A HIGHLY sensitive person with struggles club

[thenewageriseth]

I think when it starts (not just PMS) I get all funny and stuff...I act weird...

But I want to start off by saying:
Hello Sensitive 1 and co...

Sorry it took so long to even say hi again in this club. I know I'm another sensitive person. And to whoever called you too "high maintenance" and said in so many words that you were not suitable for dating...well, honeychild, tell that person to go jump...LOL Really...(There's NOTHING wrong with being sensitive...after all...doesn't this world need more sensitive ppl more than insensitive ppl?) No, seriously, you don't have to do that...; Just kiddin'

And Anoited Poetess...I don't know but, it seems that you are not taking my advice...

 

[WalksWithChrist]

I think when it starts (not just PMS) I get all funny and stuff...I act weird...

But I want to start off by saying:
Hello Sensitive 1 and co...

Sorry it took so long to even say hi again in this club. I know I'm another sensitive person. And to whoever called you too "high maintenance" and said in so many words that you were not suitable for dating...well, honeychild, tell that person to go jump...LOL Really...(There's NOTHING wrong with being sensitive...after all...doesn't this world need more sensitive ppl more than insensitive ppl?) No, seriously, you don't have to do that...; Just kiddin'

And Anoited Poetess...I don't know but, it seems that you are not taking my advice...

Everybody, please see my posts here: http://www.christianforums.com/t2027065-why-did-god-waste-his-time-making-me.html

 

[WalksWithChrist]

Hey guys.. i am in need of prayer.. lately i have been really depressed, crying alot and rageful.. cant cope at all anymore.. almost got into a full fist fight with my sister today.. so now imma emotional wreck.. Help!

I've been in this boat before and it just so happened to be after an operation and I ended up in an actual fist fight in the street with a good friend. (long time ago...but I still remember!) My PM box is always open and so is my PRAYER box.

 

[TheSensitive1]

I was just called "high maintenance" ONLY becuase I am SO sensitive and all!!! AND that not many guys would like me!!!!!!
HOW RUDE!!!!!
NOW DO YOU ALL SEE WHY I PRAY FOR CANCER FOR MYSELF????????????????

NOW THIS PERSON IS IGNORING ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish that I was DEAD!!!! Is there anyone who wants to be friend with a SENSITIVE one like me? PLEASE pm me!!!!!
There is this one dude I can ask...he seems like he really understands me!!!

 

[Melody Joy]

why has that thread been deleted?

 

[NewLight04]

NOW THIS PERSON IS IGNORING ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish that I was DEAD!!!! Is there anyone who wants to be friend with a SENSITIVE one like me? PLEASE pm me!!!!!
There is this one dude I can ask...he seems like he really understands me!!!

Hey I am always there for you my dearest and bestest friend. I know it is always hard during your PMS. I hate PMS. Hey, I get sensitive too!! Don't let others bother you or bring you down.
There is one person who wants to be friends with a sensitive one like you and that is me. Don't cry! I hate to see you sad or upset. Wipe those tears off.
I am so blessed to have a sensitive friend and I am so glad that i have you as a best friend. I wouldn't trade our friendship for anything in the whole entire world. Your one in a million!! If anyone should treat you poorly then its their loss.

 

[TheSensitive1]

Hey I am always there for you my dearest and bestest friend. I know it is always hard during your PMS. I hate PMS. Hey, I get sensitive too!! Don't let others bother you or bring you down.
There is one person who wants to be friends with a sensitive one like you and that is me. Don't cry! I hate to see you sad or upset. Wipe those tears off.
I am so blessed to have a sensitive friend and I am so glad that i have you as a best friend. I wouldn't trade our friendship for anything in the whole entire world. Your one in a million!! If anyone should treat you poorly then its their loss.

Thank you so much dear best one! You are so kind to me and always has been. This PMS has been TOUGH...I feel the urge to cry and cry!!!! Please read my blog..it will explain all..(basicilly it says that I just allow myself to get WAY too close). I think it is sweet of you to be there for me and I am sorry for my sensitivity being SUCH a burdon if it is one! God bless you

 

[thenewageriseth]

I know what you mean, Sensitive. I hate being ignored...Do you have a fear of being ignored? If so, you and I and others have athazagoraphobia. Check the phobia out at www.phobialist.com!

 

[TheSensitive1]

I know what you mean, Sensitive. I hate being ignored...Do you have a fear of being ignored? If so, you and I and others have athazagoraphobia. Check the phobia out at www.phobialist.com!

Hi there!!! You know, I never thought of that...that is a good point that you have there! It could be. See I have been ignored ever since I was a kid. When people ignore me I feel like crying or not being here...I think that God put this on your heart to tell me. A very good topic to talk about with my councelor in 2 weeks! Thank you so much for pointing that out dear friend and may God bless you!!!

 

[thenewageriseth]

Sure, no prob! Yeah, I almost cried myself when I thought my cousin was ignoring me, slightly. But then she explained that she was tired. I thought I was boring her. And that fair-weather hussy, Yolanda (a girl I used to be best friends with) seemed to be distant at times...there are times when I don't think about being ignored, and yet sometimes it happens...what gives?

 

[TheSensitive1]

Sure, no prob! Yeah, I almost cried myself when I thought my cousin was ignoring me, slightly. But then she explained that she was tired. I thought I was boring her. And that fair-weather hussy, Yolanda (a girl I used to be best friends with) seemed to be distant at times...there are times when I don't think about being ignored, and yet sometimes it happens...what gives?

See that is EXACTLY what happened to me! I felt as if this person was ignoring me and I started to choke up here @ work (think goodness no one was here)
Then I went home and cried and cried!!! Then that night before bed I did the EXACT same thing...I cryed and cryed... I got a NASTY head ache . I get like this when I feel ignored because of the following:

• I do not have a boyfriend/husband
• I do NOT have a kid
• I do NOT look of the world (that is a blessing)
• I am quiet and shy...oh that one gets me.....Here is a PERFECT example of that one. My landlord REALLY likes my roommate Newlight. BUT once we BOTH were @ the main office of our appt. asking him a question and he looked at my roommate and said...I like ya BUT did not look @ me at all. ONLY CAUSE I AM QUITER...OH PLEASE...

see this is what I am talking abou that hurts my feelings SOOOO much! One last note PMS does NOT help!

 

[Missing]

Yeah PMS can make me more sensitive. I don't have mood swings like some people do, but it's easier to get me to cry and such. I'm lucky for the most part when it comes to PMS symptoms, but the sensitivity thing definitely kicks up during my monthly time.

 

[thenewageriseth]

Yeah, sometimes I'm shy around people I'm close to or know a lot, usually because I am afraid to bother people and that situation probably doesn't exist in the first place...i wouldn't want to bother people...or maybe when I haven't seen someone in a while, like my cousin. She came by the house to pick me up and I didn't even give her a hug, cause I was too shy at the moment.

 

[TheSensitive1]

Yeah, sometimes I'm shy around people I'm close to or know a lot, usually because I am afraid to bother people and that situation probably doesn't exist in the first place...i wouldn't want to bother people...or maybe when I haven't seen someone in a while, like my cousin. She came by the house to pick me up and I didn't even give her a hug, cause I was too shy at the moment.

I am so much like you! I get shy just like you do when I am around others that I have not seen in a long time. What you have described sounds like me!

 

[TheSensitive1]

Yeah PMS can make me more sensitive. I don't have mood swings like some people do, but it's easier to get me to cry and such. I'm lucky for the most part when it comes to PMS symptoms, but the sensitivity thing definitely kicks up during my monthly time.

SO me!!! I hate PMS!!!!!

 

[AnointedPoetess]

Why



why does it seem like when it comes to me every1 just turns away, like i dont even matter?? wats wrong with me that i cant feel spec, loved, or appreciated by ANY1 in this whole world? i know i have God but i need ppl too.. i dont know wat to do anymore and im getting more depressed and lonely every day.. plz help..

 

[TheSensitive1]

Why



why does it seem like when it comes to me every1 just turns away, like i dont even matter?? wats wrong with me that i cant feel spec, loved, or appreciated by ANY1 in this whole world? i know i have God but i need ppl too.. i dont know wat to do anymore and im getting more depressed and lonely every day.. plz help..

My friend PLEASE do not feel that NO ONE cares because we all do here @ CF!!! I have been praying for your and remember JESUS is there for you my dear PLEASE never forget that!!!!

 

[thenewageriseth]

Yeah...ppl care...here...AP Hey, has anyone here ever felt like this: Say you were hanging out with two girls...well two of those girls seemed to click better than you would with one or the other girl...? Am I making sense?

 

[thenewageriseth]

Wow, we all have stuff in common! I forgot to add!

 

[TheSensitive1]

Wow, we all have stuff in common! I forgot to add!

AMEN!!!! God bless you dear one!!!!!