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In the past, i was thinking about my ocd and a coincidence happened. someone said my name i think. he or she was not calling me but another with the same name. since that day, I used to worry to hear my name when thinking about my ocd. Today, my boss was telling to his wife my name and i was hearing them from far away. probably he was talking about me and my name. He said something like "Kostas" and "Konstantinos" (complete name). i left his house and was thinking for other reasons not related to ocd . i was thinking the words "Kostas" "Konstantinos" and some seconds later a kid was running and suddenly says to his father "I am faster than "Kosta-" "Konstantino". he was not talking about me but for another kid but I got worried because not only he mentioned my name almost the same time i was thinking it but in almost the same way. i was "Kostas" "'Konstantinos" and some seconds later the kid was like "'Kosta-" "Konstantino". is this a coincidence? I worry if the Generic God is sending me a maybe sign about my ocd. is this a coincidence?
 

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In the past, i was thinking about my ocd and a coincidence happened. someone said my name i think. he or she was not calling me but another with the same name. since that day, I used to worry to hear my name when thinking about my ocd. Today, my boss was telling to his wife my name and i was hearing them from far away. probably he was talking about me and my name. He said something like "Kostas" and "Konstantinos" (complete name). i left his house and was thinking for other reasons not related to ocd . i was thinking the words "Kostas" "Konstantinos" and some seconds later a kid was running and suddenly says to his father "I am faster than "Kosta-" "Konstantino". he was not talking about me but for another kid but I got worried because not only he mentioned my name almost the same time i was thinking it but in almost the same way. i was "Kostas" "'Konstantinos" and some seconds later the kid was like "'Kosta-" "Konstantino". is this a coincidence? I worry if the Generic God is sending me a maybe sign about my ocd. is this a coincidence?

That sounds like paranoia to me.
 
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I've noticed that you always post about your ocd.
at this point, the only advice I can give you is to seek help from a doctor.
You need help. But It takes a lot to admit that you're not okay.
I'll pray for you.

I'm schizophrenic and I'm slowly getting better and better in time.
Skepticism is slowly curing my mental illness.
I try to reject irrelevant thoughts as much as I can.
 
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I've noticed that you always post about your ocd.
at this point, the only advice I can give you is to seek help from a doctor.
You need help. But It takes a lot to admit that you're not okay.
I'll pray for you.

I'm schizophrenic and I'm slowly getting better and better in time.
Skepticism is slowly curing my mental illness.
I try to reject irrelevant thoughts as much as I can.

Similar here. I actually improved when I took up physics. I require more evidence to support my assumptions. That helped with my paranoia quite a bit.
 
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Similar here. I actually improved when I took up physics. I require more evidence to support my assumptions. That helped with my paranoia quite a bit.
Good thing is, I'm very self aware that it's just a mental battle I'm facing. That none of it is actually true but just involuntary subconscious thoughts. *which I'm already taking control of, now that I'm getting better. :)

ignorance, self-rebuttal, and self-awareness helped me. (in my case, at least)
 
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Good thing is, I'm very self aware that it's just a mental battle I'm facing. That none of it is actually true but just involuntary subconscious thoughts. *which I'm already taking control of, now that I'm getting better. :)

ignorance, self-rebuttal, and self-awareness helped me. (in my case, at least)

You sound like you're doing well. I do pretty much the same I think:). I get dizzy and hallucinate when I work so I tell myself it's just hallucinations and try to ignore them.
 
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You sound like you're doing well. I do pretty much the same I think:). I get dizzy and hallucinate when I work so I tell myself it's just hallucinations and try to ignore them.
Yep. You're just hallucinating. I'm 100% sure
I always hear someone whisper my name, but turns out it's just my dad snoring or a sound somewhere.

The more you think about something the more it occupies your brain and the more restless you become + the more mentally and/or emotionally unstable you become.
ex. working out = muscles = body image/shape conscious = anxiety = body insecurities

If you have nightmares this might help you:
"Dreams are just part of the subconscious garbage cleaning process while you sleep."
 
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