it's a long story so let me set this up with bullet points.
- cousin was the head of music/praise and worship with wife of 14 years
-found out not only she was bisexual , but smoking weed, drinking and cheating. when he found out about the cheating, she flew out of state to see new boyfriend who lives out of state.
- she is no longer in church , has new tattoos and basically drugs and partying is her lifestyle
now, what i've spoken to her about her actions and the family and all that. the church has also. she's determined to get a divorce and move out of state.
my cousin is determined to 'win her back' despite the fact she told him it's over and has tattoos on her back of the other mans name.
he's angry when i tell him to move on, theres more out there- tells me that his faith is different than mine and has surrounded himself with people that will tell him what he wants to hear. i just tell him to focus on his kids and securing them legally so she cant kidnap them. he seems to think that going to get anything done legally is questioning his faith and compromising his prayers.
he flip flops on his emotions - one min he's hard and going through with divorce and focusing on god , afraid of standing up for himself because he thinks that god will be angry with him. on the other hand he lets her control him gives her money flowers and lets her come and go, when he's feeling down.
what should be done? i've done all i can to really help him with advice and direct him - he asks me the same questions over and over and over again..then argues with me like im his wife or something..she told me that she wants me to be there for him because he's going to implode when this doesnt work the way he wants
- cousin was the head of music/praise and worship with wife of 14 years
-found out not only she was bisexual , but smoking weed, drinking and cheating. when he found out about the cheating, she flew out of state to see new boyfriend who lives out of state.
- she is no longer in church , has new tattoos and basically drugs and partying is her lifestyle
now, what i've spoken to her about her actions and the family and all that. the church has also. she's determined to get a divorce and move out of state.
my cousin is determined to 'win her back' despite the fact she told him it's over and has tattoos on her back of the other mans name.
he's angry when i tell him to move on, theres more out there- tells me that his faith is different than mine and has surrounded himself with people that will tell him what he wants to hear. i just tell him to focus on his kids and securing them legally so she cant kidnap them. he seems to think that going to get anything done legally is questioning his faith and compromising his prayers.
he flip flops on his emotions - one min he's hard and going through with divorce and focusing on god , afraid of standing up for himself because he thinks that god will be angry with him. on the other hand he lets her control him gives her money flowers and lets her come and go, when he's feeling down.
what should be done? i've done all i can to really help him with advice and direct him - he asks me the same questions over and over and over again..then argues with me like im his wife or something..she told me that she wants me to be there for him because he's going to implode when this doesnt work the way he wants
