yuppers
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Well, I'm several years younger then you and haven't experienced what you have but I can relate to being lonely and having no hope. It must be hard not having your friends or family close by. Can I ask why you are so far away from everyone? If you genuinely don't have anyone significant living around you have you considered moving closer to your friends or family? If you wouldn't consider moving then you have to really start making an effort to improve your living circumstances where you are. 35 is still in the first 1/3 of your life. Lots of time to make things better. I think you have to make more of an effort to find yourself a church where you fit in. Instead of making judgments about them to early maybe give a church a little more of a chance. Sign up for a program and start getting involved. Then you can start meeting like minded people to you. With your singleness, it can be very rough sometimes. Have you considered online dating? In your age bracket I think people who are online are a lot more serious and willing to settle down with someone. Make yourself a good profile, post some nice pictures of yourself, and then be patient in finding someone. Be willing to put yourself out there again. You might get turned down a few times but be prepared to brush it off, pick yourself up again, and go out with someone else. It might take time but I don't think it's out of the question that you'll NEVER meet someone again. And in all of that remember to hold true to God and your own values. Never feel like you should change who you are or turn your back on God to get the things you desire.
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