Anger and Forgivness

[Nathan55]

A while back I was dating this girl, and I was happy for a while and all was cool. MY friends though were not liking it. They would insult me and her, exclude me from stuff because I was going out with her, and just delt out a lot of disrespect. After the relationship ended my friends and I became closer again and it was cool, but when I think back to when I was dating that girl I still get mad about what they did. Even though we are friends now and have learned to respect each other better, when ever that topic comes up in conversation i start ranting about how i was treated.

I dont know if i am forgiving them or not. We are very close friends now but i still get upset over what happend almost a year ago, is that ok?

Thanks

Nathan55

 

[chilibowl]

if they approched you in a sorrowful/repentant manor then yes, if they haven't, and if they were good friends and they didn't know of this wound on your heart it would be okay to let them know, even in anger if it came to it.. but at the same time you got to be ready to let it go when asked (When Things are worked out)

 

[Nathan55]

One did apologize, i dnt know about the others for sure, perhaps i should judt try and let things go.
Thanks

Nathan55

 

[chilibowl]

if you truly can and not harbor hard feelings that would be the Best thing!

 

[Ant21]

Where your friends against your relationship for any particular reason? Eg I'm against my sister's relationship with her boyfriend because it has stunted and reversed her relationship with God and that is the most important thing in life. I still get on well with her boyfriend most of the time, but I don't acsept (agree with) their relationship. However, that said, when/if I confront them I should be doing it in love and not out of anger or personal dislike.

 

[Nathan55]

One confessed that he gave me such treatment because he felt that if he didnt, another kid (who i am friends with) would have made fun of him too.