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From the same person or two sides of the argument and where were the mods. Seriously I find that the mods are too lenient on the "former" cfIt was a direct quote from another forum, along with the "Just kill yourself" response.
It was a direct quote from another forum, along with the "Just kill yourself" response.
Lisa, am a grown woman who became a Christian a year and half ago. Of course I've used that word before. It's ugly, but in common usage at other Christian forums that are secular and barely moderated. That's simply the reality of it.
huh?I see. I guess I am just naive then. I had no idea that this was going on and to me it adds credibility to Erwin's decision to open the forum. I mean, if our mods are doing this kind of thing, then, what else are they capable of? The whole decision is starting to make alot of sense now.
It seems to me that the site is not what is broken, but those who were ruling it. So far, I have heard that moderators use language that no Christian should utter and that other moderators had to resign because they could not resist viewing soft deleted porn. There is a problem here at CF, but it is not the membership and it is not the rules themselves, and it is not the decision to change the rules. The problem is with the corruption within the administration and staff.
Thank the Good Lord for guiding me away from a staff position. I cannot even imagine how much it would have hurt me and scarred me.
Lisa
So, seriously, these people join and decide that people discussing spiritual warfare is a joke and go there just because they now have carte blanche to do that; or people go into the prayer request section and advise someone depressed to just kill themelves - something which I was told happened at a certain other forum.
I mean that all the rules have changed and were being forced to "put up and shut up" cause Erwin owns this site. Sounds like robot material to me.
Where did I say it was a mod? It was a forum which is very, very lightly modded, and lot of CF people post at. If my censoring it offended you, if and when it's allowed to be used frequently, how would you feel then?I see. I guess I am just naive then. I had no idea that this was going on and to me it adds credibility to Erwin's decision to open the forum. I mean, if our mods are doing this kind of thing, then, what else are they capable of? The whole decision is starting to make alot of sense now.
It seems to me that the site is not what is broken, but those who were ruling it. So far, I have heard that moderators use language that no Christian should utter and that other moderators had to resign because they could not resist viewing soft deleted porn. There is a problem here at CF, but it is not the membership and it is not the rules themselves, and it is not the decision to change the rules. The problem is with the corruption within the administration and staff.
Thank the Good Lord for guiding me away from a staff position. I cannot even imagine how much it would have hurt me and scarred me.
Lisa
Where did I say it was a mod? It was a forum which is very, very lightly modded, and lot of CF people post at. If my censoring it offended you, if and when it's allowed to be used frequently, how would you feel then?
Many people feel swearing is wholly acceptable. The secular world is now completely desensitized to it, in fact.
Can I be honest?
I think that non-Christians shouldn't be allowed to be mods in SOME forums that are suited more to the Christian minds. Debate, fine. Recreation, fine. But forums like Prayer Support should be left to Christian mods, at least IMO.
from BEASTY
All of these things you have had, have been prohibited for many of us here. Erwin has now changed that. He has taken nothing from you. He has only given the rest of us what you have always had and this seems to infuriate you. Please tell me how you rationalize believing that you are worthy of all of these things while, at the same time, believing that the rest of us are not. What makes you so much better than the rest of us?
Well, we'll just have to see.Since now anyone who thinks he/she is a Christian is deemed one then seems like that restriction is now totally subjective. Hitler would qualify if he could get the votes (and he has ways to get the vote).
Since now anyone who thinks he/she is a Christian is deemed one then seems like that restriction is now totally subjective. Hitler would qualify if he could get the votes (and he has ways to get the vote).
Too much logic for threadI'm confused. Some people are talking like there will be no rules, no moderation at all. I read that there will be, just maybe not the ones we have now. I'm ok with that. And even now on CF ANYONE can post ANYWHERE...even the very secluded and personal Christian only areas. It's not that hard to pick a different icon people. If they aren't already doing it why would they start now?
I've been to every part of CF, even the parts I can't post in. Denominational, teens, men only, ministry, etc. If anyone really wants to cause trouble they could have. And anyone who tries in the future can be banned by the new mods. I don't see a problem.
awww..how nice. ill take a hug! thanks..and huggs back at ya!I think this thread needs some hugs!
*stands here with a "Free Hugs" sign, and gives hugs to everyone who wants one, no matter what opinions they have here*
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