should be put to the service of our vocation. We shouldn't let society tell us that girls (or boys) don't do particular things, or that girls (or boys) must do particular things, but should live authentically out of our God-given identity.
OK. so when you say...
What are some examples of those jobs?
Jobs that require great physical strength would do it.
As for MGTOW, how Christian men can proclaim "self-ownership" while confessing Christ as Lord does baffle me a bit.
The populists area doing a great disservice for their constituents by misdirecting the anger toward those with whom they should join forces to challenge the system.
In light of the question from the OP, how can we (ordinary citizens) manage our anger (even if it is a legitimate anger) in a healthy way?
For example, taking actions towards change civilly and praying (healthy) versus bashing (unhealthy)?
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