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I was soo happy yesterday! Well I fell back down.
I scheduled an appointment with a therapist but I am upset with myself.
What happened was this, I was struck by the worry that my hobbies were idolatry because I had spent several weeks worrying about whether I could use them, whether I loved them more than God, whether I could use them or not. I got these thoughts that said "If you read that newspaper you God will take this away" so I would ask God not to let that happen. Now my mind is saying that because I desired to go back to making up stories sooo bad I made it into an idol.
So I felt like I had to give it up forever, and cried for like two hours. My mind tells me that is a sign of an uhealthy attachment but I am mostly upset about not being to think like I am accustomed to. I have these random thoughts about my family that are usually funny and they pop up when someone tells me a story as well, now my mind tells me I have to stop them everytime they come into my mind,because I wanted it back too much. Even though I have stopped for now, I keep feeling like I won't be able to live without this(though I know I can) which makes me feel like it must be an idol!
So now even if I were to get over this, I wouldn't be able to use it again because making up stories would be tainted by my first idolatry if I committed it! If I use the tainted hobby I might go to hell. I am frustrated with myself.
Ugh, I don't know why this is so hard for me!
 

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I was soo happy yesterday! Well I fell back down.
I scheduled an appointment with a therapist but I am upset with myself.
What happened was this, I was struck by the worry that my hobbies were idolatry because I had spent several weeks worrying about whether I could use them, whether I loved them more than God, whether I could use them or not. I got these thoughts that said "If you read that newspaper you God will take this away" so I would ask God not to let that happen. Now my mind is saying that because I desired to go back to making up stories sooo bad I made it into an idol.
So I felt like I had to give it up forever, and cried for like two hours. My mind tells me that is a sign of an uhealthy attachment but I am mostly upset about not being to think like I am accustomed to. I have these random thoughts about my family that are usually funny and they pop up when someone tells me a story as well, now my mind tells me I have to stop them everytime they come into my mind,because I wanted it back too much. Even though I have stopped for now, I keep feeling like I won't be able to live without this(though I know I can) which makes me feel like it must be an idol!
So now even if I were to get over this, I wouldn't be able to use it again because making up stories would be tainted by my first idolatry if I committed it! If I use the tainted hobby I might go to hell. I am frustrated with myself.
Ugh, I don't know why this is so hard for me!
Hello, i get it it seems tuff, lemme get+
I was soo happy yesterday! Well I fell back down.
I scheduled an appointment with a therapist but I am upset with myself.
What happened was this, I was struck by the worry that my hobbies were idolatry because I had spent several weeks worrying about whether I could use them, whether I loved them more than God, whether I could use them or not. I got these thoughts that said "If you read that newspaper you God will take this away" so I would ask God not to let that happen. Now my mind is saying that because I desired to go back to making up stories sooo bad I made it into an idol.
So I felt like I had to give it up forever, and cried for like two hours. My mind tells me that is a sign of an uhealthy attachment but I am mostly upset about not being to think like I am accustomed to. I have these random thoughts about my family that are usually funny and they pop up when someone tells me a story as well, now my mind tells me I have to stop them everytime they come into my mind,because I wanted it back too much. Even though I have stopped for now, I keep feeling like I won't be able to live without this(though I know I can) which makes me feel like it must be an idol!
So now even if I were to get over this, I wouldn't be able to use it again because making up stories would be tainted by my first idolatry if I committed it! If I use the tainted hobby I might go to hell. I am frustrated with myself.
Ugh, I don't know why this is so hard for me!
hello I havent really struggled with this before, but i want you to know God loves you very much, and its good your concerned about it shows that you care in my opinion, you got this i know you do.
 
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There are lots of things we can't live without that don't take away from God. Food, water, housing, clothes, etc. God wants us to be entertained and happy. You would know if it is taking more time then you should with it. God loves you. He doesn't expect you to spend all your time with him as that is not reasonable.
A happy well rounded person knows that our time is divided daily among those things we need to do including those things that we enjoy as long as they are acceptable in Gods eyes. Those things that are acceptable in Gods laws. What is the hobby that you love so much If you don't mind my asking?
We all need escape from the dredge of life sometimes.
God bless

An added note: Worrying is not acceptable as it shows a lack of faith and you don't want to do that.:)
 
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There are lots of things we can't live without that don't take away from God. Food, water, housing, clothes, etc. God wants us to be entertained and happy. You would know if it is taking more time then you should with it. God loves you. He doesn't expect you to spend all your time with him as that is not reasonable.
A happy well rounded person knows that our time is divided daily among those things we need to do including those things that we enjoy as long as they are acceptable in Gods eyes. Those things that are acceptable in Gods laws. What is the hobby that you love so much If you don't mind my asking?
We all need escape from the dredge of life sometimes.
God bless

An added note: Worrying is not acceptable as it shows a lack of faith and you don't want to do that.:)
Thank you for your kind words, it is writing and making up stories and just overall thinking in images like imagining my day or thinking about my family. I try to do it for God but I don't know if I wanted it back too badly.
 
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Thank you for your kind words, it is writing and making up stories and just overall thinking in images like imagining my day or thinking about my family. I try to do it for God but I don't know if I wanted it back too badly.
Your thoughts sound lovely to me, Godly thoughts. There are so many negative things that inter my thoughts. I think you are blessed to have such sweet thoughts. Thinking up stories, I wish I was gifted with that. I don't have the imagination. Remember also, that many of your daily thoughts are with God also. I can see nothing wrong with your daily life. God has gifted you with clean and lovely thoughts and talent to dream while awake:)..
Its good to get some bible reading somewhere in your daily living if you can.
God bless you
 
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Your thoughts sound lovely to me, Godly thoughts. There are so many negative things that inter my thoughts. I think you are blessed to have such sweet thoughts. Thinking up stories, I wish I was gifted with that. I don't have the imagination. Remember also, that many of your daily thoughts are with God also. I can see nothing wrong with your daily life. God has gifted you with clean and lovely thoughts and talent to dream while awake:)..
Its good to get some bible reading somewhere in your daily living if you can.
God bless you
Thank you
 
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Hello, i get it it seems tuff, lemme get+

hello I havent really struggled with this before, but i want you to know God loves you very much, and its good your concerned about it shows that you care in my opinion, you got this i know you do.
Thank you, it is difficult.
 
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scheduled an appointment with a therapist but I am upset with myself.
What happened was this, I was struck by the worry that my hobbies were idolatry because I had spent several weeks worrying about whether I could use them, whether I loved them more than God, whether I could use them or not. I got these thoughts that said "If you read that newspaper you God will take this away" so I would ask God not to let that happen. Now my mind is saying that because I desired to go back to making up stories sooo bad I made it into an idol.

First of all do keep that appointment with your therapist.

Please try to read this article on dealing with OCD and intrusive thoughts.
25 Tips For Succeeding In Your OCD Therapy — Western Suffolk Psychological Services

If you can print it out and take it with you to show your therapist.

Your thoughts telling you not to read the newspaper, write stories etc etc are not real, you have to acknowledge them and carry on doing what you have planned to do.

You do not have to obey or argue with these thoughts.

God knows all about your illness, how it affects you and he is not going to judge you because of these thoughts no matter what they say or cause you to do.
 
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I was soo happy yesterday! Well I fell back down.
I scheduled an appointment with a therapist but I am upset with myself.
What happened was this, I was struck by the worry that my hobbies were idolatry because I had spent several weeks worrying about whether I could use them, whether I loved them more than God, whether I could use them or not. I got these thoughts that said "If you read that newspaper you God will take this away" so I would ask God not to let that happen. Now my mind is saying that because I desired to go back to making up stories sooo bad I made it into an idol.
So I felt like I had to give it up forever, and cried for like two hours. My mind tells me that is a sign of an uhealthy attachment but I am mostly upset about not being to think like I am accustomed to. I have these random thoughts about my family that are usually funny and they pop up when someone tells me a story as well, now my mind tells me I have to stop them everytime they come into my mind,because I wanted it back too much. Even though I have stopped for now, I keep feeling like I won't be able to live without this(though I know I can) which makes me feel like it must be an idol!
So now even if I were to get over this, I wouldn't be able to use it again because making up stories would be tainted by my first idolatry if I committed it! If I use the tainted hobby I might go to hell. I am frustrated with myself.
Ugh, I don't know why this is so hard for me!
When is your therapy appointment?
 
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I was soo happy yesterday! Well I fell back down.
I scheduled an appointment with a therapist but I am upset with myself.
What happened was this, I was struck by the worry that my hobbies were idolatry because I had spent several weeks worrying about whether I could use them, whether I loved them more than God, whether I could use them or not. I got these thoughts that said "If you read that newspaper you God will take this away" so I would ask God not to let that happen. Now my mind is saying that because I desired to go back to making up stories sooo bad I made it into an idol.
So I felt like I had to give it up forever, and cried for like two hours. My mind tells me that is a sign of an uhealthy attachment but I am mostly upset about not being to think like I am accustomed to. I have these random thoughts about my family that are usually funny and they pop up when someone tells me a story as well, now my mind tells me I have to stop them everytime they come into my mind,because I wanted it back too much. Even though I have stopped for now, I keep feeling like I won't be able to live without this(though I know I can) which makes me feel like it must be an idol!
So now even if I were to get over this, I wouldn't be able to use it again because making up stories would be tainted by my first idolatry if I committed it! If I use the tainted hobby I might go to hell. I am frustrated with myself.
Ugh, I don't know why this is so hard for me!
Were you able to see your therapist yet? I hope so, We don't want you to fall back again. We are all praying for you. Keep us informed with how you are doing, okay?
God bless you!
 
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