A question of how to interact with people

[Mongoose]

IMHO, after spending my High School years as someone who was really shy, and becoming a lot more successful in college, making yourself open up and start trying to do social things is not forcing yourself to be someone you're not.

Oh I agree. You can still be yourself and be more open to people.

The point I was getting at is that you don't change your feelings/opinions just to be accepted.

 

[Arkanin]

The point I was getting at is that you don't change your feelings/opinions just to be accepted.

Oh yeah, definitely, now I get what you're going at.

 

[Blessed75]

Yep. Confidence is key. Lack of confidence is probably one of the biggest turn-offs to women.

BINGO - we have a winner......

 

[Blessed75]

Oh I agree. You can still be yourself and be more open to people.

The point I was getting at is that you don't change your feelings/opinions just to be accepted.

Also good advice......my brother is shy as well and he's in college facing the same challenges. Women flock to him, he's good lookin' but comes off as a snob b/c he's soooooo shy.