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HI......
ok so i really need to say this, i'm not doin ok, i really want to be beter, i want to be cured, i really don't think there's nothing wrong with me...I just think i'm ugly, b/c i am, i'm never happy..i don't think anyone knows how i feel , or really understand, they say they do, but they have no idea..i know this may seem wierd but i just wanted to say.......I'm not ok...any ideas....no...i just think i'm crazy..i can't deal anymore..........
 

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ahideousbeauty said:
HI......
ok so i really need to say this, i'm not doin ok, i really want to be beter, i want to be cured, i really don't think there's nothing wrong with me...I just think i'm ugly, b/c i am, i'm never happy..i don't think anyone knows how i feel , or really understand, they say they do, but they have no idea..i know this may seem wierd but i just wanted to say.......I'm not ok...any ideas....no...i just think i'm crazy..i can't deal anymore..........

Hey wait a minute, you are a Princess. Both my girls are Princesses and so are you! You are "not" ugly!

God loves you and so do I. It's time for you to accept the truth and not lies that come from Satan!

God wants to heal you if you are willing to deal with the problems that you are facing...

Do you want that?
 
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ahideousbeauty said:
HI......
ok so i really need to say this, i'm not doin ok, i really want to be beter, i want to be cured, i really don't think there's nothing wrong with me...I just think i'm ugly, b/c i am, i'm never happy..i don't think anyone knows how i feel , or really understand, they say they do, but they have no idea..i know this may seem wierd but i just wanted to say.......I'm not ok...any ideas....no...i just think i'm crazy..i can't deal anymore..........


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Hey there precious, I agree with missionary


Just to let you know I care.

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it is great that you want to feel better! why arnt you happy? is it a school thing, a personal thing... you can reply or pm me, whatever you prefer. Whatever it is I do know that God understands and is there for you. He knows about pain, fear, doubt, whatever, and he can carry you. When you cant go alone, ask him to help.
Also know that he made you special, unique, one-of-a-kind. there is no one else like you, you were created for a reason. I love the chorus and bridge to a song "you a a jewel your a treasure, your one of a kind. And you shine just as bright as the stars in the sky, your a rare kind of wonder created just right. So keep your head up no matter the pain, cause theirs nothing about you thats plain" "See your mind it is precious though your heart may be restles and your eyes they will see all that your ment to be. Cause your spirit is strong, and your soul carries on; You'll keep your head up no matter the pain, cause there is nothing about you thats plain"
 
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ahideousbeauty said:
HI......
ok so i really need to say this, i'm not doin ok, i really want to be beter, i want to be cured, i really don't think there's nothing wrong with me...I just think i'm ugly, b/c i am, i'm never happy..i don't think anyone knows how i feel , or really understand, they say they do, but they have no idea..i know this may seem wierd but i just wanted to say.......I'm not ok...any ideas....no...i just think i'm crazy..i can't deal anymore..........


Well, for 1. Define ugly? God dont do ugly, You think your ugly cause your force fed the views of modern culture. Back years years ago. Skinny woman were ugly and men wanted the big woman.

Dont let society define you, be yourself if the guys that let culture deicde what looks is dont like you. O well at least you have a free mind.


as for the depression, Why not goto a mental hospital get help, meet other kids like you ( i went to 3 or 4 when i was under 18 i met alot of friends and like minded people with the same mindsets and issues it will be good for you.)

If you already went go agian !.
 
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Oh, honey, being 15 is the pits!

It's hard to feel like you fit in, and even harder to know yourself because there's so many things out there that are confusing...There's the world's view of sex, and models who look like they're famine refugees, then boys, and there's always those mean girls who will insult you one minute and try to be your friend the next.

Just know that you are who God wants you to be...I'm willing to bet that when you smile, your whole face lights up with that "inner light" God gives us all, but not everyone allows to shine.

I'll let you in on a little secret about me. When I was 13, I was 5'4" tall and weighed over 200 lbs. Now, by the world's standards, I was a homely little kid! But we change as we get older, and you will change as well.

Now, have you spoken to a parent, school counselor or anyone else about the way you are feeling? It's never good to hold those kind of feelings in for too long. Didn't it feel good just to get it out in this forum?

Above all, you have prayers coming your way, sweetie. Don't listen to the devil, he's a liar and a thief of all that is righteous in God's kindom. And as a daughter of God, know that He's there to listen to your prayers and comfort you.

Don't forget to let that light of yours shine :wave:
 
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MaraPetra said:
Oh, honey, being 15 is the pits!

It's hard to feel like you fit in, and even harder to know yourself because there's so many things out there that are confusing...There's the world's view of sex, and models who look like they're famine refugees, then boys, and there's always those mean girls who will insult you one minute and try to be your friend the next.

Just know that you are who God wants you to be...I'm willing to bet that when you smile, your whole face lights up with that "inner light" God gives us all, but not everyone allows to shine.

I'll let you in on a little secret about me. When I was 13, I was 5'4" tall and weighed over 200 lbs. Now, by the world's standards, I was a homely little kid! But we change as we get older, and you will change as well.

Now, have you spoken to a parent, school counselor or anyone else about the way you are feeling? It's never good to hold those kind of feelings in for too long. Didn't it feel good just to get it out in this forum?

Above all, you have prayers coming your way, sweetie. Don't listen to the devil, he's a liar and a thief of all that is righteous in God's kindom. And as a daughter of God, know that He's there to listen to your prayers and comfort you.

Don't forget to let that light of yours shine :wave:


Wonderful advice...Thank you
 
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ahideousbeauty said:
HI......
ok so i really need to say this, i'm not doin ok, i really want to be beter, i want to be cured, i really don't think there's nothing wrong with me...I just think i'm ugly, b/c i am, i'm never happy..i don't think anyone knows how i feel , or really understand, they say they do, but they have no idea..i know this may seem wierd but i just wanted to say.......I'm not ok...any ideas....no...i just think i'm crazy..i can't deal anymore..........
A good dose of self esteem is what you need! You are a smart, wonderful, brilliant, BEAUTIFUL individual and you can do ANYTHING that you set your pretty little head too! Don't let that devil bring you down because God loves you. NOT ONE of His creations are ugly so NEVER think that! Remember that God is there for you and completely understands you though others might not, and He sees you as His beautiful little child. Thanksgiving is the cure, so just start thanking God for everything that He has given you. It just makes me feel a ton better!Best of Wishes, and I will pray for you. Never give up because you are surrounded by friends here that love and care about you and want you to keep going. We have all gone through something like this in our lives. You just have to trust God and know that you are just so beautiful... I have felt that way before, but everytime I know that it is just satan messing with me now. God bless you! Lily00 :yum:
 
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lily00 said:
A good dose of self esteem is what you need! You are a smart, wonderful, brilliant, BEAUTIFUL individual and you can do ANYTHING that you set your pretty little head too! Don't let that devil bring you down because God loves you. NOT ONE of His creations are ugly so NEVER think that! Remember that God is there for you and completely understands you though others might not, and He sees you as His beautiful little child. Thanksgiving is the cure, so just start thanking God for everything that He has given you. It just makes me feel a ton better!Best of Wishes, and I will pray for you. Never give up because you are surrounded by friends here that love and care about you and want you to keep going. We have all gone through something like this in our lives. You just have to trust God and know that you are just so beautiful... I have felt that way before, but everytime I know that it is just satan messing with me now. God bless you! Lily00 :yum:

Well spoken lily00! Well spoken!
 
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