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lismore said:
Yes it is. Good and evil. God and Satan. Jesus the only way to salvation. Inventing grey areas is only an excuse to continue sinning.

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This is another area that I find contention with. You say there are no grey areas? It's all BLACK AND WHITE???

In the bible there are many contradictions. I will put down only a couple here:

Circumcision instituted (Genesis 17:10)
Circumcision condemned (Galatians 5:2)

Good works to be seen of men (Matthew 5:16)
Good works not to be seen of men (Matthew 6:1)

I could go on and on about another 50 or so. And they aren't minor contradictions either.
So, what I am saying is that you can't ignore all the other things in the bible and say.... THIS IS SO.
All the contradictions make for very BIG GREY AREAS.

I just wanted to post this to explain to others in this thread who are not aware of it but the bible is full of conflicting
or opposed ideas depending on which book it came from.

Sad to say but there isn't definitive black or white. Not even from the bible which is why splits in churches happen due to many interpretations of conflicting texts.

 
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crumbs2000 said:
Well do you have anything from the scripture that says you shouldn't have any pleasure from sex? Just because sex is used for procreation doesn't mean it precludes any pleasure. It's made to be a pleasurable experience so that creatures like us will WANT to go and propagate the species. I'm sorry but you can't have one without the other.

If having sex is as horrible as being tortured, why would anyone want to do it? The human race would die off quickly.

Lust is a symptom of our desire to propagate.

As God said through NAthan the prophet to David:

'And if all this had been too little, I would have given you even more' All he needed to do was ask.

In the same way if Christians want copulation without conception why not just ask then eh? If Jesus is not Lord of all, he is not Lord at all.

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crumbs2000 said:


This is another area that I find contention with. You say there are no grey areas? It's all BLACK AND WHITE???

In the bible there are many contradictions. I will put down only a couple here:

Circumcision instituted (Genesis 17:10)
Circumcision condemned (Galatians 5:2)

Good works to be seen of men (Matthew 5:16)
Good works not to be seen of men (Matthew 6:1)



Neither of those are contradictions, they are both saying the same thing.

Good works are not to be seen by men to bring glory to you, they are to bring glory to God. hence the two different contexts.

Cicrumcision is a sign of difference, Paul says to circumcise your heart because you can be circumcised in the flesh without actually changing! Circumcision stands but the difference is inside:idea:

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Neither of those are contradictions, they are both saying the same thing.

Good works are not to be seen by men to bring glory to you, they are to bring glory to God. hence the two different contexts.

Cicrumcision is a sign of difference, Paul says to circumcise your heart because you can be circumcised in the flesh without actually changing! Circumcision stands but the difference is inside:idea:

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Circumcise your heart?

i know what you are trying to say. It's faith that's important not following the law. Still it then nullifies having to have you penis circumcised as it doesn't mean anything at all if you don't worship God.

Just like sex, you can have great sex and enjoy it and still love God and be thankful for giving us the [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]!

Look, however you want to be Godly or your version of it, that's cool. That's your view, just like the Jews of the old testament were obeying what they thought was God's law. In the end, JEsus came down, violated a lot of Jewish old Torah law and angered them and that's why they killed him for being a heretic.

So with people like me, who refuse to live in a repressed way by something which isn't even in the bible or even law as a commandment etc. , I am confident that I live as Christian a life as the next Christian.

As for the contradictions, I posted on the Judas forum, about the contradictory account of how Judas dies. One says he died after he hung himself with guilt. In Acts, he buys a field with the money he got and then fell dead with his internal organs coming out of him.

My point is that the bible contains a lot of glaring errors which may lead to people to take it the wrong way. So perhaps, with that you can possible see that whatever you quote from scripture there is a lot of things in it that are contradictory to each other.

Peace out.
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Good works to be seen of men (Matthew 5:16)
Good works not to be seen of men (Matthew 6:1)

Actually these two passages are not saying the same thing. One explicitly says that good works must be hidden, the other says that people should see the good works you do so that you are seen as an example of how a good christian praises his Father.

Shall I list some more?
 
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crumbs2000 said:
Circumcise your heart?

i know what you are trying to say. It's faith that's important not following the law. Still it then nullifies having to have you penis circumcised as it doesn't mean anything at all if you don't worship God.

Just like sex, you can have great sex and enjoy it and still love God and be thankful for giving us the [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]!

Look, however you want to be Godly or your version of it, that's cool. That's your view, just like the Jews of the old testament were obeying what they thought was God's law. In the end, JEsus came down, violated a lot of Jewish old Torah law and angered them and that's why they killed him for being a heretic.

So with people like me, who refuse to live in a repressed way by something which isn't even in the bible or even law as a commandment etc. , I am confident that I live as Christian a life as the next Christian.

As for the contradictions, I posted on the Judas forum, about the contradictory account of how Judas dies. One says he died after he hung himself with guilt. In Acts, he buys a field with the money he got and then fell dead with his internal organs coming out of him.

My point is that the bible contains a lot of glaring errors which may lead to people to take it the wrong way. So perhaps, with that you can possible see that whatever you quote from scripture there is a lot of things in it that are contradictory to each other.

Peace out.
:kiss:

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Even if you believe the bible is faulty (which I dont) the principle I am making stands.

Honour God in all things. If you wanna have pleasure without responsibility then fine! But dont take God's position into your own hands. Make God sovereign. Explain to him your quest for pleasure and how you dont want children. If your case is so strong would he not listen to this and stop the conception process?

P.S None of the things you quote are contradictions. If you watch the movie 'Hannibal' with Anthony Hopkins in that film he murders someone by hanging them in the same way as Judas died. Cutting someone and then hanging them so the intestines burst out. Thats unfortunately what Judas did.

You cant disobey by saying there are errors in God's word. For all scripture is God breathed and flawless even though you cant perceive the meaning.

peace to u 2

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lismore said:
Hi:wave:

Do you have a scriptural reference for that?

I Cor. 7:4-5 The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

"Lack of self control" seems to indicate the physical desire for sex, which, towards your wife, is acceptable. Read also the Song of Solomon; doesn't Solomon talk of taking pleasure in the wife, and not just for procreation?
 
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I Cor. 7:4-5 The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
?

What does that have to do with contraception or abortion?

gwilenius said:
"Lack of self control" seems to indicate the physical desire for sex, which, towards your wife, is acceptable. Read also the Song of Solomon; doesn't Solomon talk of taking pleasure in the wife, and not just for procreation?

Not that I know of. Can you post the verse where Soloman says 'take pleasure in the wife and not just for procreation?'

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crumbs2000 said:


This is another area that I find contention with. You say there are no grey areas? It's all BLACK AND WHITE???

In the bible there are many contradictions. I will put down only a couple here:

Circumcision instituted (Genesis 17:10)
Circumcision condemned (Galatians 5:2)

Good works to be seen of men (Matthew 5:16)
Good works not to be seen of men (Matthew 6:1)

I could go on and on about another 50 or so. And they aren't minor contradictions either.
So, what I am saying is that you can't ignore all the other things in the bible and say.... THIS IS SO.
All the contradictions make for very BIG GREY AREAS.

I just wanted to post this to explain to others in this thread who are not aware of it but the bible is full of conflicting
or opposed ideas depending on which book it came from.

Sad to say but there isn't definitive black or white. Not even from the bible which is why splits in churches happen due to many interpretations of conflicting texts.

There are no contradictions, just apperent contradictions - apperent because they are taken out of context of other scripture. if you read of the Old Covenant involving circumsision, and the New Covenant of Christ, you will find that even in teh Old Testament, God says there will come a time when the Old Covenant will be replaced by the New. Circumsicion, as prophesied in the OT, is no longer required under the New Covenant in Christ. There is no contradiction, because God said he would abolish it anyway, and he did. As for works, works does not lead to salvation, so concerning no good works of men, there can be no salvation on works. The works of a Christian will determine their reward, hence there can be good works from men as long as they accepted Christ. No contradiction there, either.
 
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There are no contradictions, just apperent contradictions - apperent because they are taken out of context of other scripture. if you read of the Old Covenant involving circumsision, and the New Covenant of Christ, you will find that even in teh Old Testament, God says there will come a time when the Old Covenant will be replaced by the New. Circumsicion, as prophesied in the OT, is no longer required under the New Covenant in Christ. There is no contradiction, because God said he would abolish it anyway, and he did. As for works, works does not lead to salvation, so concerning no good works of men, there can be no salvation on works. The works of a Christian will determine their reward, hence there can be good works from men as long as they accepted Christ. No contradiction there, either.

Well, you see, this is where you and Lismore contradict yourself. So, why do you insist quoting OLD TESTAMENT TORAH LAW when you yourself state that the NEW TESTAMENT covenant basically corrects a lot of the old testament beliefs except perhaps the Messianic prophecies.

If you take the Bible literally word for word, then you have a major problem. This goes for you as well Lismore. Your Hannibal Lecter analogy is very poor and irrevlevant. I don't understand the connection you are trying to make???

What is written about Judas buying a field with his money and dropping dead with his intestines spilled out, is TOTALLY DIFFERENT to the account that he died by hanging himself. You can't insert things that aren't written. You have to go by what is written in the bible because that's the way you interpret it, word for word. I'm sorry, but for those who read the two passages, they are clearly contradictory. Where does it say that Judas, comitted an act like Hara-kiri opening his guts out? All it says is that he bought a field with the moeny and he dropped dead. That is mutually exclusive from hanging one's self and then ritually disembowelling yourself.

Sorry fellas, can't have it both ways. One minute you are interpreting things literally word for word, then you say this isn't really the case, ummm, it's not as black and white as that.
 
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lismore said:
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Even if you believe the bible is faulty (which I dont) the principle I am making stands.

Honour God in all things. If you wanna have pleasure without responsibility then fine! But dont take God's position into your own hands. Make God sovereign. Explain to him your quest for pleasure and how you dont want children. If your case is so strong would he not listen to this and stop the conception process?

P.S None of the things you quote are contradictions. If you watch the movie 'Hannibal' with Anthony Hopkins in that film he murders someone by hanging them in the same way as Judas died. Cutting someone and then hanging them so the intestines burst out. Thats unfortunately what Judas did.

You cant disobey by saying there are errors in God's word. For all scripture is God breathed and flawless even though you cant perceive the meaning.

peace to u 2

:)

Now you are making stuff up. You're saying that Judas now hanged himself and cut himself OPEN? HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE???

I don't mean to sound facetious, but that's ridiculous!!!!

As for God's word being flawless, yes I agree on you there - if it is from God. 4th hand oral translations written 80 AD not by the original people is hardly something called flawless. Written by men, translated by men and cobbled together by men of the early Roman Catholic Church - modified by men of the reformation............
 
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crumbs2000 said:
Now you are making stuff up. You're saying that Judas now hanged himself and cut himself OPEN? HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE???

I don't mean to sound facetious, but that's ridiculous!!!!

As for God's word being flawless, yes I agree on you there - if it is from God. 4th hand oral translations written 80 AD not by the original people is hardly something called flawless. Written by men, translated by men and cobbled together by men of the early Roman Catholic Church - modified by men of the reformation............

Actually Judas hung himself and eventually his body fell against the rocks and burst open. As for the Bible being as it was back then it actually is. We have old manuscripts to compare what we have now to what was originally written. Also God decares in his word that the scriptures are from God. They are good for rebuke and correction. If you don't want to believe that it is up to you. Don't expect your Christian walk to get far though.
 
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Actually Judas hung himself and eventually his body fell against the rocks and burst open. As for the Bible being as it was back then it actually is. We have old manuscripts to compare what we have now to what was originally written. Also God decares in his word that the scriptures are from God. They are good for rebuke and correction. If you don't want to believe that it is up to you. Don't expect your Christian walk to get far though.

Firstly, I don't deny the historical events in the bible. What I dispute is that it is the word of God verbatim. If you know anything about the history of the bible, then you would understand that it was never written by the original apostles. It was a word of mouth oral translation written by unknown people.

Secondly, now Judas' body fell from where he hung and burst open? That's odd, it doesn't say that in Acts 1.

That's a fair call. You believe what you believe BUT PLEASE - Don't give me your judgement as to my Christian walk not getting far. Just as I don't have any claim that what I say is righteous or correct, and I would NOT PRESUME to know your destiny.

That's a problem with a lot of posters in this forum. They seem to speak for God.

I'm sure you are a better person than me. Pardon me for my shortcomings. :cry:
 
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crumbs2000 said:
Firstly, I don't deny the historical events in the bible. What I dispute is that it is the word of God verbatim. If you know anything about the history of the bible, then you would understand that it was never written by the original apostles. It was a word of mouth oral translation written by unknown people.

Secondly, now Judas' body fell from where he hung and burst open? That's odd, it doesn't say that in Acts 1.

That's a fair call. You believe what you believe BUT PLEASE - Don't give me your judgement as to my Christian walk not getting far. Just as I don't have any claim that what I say is righteous or correct, and I would NOT PRESUME to know your destiny.

That's a problem with a lot of posters in this forum. They seem to speak for God.

I'm sure you are a better person than me. Pardon me for my shortcomings. :cry:

Actually I have done a lot of studying about the origin of the Bible. Matthew and John were written by original apostles. Other books of the NT were written by those who were first hand witnesses to Jesus.

It may not say that in Acts but studying the culture at the time would help to determine what probably happened. It's possible that the rope just broke shortly after Judas hung himself but even more likly would be that his body would have not been touched and after it started to rot away it would have finally fallen and burst open just as the Bible points out. All because the Bible does not give us all the details doesn't mean it contradicts itself. A contradiction would be if the Bible said "Judas hung himself and died" and then said "Judas jumped in a lake and drowned". Same goes with the number of angels at the tomb. One person may say there was an angel at the tomb and the other may say there were 2 angels at the tomb. The first account would have to say there was only one angel at the tomb for it to contradict. We must understand that writers in that time didn't write the way we are use to writing in our current time.

Did I say anything about your destiny? I was assuming you are a Christian and if you really are your destiny will be heaven. Maybe your not a Christian but I won't judge that. What I was pointing out is what the Bible points out. That following and believing scripture is important for a Christian walk. You have problems with scripture though and that can only hinder your Christian walk. As a brother in Christ it would be wrong of me not to try to help you. Even if you don't think you need it.

(2 Timothy 3:16-17) All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work.

(2 Peter 1:20-21) knowing this first, that no prophecy of Scripture is of any private interpretation, for prophecy never came by the will of man, but holy men of God spoke as they were moved by the Holy Spirit.
 
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crumbs2000 said:
Now you are making stuff up. You're saying that Judas now hanged himself and cut himself OPEN? HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE???

I don't mean to sound facetious, but that's ridiculous!!!!

............

I Dont really care if you find it ridiculous or not but thats how it was done. Its a well known method of suicide and execution for traitors, especially in the middle ages. Dante's Inferno has this image for Judas: if you look into it you will see.....

The shock of the headlong drop and the jerk of the rope causes the body to burst open because of the cut.

Look into it and see:thumbsup:
 
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Well, you see, this is where you and Lismore contradict yourself. So, why do you insist quoting OLD TESTAMENT TORAH LAW when you yourself state that the NEW TESTAMENT covenant basically corrects a lot of the old testament beliefs except perhaps the Messianic prophecies.

If you take the Bible literally word for word, then you have a major problem. This goes for you as well Lismore. Your Hannibal Lecter analogy is very poor and irrevlevant. I don't understand the connection you are trying to make???

What is written about Judas buying a field with his money and dropping dead with his intestines spilled out, is TOTALLY DIFFERENT to the account that he died by hanging himself. You can't insert things that aren't written. You have to go by what is written in the bible because that's the way you interpret it, word for word. I'm sorry, but for those who read the two passages, they are clearly contradictory. Where does it say that Judas, comitted an act like Hara-kiri opening his guts out? All it says is that he bought a field with the moeny and he dropped dead. That is mutually exclusive from hanging one's self and then ritually disembowelling yourself.

Sorry fellas, can't have it both ways. One minute you are interpreting things literally word for word, then you say this isn't really the case, ummm, it's not as black and white as that.

Well, yes, it is black and white. If you are a disciple of Christ (not just a believer) and study the scriptures, everything and anything is either good, or bad. Certain things may not seem that way to most becasue they see life as a physical existence, but God sees life as eternal existence - you have to veiw right and wrong from God's perspective, not your own. God has no 'in between." The Levitical Law passed away with Christ, the New covenant was established with His resurrection. There are parts of the Old Testament which did NOT pass away, such as parts of the Abrahmic and Noahic Covenants, which God said will be in effect forever. Nor did the law of Seed, Time, and Harvest which applies to all aspects of life from literally planting gardens to matters of the heart and consequences for our actions. You must study the scriptures with the Holy Spirit's assistance in order to understand some of it, if you are not filled with the Holy Spirit, you will never understand the things of God, no matter how much you read the Word and study it. I assert there are no contradictions. Different witnesses have different accounts of events; all accounts are equally true when taken in the perspective of the witness- they were recording what they saw and heard as they understood it. This is why there are slight differences in some of the accounts of what Jesus did, for example. When taken as a whole, ALL of the events happened. When you piece together the different accounts, you get the entire story.

With Judas, for instance, you have a few things msitaken-
1. Judas did not buy the field, the preists did after Judas tried returning the money (Read Matt.27:6-7) Because it was blood money, the preists did not accept it, so it was still belonged to Judas. The priests took the money and purchased the field on behalf of Judas. Because the silver still technically belonged to Judas, Acts 1:18 does not contradict the statement that Judas bought the feild. Technically, Judas still owned the money; he never actually gave it to the preists, he just left it there and went to hang himself.
2. Nowhere does it say Judas disemboweled himself. Acts 1:18 only says that Judas fell headlong and his bowels spilled out, and in context with Matt 27:5, it implies one possible scenario - Judas did not have a horse or a camel, so in order to hang himself effectively, he climbed up into the tree and jumped off with the rope around his neck. Maybe he slipped and fell headfirst, or maybe he jumped headfirst intentionally. The force may have been so great that his intestines spilled out, or perhaps he tried cutting himself first; the scriptures don't say.

But then, exactly how Judas killed himself is entirely irrelevant- the only important things are the events which are described did happen, and do not contradict other scriptures. The contradiction is only apperent because people have preconceived ideas like Judas just fell on his feet (i.e. tripped) in the feild - but the scripture does not say that either. Get my point? I am not inserting things itno the scriptures; here are the facts: Judas' money was used to buy the feild. Judas Hanged himself. His bowels came out. Anything else is speculation.
3. I never said the entire Bible was 100% literal; there are numerous analogies, parables, and figurative examples presenedt, but all have aspecific meaning which may be described in the scriptures (e.g. The fig tree is analogous to the Israel, the Jewish descendants of Abraham, as is the olive tree in places. The "wild olive branch" are the grafted in Christians who are heirs to Abraham by "adoption" through Christ. Various animals represent various kingdoms, etc.) Do you understand this, or am I just blowing words?
4. There are no contradictions in the scripture. Find me one. Since none of this has anything to do with BC, feel free to PM me.
 
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Birth control that prevents conception I do not feel is wrong, since no human life is being destroyed. A sperm by itself or an egg by itself can not become a human, they are just specialized body cells.

However, once the egg is fertilized, it is no longer just a specialized cell of either the mother or the father, but a union of both; and a seperate existence from either. it is at this point human life begins. Becasue of this, birth control which destroys the fertilized egg is not good.

1. BC for fear of rape is OK - but why live in fear? Wouldn't it be better to get out of the situation? Anyway.....

2. BC for fear of incest is OK - but as with fear of rape, get out of the situation, and reprot it to authorities

3. BC within the confines of marriage is OK for sexual activitiy between the husband and the wife.

4. BC for adulterous affais, for sex between boyfriend/girlfriend, or for willfull sexual relations outside marriage is not OK.
 
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Birth control that prevents conception I do not feel is wrong, since no human life is being destroyed. A sperm by itself or an egg by itself can not become a human, they are just specialized body cells.

However, once the egg is fertilized, it is no longer just a specialized cell of either the mother or the father, but a union of both; and a seperate existence from either. it is at this point human life begins. Becasue of this, birth control which destroys the fertilized egg is not good.

1. BC for fear of rape is OK - but why live in fear? Wouldn't it be better to get out of the situation? Anyway.....

2. BC for fear of incest is OK - but as with fear of rape, get out of the situation, and reprot it to authorities

3. BC within the confines of marriage is OK for sexual activitiy between the husband and the wife.

4. BC for adulterous affais, for sex between boyfriend/girlfriend, or for willfull sexual relations outside marriage is not OK.

I can agree that within a marriage, it should be okay to use birth control, but with the way people are today, better to be safe than sorry, if birth control prevents disease and unwanted pregnancy then I think it would be responsible for those parties that you mention in your last point to use some form of b/c. You have to face facts, and this is the GRAY area I keep making, and that is: people are human(it's not an excuse) They live their lives depending on what is going on in it. These people are going to have sex whether you like it or not. You can't be totally realistic with the telling people to "abstain" from sex especially if they are non-christian. Like you all say free will. Eventually some of these people will realise that having sex all the time with various strangers, will get to them. They will get fed up and go celibate, but in the meantime, birth control, can have a positive force.
Just one last point though, your number 4. point is rather bias IMO and stereotypical. You use the adulterous affair thing as a big issue for people unmarried and having sex. It's just too GENERAL description of the TYPEs of people(the UNDESIRABLE people) that would use birth control.
I still think also, that a christian couple should be allowed to make sexual decisions without criticism. Most christians probably won't use it anyway, because of paranoia of being ridiculed, but the ones that decide to use it, when they are ready to have a child, they will. So, I think this using the baby thing is an excuse to tell people what to do- it's all you have in your argument and it doesn't stick. It's none of anyones business what a couple decides(christian or not), it's between them and God, and no one else has any rights to judge. There's too much "looking down" on people.
 
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I'm new to this site and have been quite confused with all the different interpretations of scripture people seem to have.

What's wrong with birth control anyway? Does it say in the Bible we mustn't use it? I'm 39 and I've got 2 lovely daughters but I don't intend of having any more. Am I sinning by using birth control. I'm still a baby Christian so this is news to me.
 
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The question to consider is if contraception violates either a direct teaching of Scripture or a moral principle of the Bible. Two examples: stealing is wrong because of a direct commandment (Thou shalt not steal); viewing pornography is wrong because while the Bible does not specifically say, "Thou shalt not look at the pictures in Hustler", we know what it says about lust and adultery and about Paul's admonition regarding "setting something evil before your eyes". Now, does it violate other directives given in Scripture like that of stewardship or loving God with our whole being? How about God's general directives ("Be fruitful and multiply")? Does it violate God's specific will for our lives (At a certain time the couple "came together", God was going to give them a child, but b/c prevented that)? These are things to consider when determining its Scripturality or not. As for me, I'm not so certain that it necessarily violates the Word of God, though the potential exists in individual cases.
 
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