Hey Mike,
Just a quick note of appreciation for your respectfull response to Hobie.
I believe there is more balance there than can adequately or fully be conveyed on paper. From my own experience I know that sometimes it's difficult to bring about a particular point and not come across as against another.
Hobie,
I have been working so much overtime that I have not been able yet to get through all you've written. I like to read and chew and seek God and His Word on the issues before I conclude anything. But praise God for the overtime. I've asked Him to meet my needs and He's faithful.
Mostly I want to incourage you and say I do understand what is coming out of your heart and agree. Just like everyone we come in contact with we must listen with the heart of God, not the heart of our flesh. I know that's how I want people to treat me so I show the same respect to them. That's what Jesus said to do, "love your neighbor as you love yourself".
Thanks for taking the time and energy to help people understand an extremely controversial subject. I don't really understand why it's controversial but it is.
Others,
Let me tell you a little about myself as well . . .I'm 48 years old. I've known the Lord since I was a child (around 3 or 4 years old) and while I have made a few bad decisions I have never backslid.
I grew up in the church but I did not grow up in a christian home. We did go to church regularly but violence frequented our home. My mother was quite abusive to me. Unfortionately for my brother and sister I left home at the age of 18. Once I left she started on them. My father left soon after that too.
God has brought me through a lot of garbage. It was His grace that brought me through. It was His mercy that healed me from the emotional gashes in my soul and my spirit. It was His grace and mercy that not just brought me through, but made me the victor and not the victom.
I come in contact with people everyday who are still trapped in the pain of abuse, Time period anywhere from yesterday to 50 years ago. I am living proof that it does not have to hang on forever. Jesus heals. He heals my spirit, He heals my mind, He heals my body.
I took God at His Word, I belived Him. He did not fail me.
Yes, there were and are difficult times. He builds my faith and works mercy in me towards others through those times. I do not see life as "pleasantville". I do however see it as full of God who bestows on man every good gift. If I had never received His mercy, I could never, ever have mercy on others? I understand fully the agony people go through. But thank God, through Jesus Christ there is deliverence.
I'm not saying it happens in an instant. But it can. I know it does not have to take a century. I know that I do not have to make everyone around me misrable because of my pain. Jesus took it all.
I'm not saying I never get down, but the only time I do is when I get my eyes off of Him and on to myself. My bills, my sicknesses, my pain, my thoughts, my self.
Ps 91:1 says "He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty." That's His promise and I believe it. As long as my eyes are on Him, I'm not swayed by what is happening to or around me. That's HIS promise.
God is faithful to fulfill all His promises.