Okay I'll clear this up this is why a heavier object always hits our idealized Earth regradless of air resitsnace (i.e. (1 in my last post):
Newtons universal law of graviationa states that (note M can be thought of as the mass of the Earth):
F = -GMm/r^2
this means that both the Earth and our object will be subject to this same force but in opposite directions, i.e. the object will feel force F push it towards the Earth and the Earth will feel force F push it towards the object.
Now we consider things from the non-inertial refernce frame of the Earth. The Earth is being accelarted with force F, so we will have to use something called
D'Alembert's principle which allows us to treat the Earth's frame as static by introducing a 'fictious' inertial force acting on the object.
From D'Alembert's principle we can now write the accelartion of the object in our non-inertial reference frame:
a = -G(M + m)/r^2
So we now have the insatneous accelartion of the object with respect to the Earth.
If we now call R the radius of the Earth and we call h the height of the object above the Earth's surface and R the radius of the Earth we can find the average accelartion by inergrating the last equation with respect to r with limits h + r and R and dividing by h to find the average accelartion, which is:
1/h * G(M + m)[1/h - 1/(h + R)]
From this equation it should be obvious that the average accelartion is directly proportional to M + m, so the higher the value of m the higher the average accelartion of the object.
It should also be obviosu that the higher the average accelartion the sooner that the object will hit the Earth, therfore a heavier object will hit the Earth befpre a lighter object (again excepting the case when tey are dropped at the same time and the same place).
QED