How bout it? Anyone feel like sometimes things just don't seem to matter like they used to? I feel like I'm in a bit of a rut sort of. Everything has become reptitious. I'm ready to do something. Not a mid-life crisis, but just wanting something different.
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30's and bored....anyone?
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Hi~ I can relate a bit. I think what I struggle with is being in my 30's (late 30s) and not really remembering what hobbies or what I am interesed in personally anymore.....make sense? I've been so into being wife and mom that at times when I get a day to my self I don't know what to do with it because I can't remember what I use to do! LOL! So I usually end up doing the normal "mom" stuff. LOL! My husband and I have really committed ourselves to having dates several times a month. That's helping. I also am realizing that I like to shop by myself. I get more done and I enjoy it more.
Try to get into a hobby to find out what you like. Maybe get with some other women and have a girls day out once a month...do movie, dinner, shop etc... whatever your interest may be. See if that might help with the bordem (did I spell that right??
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Rejoice
Try to get into a hobby to find out what you like. Maybe get with some other women and have a girls day out once a month...do movie, dinner, shop etc... whatever your interest may be. See if that might help with the bordem (did I spell that right??
)Rejoice
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Brother Jason
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Lol, all my kids, I don't have much time to be bored, I guess I can face that in my late 40's!
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I agree with lookin4acity... my kids keep me busy enough to not be bored! But, if nothing else, you might look into getting a hobby that allows you to meet new people.
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I think my wife might not like that.....
We don't have any kids yet. I work with youth at church from 4th grade on up thru seniors. They keep me busy somewhat.
Thanks for the encouraging words though everybody. I sure appreciate it.
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I'm in my 30's and my wife is in her late 20's. We don't have kids and we get bored. We went out and bought atv's and it helps but we can't always go riding. Movies have been going down hill and you can only do so much window shopping. We are always looking for new ideas for things to do.
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I don't feel bored.
But I feel like time has sped up, and I don't have enough time! 10 minutes goes by so fast. Anyone remember when minutes used to feel like hours?
I also feel like I'm aging....instead of feeling the invincibility of being in my twenties.
But I feel like time has sped up, and I don't have enough time! 10 minutes goes by so fast. Anyone remember when minutes used to feel like hours?
I also feel like I'm aging....instead of feeling the invincibility of being in my twenties.
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I love my wife and we have so much fun together. I'm not bored with her, I guess it's the days in a row of the same thing. Just love the variety once in a while.
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Man, it's just toooooooo cold to even think about getting on a 4 wheeler right now!
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there are days when I feel really "old"...then there are days when I feel like there is no way I am 33 years old...I must be younger than that... til I hear a song that was popular when I was in jr high and start remembering....good grief...most of the people I work with are in their 20's or teens... I feel like a baby sitter at times
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hmmm 24 is young for that....
You know you've hit thirty when you think any age between 20 and 29 is young.
I work at a school - and today was pajama day...so I went downtown at lunch time wearing my pajamas and was almost silently mortified that I was doing such a thing. Then I remember that about 10 years ago I used to go anywhere in my pajamas and then I suddenly felt old.
You know you've hit thirty when you think any age between 20 and 29 is young.
I work at a school - and today was pajama day...so I went downtown at lunch time wearing my pajamas and was almost silently mortified that I was doing such a thing. Then I remember that about 10 years ago I used to go anywhere in my pajamas and then I suddenly felt old.
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Really when I hit thirty I felt
Like I have lived the hardest part
Of my life and now it will be a bit
Smooth sailing...at least I hope.
Like I have lived the hardest part
Of my life and now it will be a bit
Smooth sailing...at least I hope.
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